filmbuff78

Set something up with him when he was coming to Albuquerque. Tried to confirm the day before and no response. Looked at his ad and saw he changed his trip dates, so I sent a second message, referring to the changed trip dates, and no response. Flake. 

Right. Because guys never claim online to be tops, then turn out to be bottoms when you meet them in person. Especially in Los Angeles—no, everyone is truthful about what sexual role they are online.

 

I have some waterfront property in Florida I’d like to sell you ...

I just said that I had a different experience and made a point not to discount yours. There's no need to get nasty.

 

He’s a total bottom. Huge cock. Nice guy. But he is a bottom unless you’re a young hung guy and his type.

 

And FWIW, the insinuation that he only tops for hung guys is counterintuitive. Some total tops will only flip for a hung guy that they're really into. Bottoms drool and get on all fours when they see a huge cock. That's the last time they'd be looking to experiment with topping.

He’s a total bottom. Huge cock. Nice guy. But he is a bottom unless you’re a young hung guy and his type.

I had texted him about topping and he never indicated it was a problem. My schedule didn't line up with his availability, so we never met up. Not to discount your experience, but my experience wasn't the same.

I don't like to do it because they're using my account. If they cause any problems, damages, etc, I get the repercussions and the fallout. I have done it if they're traveling and want to do the session at their hotel, but are willing to make an exception to do an outcall if I pay for the Uber.

That's usually the arrangement I hear.

A lot of the guys on those sites are like that... They'll hook up if they can post it online. Sex is their business, so I get it. They're hot enough to get guys who will let them post it online, so why not pick the guy who will make them money?

Also, can someone please explain to me the mechanics of a "Bisexual Bottom"? ?

I had never seen that before... Maybe she wears the strap on?

#StopAsianHate - Fight Anti-Asian Racism

There is nothing in the OP's post that even remotely implies that his bewilderment is because the guy is Asian. The ad is a fully clothed school pic taken in 2017.... It's certainly not your typical RM ad. To publicly call him a racist and then provide a link to "educate" him is completely out of line.

That's so sad... Always enjoyed his work. Weird how Bobby Trendy was announcing it. From my time in LA, anywhere there was drama, he snuck his way into the inner circle and became a spokesperson.

Thats the most idiotic question known to man. You do know escorts travel and look for new markets, right? Also, I don't have to spend money flying out anyone just because I am interested in them.

Sorry your search for out of town escorts who you can't afford has been so stressful that you need to lash out at me like that. I hope you have better luck with the next guy.

Joseph_fit did eventually respond through RM messenger, but the reply was pointless. I am not flying out anybody. We are in a pandemic and I still have not gotten my stimmy.

If he isn't in your city and you're not flying anyone out, then why waste his time?

Have seen him a couple of times. Amazing body, but that's about all. First time was meh... I felt like he should get a second chance. A little better, but just felt like he was going through the motions. Personable, yet disconnected at the same time. Hard to explain. PM me if you want lore details.

I've met him as well. Beautiful man, inside and out. Would definitely recommend him.

First of all I am reporting the facts, you called it negative, it’s simply the facts.

Secondly he should take his ad off of Rentmen, and go to the Massage site only, thirdly he should mention in his as he won’t travel, how hard is that?

Also with his “into’s” it certainly seemed like he was offering more so that should be changed as well.

This site is for sharing btw

He’s very full of self importance

Flake

Complete flake.

He’s trouble

Rude and has a superior feeling to gay men. Pass

That's just in the past few weeks. You are like this with dozens of providers all over the country. So, yeah, I've grown tired of you constantly tearing people down.

Massage only and no travel. Darn.

His ad is pretty explicit that he does just massage. I've seen him. He gives a great massage and is a nice guy, too. Why give a negative report to the forum because you don't like that he has boundaries and didn't change them for you?

Got a massage from him when I was in Dallas earlier in the year. Sweet guy, rock hard body. Very easy to be around. Didn't hire him as an escort, but based on my experience, I can't see that being anything but a good experience.

I saw him a few months ago and if he was high, I didn't notice... Definitely didn't have a problem getting the job done. It was a late night, last minute "available now" hire so I wasn't looking for an hour of romance either.

Saw him last week and had a great time! Sexy, friendly and fun in bed. Would definitely hire again.

I talked to him a few months ago. Was very nice and prompt with responses, but charging over 300 and no face was a nonstarter. If you're not going to show your face, you should be under 300, not over, in my opinion.

I never ask about hair, but I never take a hat off without permission

You're supposed to tip for good service. The business structure is none of your concern nor is your area of expertise. You have no idea how much it costs to run a massage business, especially if your only exposure is as a customer. Independent guys pay for their own insurance, studio space (some guys get a larger, more expensive apartment to accommodate clients), they pay for all supplies, business taxes, business bank accounts, marketing, legal and accounting fees, larger and more expensive phone plans, PLUS they do all of their own scheduling, answering questions, etc. There's no admin assistant setting everything up for them. They spend more time on you before and after the massage than someone in a spa, who is given their schedule for the day and then goes home.

I used to massage for many years. The vast majority tip. I never treated anyone as less than if they didn't tip, but if you want to be a priority and get VIP treatment, it's a good idea to tip. These guys can only take so many clients. If I had to choose between the guy who tips and the guy who doesn't, well, you can guess who got the appointment.

At the end of the day, I feel withholding a tip because you feel the provider already gets enough is inappropriate and being cheap. I'd never go to a small, family owned and operated restaurant and not leave a tip because they also own the restaurant.

Mike was a nice guy, but he had problems keeping it “up” during my time with him.

Has NEVER had a problem keeping it "up" with me quite the contrary.

Way to tear someone down, man. You already started the thread to boast about having a great time with him. No need to come back to gloat and belittle someone else who didn't share your experience.

Yes, I always negotiated him down to 300 back in 2016. But when I reached out in 2018 to see if he would travel to AC (he mentions Monmouth NJ in his profile) he replied 450 for AC even with our past history!!!!! Too much $$$$ for my wallet

Asking him to travel all that way AND do it at a discount? When you negotiate escorts down, don't expect VIP treatment. The "history" you have is that you're not valuing their worth.

Great guy, beautiful body, fun in bed. Always enjoy spending time with him. Can't say enough great things about him. So glad I'm not the type where we have to have the same thoughts on taxes and foreign policy to enjoy each other's company.

Scruffy, rugged type. Was a lot of fun. Definitely recommend him

Had an unpleasant experience with him over texting. He's been in town twice but our travel schedules didn't sync up. Got a snarky text at 2 am because I didn't make an appointment with him. Pass.