MassageDrew

If he's talking to you about his trips and other personal stuff then he's likely treating you as a friend and nothing more. Taking it to another level would probably kill any chances and you'd end up driving him away especially if he doesn't feel the same way. As for the faceless Grindr profile, you're one of those. If he's like me, I never respond go faceless profiles. You can write your stats all you want but I prefer a pic. Ugh, and some guys use a picture that's at least a decade old as if I can't tell how old it is. What's this, age of AOL?

I can fall asleep on anything. I just don't like it when it's too soft. Thread counts does matter though. I don't use anything less 800 thread count. I sometimes stay at my friend's house when I watch his dogs and all their bedding including the bed itself are similar to what they use at the Aria in Vegas. The sheets are nice but the bed is too soft. I can't sleep when I feel like I'm sinking. Too soft.

If you've seen his profile on Grindr then I'm sure he's seen yours. If nothing happened til now then, most likely, nothing will ever happen. I'd let it go. Keep it platonic and professional.

I wouldn't say anything at all. It's one of those things you should just keep to yourself. It's tempting but you cannot take it back if the other doesn't feel the same way. Then it's just awkward. It's one of those fine lines you really don't want to cross.

It has to start somewhere. Instead of paying his fees and travel expenses, why don't you travel to him first, get your first experience, and see if you find it worth it to actually want to spend an extended time with him.

I'd you like that kind of look, why not. I wouldn't put him in the jock category for sure. Still an ass though. Can't wait for him to lose.

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That is some expectation to think you'd want to do any work. Let alone for someone else. That friend just became an acquaintance. One more stunt and he'll be ghosted entirely.

That's nice of them. It's gotten do commercialized that people focus more on having the material side of it. I'm still getting used to the idea that people register for their gifts. I remember going to a wedding where no gifts were necessary. They're happy to get what you give but they're just happy to share the happy event with you. As it should be. Now, I have a friend who moved from one apartment to another and registered for housewarming gifts. WTF I might consider it if he owned the place but it was only an apartment. I declined the invitation. I gave no time for b/s.

She's trying to milk whatever fame she think she has. Unfortunately, some fall for it. I say don't get married if you're too poor to have a wedding. What's next? Ask for funding to raise their kids?

Was just there last weekend. The Campus was surprisingly a dud though. Crowd was light. I liked Stock bar better. But my buddy and I bounced from those to too unity and other dance clubs. He had to work a bit so I told him I'm going to Oasis Sunda lol. Had fun there too.

Just spent last weekend bar hopping in Montreal. Enjoyed every minute of it. I love to dance so it was nice to be able to do that. I visited the strip clubs too but I enjoyed Club Unity very much.

Been with both. Jeremy is a bit older than Brad. Brad is the better masseur imo. I like deep pressure and Jeremy does some feather touch massage which I think is nothing but bs. But I did leave happy from both.

I've been called a beast LOL This happened when I was just finishing high school. Anyway, our neighbors across the street sometimes left their kids with us to watch while my folks and theirs went out. Their kids are over all the freaking time. They come over and eat all the food then leave. Little bastards. Well one day I stopped the little one from getting to the food by shutting the fridge door on her. She tried to open it but I shut it again. She finally got tired and walked away. As she did, she turned and called me a beast. In my mind I thought "Yes keep walking" LOL

Haha. I prefer them shaved though.

This place is totally legit. It really is a spa and all their masseurs are licensed. Granted some have less experienced than others but you'll get a better massage here than from most pretend masseurs that advertise at Masseurfinder or Rentmasseur. As for extras, good luck. They do have a lot of new masseurs so it's hard to tell. They cannot really "play" or be caught playing and risk getting fired. That's not allowed there.

Hopefully I will have the room I booked when we get there. It would suck if we have to book a different once when we get there.

I booked mine with a space around the village. Will keep you posted how it goes. I actually prefer hotels but I'm meeting up with a buddy over there so it would be nice to get a 2 bedroom.

Thanks for the advice. Kinda scary situation.

A friend and I are visiting Montreal in August. Any suggestions as far as Airbnb spaces to book?

I will forgive but not really forget. Their presence is a constant reminder of what they did. I'm more careful next time.

Congrats

I love coffee and I do drink it any time of day. But I do keep a toothbrush and toothpaste in the drawer at work so I can quickly brush if I have to run to a meeting, or if I have to hangout with friends or a date directly after work. Brushing the tongue is the most important thing. Any after taste typically sticks to the tongue more than your teeth.

I do commend him for being upfront about it but expect to be ridiculed if you put it out there in public. Same goes for public breastfeeding. Yes, it’s your right to do it wherever you want but don’t expect everybody to go along with it.

Planning a trip to Toronto this summer. Any suggestions as to what neighborhood to stay? Any other suggestions? Thanks.