Time heals wounds and I don’t think I’m in pain anymore but learning to trust again is another story. My last relationship was a painful one. We’ve been together for a while then all of a sudden he just disappeared. I couldn’t reach him by email or by phone. Heck, I even tried handwritten letters. Alas, no response. I was ghosted is the term they use for that. We loved each other or so I thought, for my part at least. After a month, he just showed up at my doorstep again. He didn’t offer any explanation but just wanted to pick up where we left off as if nothing happened. After dealing with the emotional roller coaster and I made a decision to let him go. I loved him but I can’t keep the kind of relationship that has a hole in it. Maybe at some point he thought he found someone better but didn’t work out. Who knows? I’ve healed since, yes, and have dated from time to time, or hired LOL. But learning to trust is a bit harder than the healing part I think. Will I get there? Time will tell, or so they say.