MassageDrew

He is hot for sure, but I would like that it is consensual when I’m getting naked with or for someone.My privacy is one of the things I hope to control so I don’t appreciate it when it’s being violated.

I had shared living situation once. I was completely fine with the owner. When he decided to bring in another was when it became a nightmare. The owner was completely fine with the guy but we didn’t really get along. I do all my business outside. The other liked to bring everyone home. It came to a point he and his circle started to encroach on my privacy. I’m not very particular but sometimes you notice when stuff were touched or seems out of place. I left and got my own place instead. I’ve never had a roomie since. I am thinking though of maybe renting out my extra bedroom to a college student. He or she would only be there part time. The student can leave after every semester so I can have a break from him/her. It’s just a thought for now. I’m still cannot imagine having someone stay with me even for overnight.

Never been to the Jackhammer but I hear enough stories a out it. Not my scene. I did get invited to an event there for later this month. I may go just to say I’ve been there though part of me already decided not to attend. It depends on how I feel that day and my comfort level. Reminds me of Manhole. Another one that’s not my scene. If your into leather, pissing, and all the other kink you can imagine then you’ll have fun.

This is a valid question and it shouldn’t be taken into the context of racism. Body smell IMO has nothing to do with race but more like your diet. Yes, one race has a much different diet from the other which could contribute to why some have a distinct smell. Sort of like your cum. It will smell and taste different depending on what you eat. Should we resort to regulating diet now so everyone will smell the same and not feel singled out?

It depends. I’ve been with guys of different backgrounds and I smelled nothing. Maybe because I stick to people who like to be clean like I do. Who knows? I did met a guy who wanted to go all natural like no showering and all. Sorry, not my thing. I did used found a masseur who claimed he enjoys the experience with me. I asked him why and he was blunt about it. He said that some guys jump in his table smelling atrocious and others the opposite. They ise too much cologne that he’s trying not to gag. With me, he said it’s absolutely nothing. Even after the massage portion when we finally interact that he gets up close and we get really interactive. I can smell s slight musk from his pits though LOL I do have one Asian friend who dislike being with white guys. He’s actually my hangout buddy when we go to gay bars. He said they have a certain smell that puts him off. He likes black guys. They’re on top of his list LOL If he does go after one he typically picks those inder 25. He claims he hasn’t developed the smell. Still scratching my head on that one. This leads me to a question. Would you set aside your aversion to B/O if you found the guy really cute?

Gay bar 100% Been to the local Steamworks here and realized it’s just not my scene.

Is it for pure self-gratification to get all these messages that you enjoy reading? A validation of some sort? Imagine sending a message to someone and not get a response. How would you feel? Or contacting an escort or a masseur but never get a response. Using the site’s policy not to allow responses unless you’re a paying customer is almost a cop out just to get a confirmation that you’re cute or something. Just saying.

I’m a Rafael Nadal fan but this newcomer Stefanos Tsitsipas is awesome. https://goo.gl/images/KCVvvv

I think you need to build a bit of some self-confidence. Feeling and being perceived as “hot” is all about how you carry yourself. It might be intimidating to be a top if you’re on the smaller side, yes. But speaking as a bottom I can tell you that I’ve had some fun times being with average guys than hung ones.

They typically don’t allow returns or exchanges for going out of business sales. They just want to empty out their inventory.

Definitely. As soon as he sent it then he deleted his profile from the group., I tried to look him up but no luck.

My friend installed it in all of the bathrooms of his house. I must say it’s very cleansing. The one he installed even air dries your bum and you can adjust the water pressure and temperature to your liking.

Haha, I haven’t had that in ages.

Haha, the ice cream yes. Not the rocky road looking stain on the top’s cock cuz someone didn’t douche

I love frog legs. I’ve also tasted goat meat - not a fan.

Hmmm rocky road LOL

I agree. He’s just trying to see if I’d take his bait. He probably contacted others as well. He seems nice looking from the pictures he sent but he’s likely using someone else’s pictures to lure his victims. I just hope nobody falls for his tricks. He went by Micheal - the letter E came before the letter A.

I totally agree. You’d think saying I’m not interested would do the job but then he sent that long email. I’m just going to ignore him at this point.

I don’t necessarily jump up and down but I do twist or do the hula hoop motion to swish the water around. It’s like gargling with mouthwash to get all the nooks and crannies, sort of. You get my drift. Get yourself a small dildo too. After rinsing out, I use it as a test to see if there are any leftovers when you pull it out. And it gets you ready to have fun, less painful when you take on the real deal.

Okay so I’m posting this unsolicited email. First of all, I’m a member of a meetup group where he claims he found my profile. He sent me a PM through that meetup. He indicated that he really liked my profile and thought he would like to get to know me better. I responded thanking him for the interest but I wasn’t looking for any sort of relationship - serious or not. Then here is his follow-up message. What do you think? “Hi Andy, How are you doing ? , I had to take my time to write you all about me..... Please allow me to tell you more about myself. I am (deleted his name here) . I am 41 Yrs old. I have been unlucky getting a perfect match. Its has been a very bad experiences for me, but I believe God got his plans. I'm born and brought up in Toronto, The Northern part Toronto, Canada. My father is a Canadian. (from Quebec to be Precise) while my mom is from Maryland. I went through college in Canada. . I have stayed in Maryland, California and Texas. I do travel sometimes for work. I love all kind of food, anything goes for me especially Italian, and Seafood. I basically enjoy swimming, dining out, watching a good movie or professional sports (basketball/soccer/football), ones in a while visiting art galleries and museums, listening to music, playing cards/dominoes, taking a walk, and also like been around my friends.. i hope my ideal partner would some of this if not all I believe I have plenty to offer - good conversation, happy moments and making memories , no hang ups, no emotional baggage, and above all I am a genuine man! I am also very loyal, romantic and playful. I don't know if I would describe myself as 'funny', but am choosy about who I spend my time with and believe I have a charming sense of humor. It would be great to get to know you better. I can't think of anything better than sharing all that I have and all that I am with someone who loves me. What sort of relationship do you want? What type of work are you doing ? I attached a picture of my self...I hope you send me yours too. So if I touch a chord with you, please e-mail me back. Best regards (Deleted the name again)” I feel like it’s one of those “I’m a Nigerian prince and my billions is being held in a bank in some country. I just need $10k to get it out. In exchange I’ll give you 10%” type of BS that some people fall for. I’m just shaking my head. I have no plans to respond ever. Not that I’m opposed to dating and relationship, just not how he’s going about it.

Just use water. It’s as natural as you can get since you drink it every day. Do it multiple times til the water that comes out runs clear and no smell. Soap will do more damage to your body in the long run. I normally use the enema bulb when traveling. I have the shower attachments at home which makes it easier. As a first timer be sure to lube up.

Time heals wounds and I don’t think I’m in pain anymore but learning to trust again is another story. My last relationship was a painful one. We’ve been together for a while then all of a sudden he just disappeared. I couldn’t reach him by email or by phone. Heck, I even tried handwritten letters. Alas, no response. I was ghosted is the term they use for that. We loved each other or so I thought, for my part at least. After a month, he just showed up at my doorstep again. He didn’t offer any explanation but just wanted to pick up where we left off as if nothing happened. After dealing with the emotional roller coaster and I made a decision to let him go. I loved him but I can’t keep the kind of relationship that has a hole in it. Maybe at some point he thought he found someone better but didn’t work out. Who knows? I’ve healed since, yes, and have dated from time to time, or hired LOL. But learning to trust is a bit harder than the healing part I think. Will I get there? Time will tell, or so they say.

Whether it is an appointment with a new provider or someone I’ve booked more than once, I like to be always aware of the time. I actually sat one afternoon and just waited. Be somewhat conscious when 15 minutes had past then half an hour. Like others had posted, I don’t wear a watch so it is up to me to be mindful of it. I do enjoy a good conversation but I’m hiring for the fun of it and not yapping. If he’s talking me to death then I’ll just take control of the situation and initiate the physical interaction. Give him the signal that talk is over. It’s time for some fun. If he cannot get into it then he’s just there to milk it and get paid for yapping. It’s time to end the session altogether. If you’re waiting for the provider to initiate it, and for the most part they will, then someone like Theo/Leo will take advantage of it for more $$.

Nope, there is no life after. Some are clinging to hope that somehow it will be better after they leave this unfulfilled life of theirs.

A bowl of orecchietti pasta with italian sausage and drizzled with a nice simple olive oil dressing. Top it with some shredded parmesan cheese. A little salt and pepper to taste of course.