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Any other info on Diego?

This one got me going!
 
http://www.xvideos.com/video22494163/creampie_interracial_fucking_breeding

It is unfortunate that the bidet did not reach these shores. So, although I am a top and do not douche, I do clean up my ass using my hands and fingers until the path is clear. Much better, smoother and pleasant than toilet paper.

Great Discussion Topic!!!
 
My pre-massage shower routine is as follows:
If I have an appointment after work:
1.) gym workout
2.) pre-sauna shower
3.) steam/sauna
4.) thorough shower, which consists of
A. First round with soap (like an Irish spring, safeguard, etc.)
B. Second round is the body scrub in the shower dispensers and my shower gel
The whole routine leaves no area untouched... face, behind the ears, arms, legs, chest, shoulders, torso, back, in between the toes, and of course extra attention to the nether-regions... to add on.. these are two musts for me
1.) a washcloth... soaping up a washcloth really helps remove dead skin cells and build suds, nothing like it.... and 2.) an inch of a soapy finger up the butt... yes, I make sure there’s absolutely no residue of anything back there.
 
From this routine of squeaky cleanliness and scrubbing, it has been always a bonus for YMMV with getting massages (even in places that’s strictly professional and “therapeutic”, and even my personal life .... people will lick every nook and cranny of your body, when they realize that you are impeccably groomed and clean....
and because so many guys are lacking in the hygiene department, masseurs are usually pleasantly relieved, when they massage those buns, spread them cheeks and there’s nothing but freshness... ?

Great Discussion Topic!!!
 
My pre-massage shower routine is as follows:
If I have an appointment after work:
1.) gym workout
2.) pre-sauna shower
3.) steam/sauna
4.) thorough shower, which consists of
A. First round with soap (like an Irish spring, safeguard, etc.)
B. Second round is the body scrub in the shower dispensers and my shower gel
The whole routine leaves no area untouched... face, behind the ears, arms, legs, chest, shoulders, torso, back, in between the toes, and of course extra attention to the nether-regions... to add on.. these are two musts for me
1.) a washcloth... soaping up a washcloth really helps remove dead skin cells and build suds, nothing like it.... and 2.) an inch of a soapy finger up the butt... yes, I make sure there’s absolutely no residue of anything back there.
 
From this routine of squeaky cleanliness and scrubbing, it has been always a bonus for YMMV with getting massages (even in places that’s strictly professional and “therapeutic”, and even my personal life .... people will lick every nook and cranny of your body, when they realize that you are impeccably groomed and clean....
and because so many guys are lacking in the hygiene department, masseurs are usually pleasantly relieved, when they massage those buns, spread them cheeks and there’s nothing but freshness... ?

Well, my actually first erotic massage wasn't expected.
I was in New Dehli at an upscale hotel and after a long day of travel decided on a massage.
I went downstairs, showered in the facility and then this gorgeous, tall Indian man comes in and takes me to a room with a large marble table.
I laid down on my stomach, nude and was covered in olive oil and rubbed and massaged for quite sometime.
I would always pop a boner whenever anyone gets down between my thighs or around my glutes and sure enough... then it's time to turn over and there's no hiding it.
After he massages my chest, etc. he just grabs my dick and starts to massage it, as he's doing that I'm feeling his hard cock thru his pants.
I come but am suddenly really embarrassed, I shower and end up tipping him double the cost of the massage.
 
That actually got me started on my erotic massage quest.

I had a very similar experience. The masseur had done a fantastic full body massage, including reflexology foot work -- which I love.
 
He forgot to wipe the oil off my feet, and in my relaxed bliss I didn't notice. I walked over to the restroom and wiped out on the floor, almost ripping the towel rack that I had used to catch myself off the wall.
 
I apologized profusely but he did even more, regretting to have not wiped off the excess oil. I gave him a big tip for the repair.
 
The other time I went to see a guy that was allegedly a pro. I was disappointed it was a bed instead of a table and there wasn't even a towel, just some blankets. Very fuzzy blankets.
 
I was either allergic to the material or having the wooly bits up my nose. He was using deep pressure so my face was really in it. The irritation was too much and I sneezed all over my own face and lay in it for awhile.

Back when Craigslist was still around, I found an intriguing massage ad. The masseur's photos were hot, and I booked a massage session. I forget his name, but let's call him Tim. When I knocked at his door, he answered, and was jaw dropping HOT! As I entered the house, I heard the TV on in the living room. He pulled me to the side before we entered the living room, and said he had shared custody of his 10 year old son, who was watching TV. He said we would walk past his son, and go upstairs to the massage room, shutting the door of the massage room , of course, and proceed with the massage. UGH! AWKWARD!! I was going to leave, but Tim was smoking hot (in the Coast Guard). We walked past his son, who looked up, and his dad introduced me and said "Dmitri is my friend, and we are going upstairs to sign some papers" His son shrugged, and upstairs with Tim I went. We both stripped down, and proceeded to have a HOT massage session, all the time I could hear the TV on downstairs, knowing his son was down there. When Tim had his orgasm, he let out a loud yell that made the roof shake! I thought, signing papers is never this loud! After the massage was over, we got dressed, and Tim then grabbed a pile of papers and a pen from another room. As we walked through the living room, papers and pen in hand, the son said "Did you sign the papers, Dad?" And Tim said "Yes, the papers are all signed" (?) There was no awkward "moment"....the entire situation was awkward! I quickly left, and never looked back!

What are the most awkward moments during massage you have been through? Sometimes they are hilarious but most of the time they are mood killers. Burping, Stomach rumbling are common. Farts are sometimes and most of the time if that happens, I leave politely ( Can't stand stink and generally face is at same level as source of stink).
 
My most memorable hilarious moment was in NY. Masseur slipped on oil on the floor and fell. In the process to avoid fall, he tried holding table and table leg gave in. Next thing I know I was on floor too. We made loud noise while falling. I was sleek with oil and couldn't get up and kept falling. I think it was loud enough that neighbour below started banging ceiling. It was comical.

Picture it....Christopher Street, West Village, NYC. 1994.
 
21 year old me, and new to the "big gay city."
 
One evening, while getting my hair cut, I noticed the salon also offered massage. I decided to give it a try and scheduled an appointment for the following weekend afternoon. I think it was a Sunday. I arrived and was introduced to my therapist. I wish I could remember his name, but OH MY GOD was he handsome! Tall. Athletically muscular. From Central America somewhere, Belize I think?
 
The room was small, and in the basement. Lit only by candlelight. I removed my clothes and covered myself with a towel. I distinctly remembering it being a dark green. The massage was great; I had experienced one or two professional ones before, spa-quality and completely nonsexual atmospheres, etc. With this one I got aroused and quite hard during some work on my butt and inner thigh, but rolled over at the appropriate time. The masseur re-adjusted my towel and the massage continued. My erection subsided completely until he began to massage my abs. In a circular motion, small circles and then larger. Going as low on my body as he could, until my erection got in the way. Then he would work around my cock. He bent down and whispered in my ear, "Just breathe, and let go." I was in ecstasy. I could feel an orgasm building. He spent a good 5-6 minutes just on my abs, varying the pressure, touch, and speed of motion, and eliciting various moans from me.
 
And he got me off, without ever touching my cock.
 
Every time the same ending, every massage, over the course of a few years.
 
No one has been able to replicate his touch. Not professionals, not amateurs, not partners.
 
As far as I am concerned, that man's touch was magic.
 
And I'm very sorry I lost track of him.

Not mine, but I saw this on Reddit a while back and thought it was pretty hot: [MEDIA=reddit]gaystoriesgonewild/comments/95hx6m[/MEDIA]

You're always going to receive requests for (cheaper) massage appointments, regardless of where they saw your listing, especially if you mention massage in your ad, and even if you don't.
 
If you plan to escort for years then one solution is to spend some time and money training in massage. After that, list yourself on massage sites, and give massages (at the lower rate). 1. It's extra money. 2. It ultimately increases your escort business. How? If the client both likes you and wants more of you he'll hire you for the escorting appointments going forward. If he's satisfied with the massage, well you have a new massage client and that's good too.

Ah but what about all those great "massage" videos that so many of us have seen and loved? Apparently this is a pretty common fantasy I think.

This is me too. I’ve only hired escorts 2 times. And never works for me. I prefer erotic massage first. Then maybe build up from there. But I would never ask for full service if I’m paying masseur rates. It has happened several times that’s I get full service
but is organically and is the maseur thay encourages to go further.

I get your frustration, @MidwestMarc, but you might consider editing your profile to eliminate the mention of massage. I read profiles as a menu of possibilities, but also a reflection of the provider's intentions. There are a number of actual masseurs who advertise on rent.men, and offer an erotic massage session as an option. OTOH, there are many "masseurs" on masseurfinder, rentmasseur, etc. who have very limited massage skills, but provide more freeform encounters.

For medical reasons before I found trimix, I hardly ever got hard but I still came from a hot blowjob. Sometimes when I did not get hard or did not cum, I very much enjoyed the oral treatment any ways. Know that I have found trimix, assholes beware. I always informed the escort that I may not get hard. I never said anything about cuming till the end. The efforts the put into the blowjob to get me to cum is always exciting especially when they say I will get you to cum. The next 30 minutes of sucking is usually awesome. lol once in a while they prove me wrong but I love every minute.

500% bottom here

Maybe what I really wanted to ask was if escorts are turned off by clients who couldn’t get it up.

I know i will prolly get ridiculed for making this statement so before i do let me qualify it first by saying There are so many ways of doing a session. Whether it is an escort vs. masseur keep in mind that you have every right to get exactly what you desire and should definitely “shop” around before making a decision. Having said that just remember that this shyt aint rocket science and sometimes you may not even know what you TRULY like or want until u have experienced it for the first time and then all of a sudden, something clicks and ur saying to yourself, “hey...i really dig that and wanna try that again!”
So here goes my very watered and oversimplified analogy of the difference between an Escort vs. Masseur ...
 
With an Escort - the client controls the session / with a Masseur- the client gives up control of the session to the masseur .
 
Now before some of you get ur “panties” all in a bunch on this , (lol) ? hear me out .
When i first started doing massage 10 years ago , i was so green . I was scared i would make a mistake . I kept trying to figure out what the client wanted . And after i had seen a number of clients it became apparent to me these 3 things:
 
1. The client wants to let go and relax and not think about much in a massage . They want you to give their body the attention it needs and deserves without having to be a director. They seldom want chit chat during that period . Just make them feel good
 
2. The massage client is quite often in a relationship or situation where they are neglected physically. ie- married to female , stagnant boyfriend, or maybe they have a job that is strenuous or where they are constantly having to make important stressful decisions all day and for the duration of the session they just want to let go~feel pampered and be self indulgent on a small quiet scale.
 
3. Sexual arousal is okay but is not paramount & often “my” clients are more interested in a little frottage or in some cases not even that. And it’s okay ? as long as they leave feeling better mentally and physically...mission accomplished. A release at the end doesn’t really even amount to what i would define as sex. Thats also a very physical way of releasing tension. So it does complete a very good sensual massage in a positive way .
 
Now this is strictly my own views and i know i am not nor do i pretend 2 B an expert in all things “massage” but i have been doin it a long time and i have asked many questions thru the years.
 
At one point i did post an ad on Rentmen. And this is how i came to my version of the differences between the two .
Practically EVERY client that contacted me from Rentmen had specific requests and interests and what they expected out of a session. And that is OK too !
But the client is still in control .
 
Now some will say, “Hey wait a minute, I want to be a sub and I’m looking for somebody to dominate me and tell me what to do!” And you might be thinking well the client is giving up control of the session in that scenario!!
Not so ... The client is still determining what he wants/gets from the escort. And if that client goes into the session and mrEscort X doesn’t perform in exactly that manner, guess what ? The client most likely will end the session early . Still the client is in control .
That’s not to say that a client wouldn’t walk out of a bad massage early also. But the only time I’ve ever had that happen is when a client came to me for a massage mistakingly thinking that I was an escort posing as a masseur . Anyways i dont give bad massages !!
Also, I do not advertise anymore on Rentmen so that clients don’t see me playing different roles and getting confused about the services that I offer.
I know some guys do both, and I am not in anyway suggesting that there is any thing wrong with that. But I prefer for myself the energy exchange between me and the client through the healing power of a massage.
I connect better in that situation. And I like to stay in control.
What can I say? I guess I’m a control freak. ??‍♂️
 
Now, have my massages sometimes resulted in some hot intense sex? Yes of course . But again I like when things unfold naturally regarding sexual contact. I’m not the kind of person that makes a laundry list of requirements prior to sex.
 
I also found out about myself very quickly after I first started doing massage, that I really enjoy healing another person’s body thru touch!!
 
When I started doing massage It was only by accident because I had lost (like so many others) my job when Bush Left office and I couldn’t find work. My self-esteem was very low from constant rejection for employment.
My friend who was already doing massage brought me into it . And Once I started doing massage, I felt better about myself because I was helping others feel better too.
 
Since that time I have massaged I think I Estimated about 5000 or more & I never looked back .
Personally, I’ve hired both. Escorts and Masseurs.
They both bring something of interest to me to the table. But when I make those purchases, I shop around to get exactly what I want. And so should you.
Don’t get too upset if it takes a few tries. Chalk it up as a learning experience.
I have found that some of the most memorable experiences I’ve had were completely by accident and when I tossed all my Pre-requisites to the wind & took a leap of faith.
With that i say to you ...Peace and happy hunting !!! ✌️?

Every time I post a video I worry about that, but I think we’d all prefer to err on the side of repeats! ?

I wonder if Sean is experiencing an uptick of clients because everyone is now learning of his skills?

Dr. Cum Control is an Xtuber who specializes in edging__he has many "clients." Very entertaining too.

https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph59160820cf80a

I agree. He is hot, but things always seem to go the same way (like the way he folds the towel into smaller and smaller squares, etc)...
 
I’m a fan of these Czech Massage videos: https://www.xvideos.com/video25734037/02
 
This one has silly acting and little massage, but I think it works somehow: https://www.xvideos.com/video31676849/rb_-_scotty_marx_and_jordan_levine_-_requested_by_member_-_pornhub.com

One where the massage rather than the porn is the focus...
https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=152580060