Cody Converse

Timely advice: When you are trying to get out of a deep hole, stop digging.

Agreed. He is hot! I thought so from the time he arrived in Philly!

I wouldn't be offended at all if a client asked me that. If you called a plumber, you wouldn't want to pay him if he only unclogged 80% of the drain. If you don't think you'll get a satisfactory experience from this guy, find someone who will, or postpone the meeting until you're first in line! The last thing I want is a disappointed client.

Lol...unfortunately Tyler isn’t here on this trip, but we’d like that sound, too!!

Is it possible to not do it over Coachella weekend?

Unless one shares.
 
Hugs,
Greg

The pool gathering will be here next year! Salt water pool.

I accept appointments from select patients in or visiting Philly with similar interests in examination and testing

When you check providers’ descriptions they include BDSM in their descriptions. If I’m interested in something kinky, I’ll often include that in my text. A surprising number have seemed willing to try it, although my version is fairly vanilla.

You might want to google 'harvey weinstein.' Just sayin...

My breaking point is an overweight man who just lays there and expects me to physically move him around - not playfully throw him around, mind you, but roll him over because he can't or won't do it himself. Though you can basically remove "overweight" in that statement lol

No one said it was okay, just that it's not unexpected. It sounds like they liked the fantasy, got their rocks off, and then blocked you before they had to commit. Happens all the time, especially when money starts getting involved. Grindr has a shitty reputation for a reason, and getting upset over three dicks in a sea of assholes is pointless ¯\_(ツ)\_/¯

Every time I see some twink on Grindr write "no one old enough to be my dad," I just think "more for me!"
 
In all seriousness, great discussion in this thread. I've been a daddy-chaser since I was a teenager, and I can't see myself ever stopping. In a community that worships youth, it's important that we not forget a) the sacrifices older men made so us young'uns could have the freedom we do today, and b) regardless of age, we're all human. Discounting anyone for their age is silly...the best sex I've ever had was a man in his mid-50s I was seeing for a few years, and the single most intense session I've ever had was with a client in his seventies. Don't knock till you try it!

Every time I see some twink on Grindr write "no one old enough to be my dad," I just think "more for me!"
 
In all seriousness, great discussion in this thread. I've been a daddy-chaser since I was a teenager, and I can't see myself ever stopping. In a community that worships youth, it's important that we not forget a) the sacrifices older men made so us young'uns could have the freedom we do today, and b) regardless of age, we're all human. Discounting anyone for their age is silly...the best sex I've ever had was a man in his mid-50s I was seeing for a few years, and the single most intense session I've ever had was with a client in his seventies. Don't knock till you try it!

Well, he picked me up just over an hour later, slightly sweatier and significantly stickier in retrospect it's funny, but still the time it was mortifying.

Every time I see some twink on Grindr write "no one old enough to be my dad," I just think "more for me!"
 
In all seriousness, great discussion in this thread. I've been a daddy-chaser since I was a teenager, and I can't see myself ever stopping. In a community that worships youth, it's important that we not forget a) the sacrifices older men made so us young'uns could have the freedom we do today, and b) regardless of age, we're all human. Discounting anyone for their age is silly...the best sex I've ever had was a man in his mid-50s I was seeing for a few years, and the single most intense session I've ever had was with a client in his seventies. Don't knock till you try it!

Every time I see some twink on Grindr write "no one old enough to be my dad," I just think "more for me!"
 
In all seriousness, great discussion in this thread. I've been a daddy-chaser since I was a teenager, and I can't see myself ever stopping. In a community that worships youth, it's important that we not forget a) the sacrifices older men made so us young'uns could have the freedom we do today, and b) regardless of age, we're all human. Discounting anyone for their age is silly...the best sex I've ever had was a man in his mid-50s I was seeing for a few years, and the single most intense session I've ever had was with a client in his seventies. Don't knock till you try it!

As a gent who is 55 - I hire for the ease of hiring - also the benefit of getting something that works for you (well most of the time). I would much prefer to spend a few hours enjoying myself that hours spent in a bar or on an app only to be rejected.
 
Having said that as a large caucasian male I find that some Asian gentleman are very attracted to me. Total opposite of them I guess. BUT that works when I travel on my own in Asia

Nothing better than a boy who worships and services Dad dick.

Guilty as charged, octogenarians to the front of the line

Great thread. I feel like old guys are one of the world's best kept secrets. They're sort of like that exotic tourist destination that only the most sophisticated, in-the-know people know about. I don't want the word to get out about what fabulous partners they can be. I feel really fortunate to be attracted to men my own age.

Well, I don't know that it is necessary encoded in the law books, but think about it practically: if there is an undercover cop in a hotel room waiting to nab an escort, how likely is he to whip out his dick or stick his tongue down the guy's throat? It seems like they would need some verbal or written confirmation of the transaction in order to prove that it is prostitution.
 
Years ago I had an instance (as a client) where I went to an escort's hotel room and as soon as I arrived he started trying to get me to spell out what I was paying him for ("If I let you fuck me, you are going to give me money, right?"). I kept it vague, but after about three minutes of wordplay I walked out, never having touched him or mentioned money. Perhaps that was overly cautious, but it just didn't feel right.

Keep a nondecript appearing "trick bag" packed with various essentials you think you might need. Mine has water-based and synthetic lubes, condoms of various sizes, and dildos of various sizes. Plus a paddle and mini flogger just in case. Often the bag is never opened if the host has his own stuff but it's good to know it's all there.
 
If that's all too much for traveling light just bring a couple of little bottles of lube in your carry-on. TSA has seen everything, no need to be shy.

I just got the message from Grindr RE: audio messaging available. We will see how much that gets used.
 
I also got a request to participate in a short survey (I did), they seem to be considering their own ride share service for hook ups, LOL. Versus Lyft or Über
 
Chinese ownership or not....it’s great they are working actively on the business model.

No one said it was okay, just that it's not unexpected. It sounds like they liked the fantasy, got their rocks off, and then blocked you before they had to commit. Happens all the time, especially when money starts getting involved. Grindr has a shitty reputation for a reason, and getting upset over three dicks in a sea of assholes is pointless ¯\_(ツ)\_/¯