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What would we say if our attorney, doctor, hairstylist et cetera charged us $300.00 hourly then asked us for Uber reimbursement?
 
Some escorts and clients have lost focus on reality.

I don't like to do it because they're using my account. If they cause any problems, damages, etc, I get the repercussions and the fallout. I have done it if they're traveling and want to do the session at their hotel, but are willing to make an exception to do an outcall if I pay for the Uber.

I strongly prefer providers who handle it themselves, even if it's with an increased fee. You ever order someone an Uber, then send screen shots so they know the car and license plate? Or have a provider miss the car (since they're not paying, they don't care about cancellation fees)? PITA. I'm not paying, as someone said, to be someone's social secretary.
 
If a provider is from out of town, I prefer they adjust their fees accordingly.
 
It's a hard stop for me if someone agrees, then only later demands an Uber. I just cancel- that's the same as demanding extra money at the last moment. Common scam.
 
Also, extra Uber fees should only be for established, reliable escorts. I've encountered kids with no reviews who think they're worth 300 plus Uber. One of them thought that if he held out, I'd get horny and agree to his Uber an hour later. Cute.
 
As far as "cheap" is concerned- how many times has someone said it? If I pissed away my money like that all the time, I wouldn't have money to hire. And it's more about my self respect than the money.

But do you charge extra for the flowers and candy because they’re being delivered? No. You charge to deliver them.

I don't like to do it because they're using my account. If they cause any problems, damages, etc, I get the repercussions and the fallout. I have done it if they're traveling and want to do the session at their hotel, but are willing to make an exception to do an outcall if I pay for the Uber.

I’ll make you a deal. When the in/out rates are the same, I’ll pay for an Uber. What is the higher out rate for if not to compensate for travel?
 
But, you do you. If you’re comfortable paying extra for an outcall plus footing the transportation, have at it.

I don’t consider paying a guy $300+ for an hour of his time as treating him like a lowlife or being cheap. And let’s be honest, there are millions of people out there working for their money, getting over rough spots, supplementing income of a lower paying job, and getting through school. None of them get paid that rate for their time, nor do they have their transportation paid for them getting to and from that second job to supplement their income.
 
Now, if you’re hiring someone who isn’t local, he should absolutely be compensated for his travel, but I’m not paying someone a higher outcall rate plus their transportation if he’s a half hour away. Last year, I hired a California provider for a weekend, bought his airline ticket, and flew him to me. I see a NY provider regularly and pay his transportation costs to me. That’s understandable and expected. My daily transportation costs for my job are on me. If I need to travel for work, I expense the travel to my employer.
 
I find it interesting that providers want clients to understand they’re running a business and want it to be treated as such, until, for some, treating it like a business isn’t advantageous to them.

I don't like to do it because they're using my account. If they cause any problems, damages, etc, I get the repercussions and the fallout. I have done it if they're traveling and want to do the session at their hotel, but are willing to make an exception to do an outcall if I pay for the Uber.

Higher outcall rate, one could argue, is to only cover the extra time the provider spends getting to and from the meeting place, not transport costs.
 
The client is only paying for the provider's time, remember!!

I don't like to do it because they're using my account. If they cause any problems, damages, etc, I get the repercussions and the fallout. I have done it if they're traveling and want to do the session at their hotel, but are willing to make an exception to do an outcall if I pay for the Uber.

In person, he looks younger than his pics. I’d believe 29 , or well within an generally acceptable ‘escort grace period’ of 29.

Just like I have no desire to pay by the act as opposed to the meet, I have no willingness to discuss add-ons and fees. Set your rates (with uber transportation costs included) but don't break them down into add-on fees.. it's a turn-off. It's bad enough dealing with that shit booking hotels, rental cars, and airlines.

A lot of the guys on those sites are like that... They'll hook up if they can post it online. Sex is their business, so I get it. They're hot enough to get guys who will let them post it online, so why not pick the guy who will make them money?

I had never seen that before... Maybe she wears the strap on?

I don't think he would be because he escorted for some time, so certainly he must have had some "big" clients. I think he publishes videos with "fit" people (regardless of race) because it's more appealing to viewers (market demand).

I just finished my session with CharlieScott, and had absolutely the best time. He looks even better than his pics, was very laid back accommodating. Best of all, while fulfilling all my wishes, he seemed to genuinely enjoy his time with me (and I’m no ogre but I look nothing like him).
 
When I texted him he sent me a clear message of his different services and prices. Agreement on what we’d do and when we’d do it was easy. He has very recently decided to offer more intimate services, and of course that’s what I took him up on. If you’re a premium member on RentMen, he’s posted a few tantalizing videos to show what those services might entail.
 
He told me I was his first ‘full service’ client , so lucky me, I feel very privileged indeed!

That's just in the past few weeks. You are like this with dozens of providers all over the country. So, yeah, I've grown tired of you constantly tearing people down.

I talked to him a few months ago. Was very nice and prompt with responses, but charging over 300 and no face was a nonstarter. If you're not going to show your face, you should be under 300, not over, in my opinion.

There is nothing in the OP's post that even remotely implies that his bewilderment is because the guy is Asian. The ad is a fully clothed school pic taken in 2017.... It's certainly not your typical RM ad. To publicly call him a racist and then provide a link to "educate" him is completely out of line.

There is nothing in the OP's post that even remotely implies that his bewilderment is because the guy is Asian. The ad is a fully clothed school pic taken in 2017.... It's certainly not your typical RM ad. To publicly call him a racist and then provide a link to "educate" him is completely out of line.

The last part of your post

contradicts the first part

 
Did you meet him or not? If you did, you might want to edit the post.

I have a grindr profile with those images. I tap anyone I find attractive and would like to get with.
If a guy writes back, I ask if they understand my profile. Some say yes, let’s hang I charge xyz.
 
some people say I think so, and some say no. I say I enjoy going to the ATM, and I usually withdraw more cash than will fit in my wallet, so I look for fit, young men who can help take some off my hands.
 
By this point, usually anyone who goes a bit farther gets it. I have found this to be very useful in areas with limited rentmen options.

That's so sad... Always enjoyed his work. Weird how Bobby Trendy was announcing it. From my time in LA, anywhere there was drama, he snuck his way into the inner circle and became a spokesperson.

https://www.queermenow.net/blog/bo-dean-has-gone-to-heaven-reported-on-facebook/
 

If you won’t say what the problem was, then why bring it up? You don’t have to go into detail, but as guidance for fellow forum members, what you’ve provided so far is not helpful.