taecfan

Greetings folks...
As you might have noticed, this site has been offline since around mid-day Tuesday.   Our prior hosting provider decided that they are unable to continue hosting our website and had ended service to us.  Unfortunately they did not provide any notification to me about this decision and I was forced to move the site to a new server without any sort of heads up.  This includes arranging for the new hosting company, configuring the new server to meet the technical requirements, getting a copy of our current data, restoring that data (over 300GB of files), recovering the database (over 18.5 million records in that database taking up 11GB of space for the DB alone), and reconfiguring the software itself to run in the new environment.  
While migrating there was also some technical issues that I ran into that required me to coordinate with Invision's technical support team.  So that back and forth added additional time to the mix as well.  
And to pile on further… all of this occurred while I'm traveling for my day job. So I've been doing this while in a hotel in between doing my day job on the road.  
There are most likely several other things that will need to be fixed still and I'm working through them.  For example, email may only be partially working.  I still need to setup things like SPF and DKIM for the new server so our emails don't flag as spam.  There are other settings that might need to be redone to work in the new server as well that I'm not thinking about yet.  (As you might have imagined, I've not had much sleep during this whole process.)
But anyway... you get the idea.  No... we're not going anywhere!  This was a minor setback but we'll continue to move forward.  Thank you all for your understanding and support!
Rob

So I messaged him and he sent me his pics and they looked really familiar. After I saw his rate, it clicked... I think he's the ivy league guy who's been talked about extensively on this site already. I can't remember what names he used to go by though

It’s directed at all the people you refer to as “fat pigs.” Cruelty framed as commentary is still cruelty — and that’s your pattern here. You like to call it on-topic, but it’s just another excuse to punch down.
You’re not an escort, and you’re not fucking them — so why the compulsion to even speak as if you are. Let the people doing the work express their own frustrations. You mask your disdain as insight, but all your offering is judgment and condescension. 
 

I've seen him at my gym multiple times, he looks like his pics for sure.

All of this sounds like a low-mid level Kspa.
You don't go to a place like this to fuck or hook up.  It's not a gay bath.
The problem is that so many gay guys don't respect the rules that these facilities end up closing things because of it.
Quit fucking up my Kspa experiences, thanks.  Just go, respect custom, relax, enjoy.

I've seen him at my gym multiple times, he looks like his pics for sure.

Eh.  Wishing bad for people is just as shitty.  He'll either learn or he won't.  
Just walk away from it.  No use in being angry.
Be the bigger person.

Gentlemen, we've had an occasional mayonnaise sub-theme here since last June. People have been Duking it out about whether Hellmann's or some other is top shelf and what would make it so. It has juiced things up a bit adding some actual acid to the conversation rather than the sometimes tart commentary about the gentleman we're here to discuss. Alas, it's time to move on, so back to Gold, and away from sandwich spreads, with or without lime.

So I messaged him and he sent me his pics and they looked really familiar. After I saw his rate, it clicked... I think he's the ivy league guy who's been talked about extensively on this site already. I can't remember what names he used to go by though

So I messaged him and he sent me his pics and they looked really familiar. After I saw his rate, it clicked... I think he's the ivy league guy who's been talked about extensively on this site already. I can't remember what names he used to go by though

Moderator's Note
Enough already. Pizza's here. 

So I messaged him and he sent me his pics and they looked really familiar. After I saw his rate, it clicked... I think he's the ivy league guy who's been talked about extensively on this site already. I can't remember what names he used to go by though

I don't really know any of the hotel spas, but the only other place with soaking tubs in Manhattan would probably be Aire ancient baths. I went to bathhouse alone once and the facilities and massage were really good, but it's clearly a place to go with someone or a group. Otherwise, you could check out king spa or sojo spa in NJ.

So I messaged him and he sent me his pics and they looked really familiar. After I saw his rate, it clicked... I think he's the ivy league guy who's been talked about extensively on this site already. I can't remember what names he used to go by though

One doesn't have to spend a lot of $$ to get an elegant watch that will make you the envy of the neighborhood :
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BTC

And this is why he doesn't price himself low.  He's not an escort for everyone.
From some of the snarky replies on this thread, it's clear there are those here who harbor resentment about that, whether they are willing to admit it or not.
 

Bottom line: His rate is his rate. 
He's a known commodity, a good looking guy, has a lot of followers and I'm sure he's got clients who have zero issue with the money aspect of it.  I say, good for him if this is what works.
There's no need to let your insecurity come out by criticizing him for these things.
If you don't like him or his rate, don't pay it.  
However, belittling him over it says more about you than anything.

https://www.gayforit.eu/video/150472/One-Heck-of-a-Massage

Pics look exactly like Davenyc whose profile is now gone. I guess he's back under a different name. I hired him around 2018/2019 for muscle worship and had a great time. He's straight and has some limits, but is otherwise really chill and easy to get along with, and he's also really attractive.

I once booked a massage with a masseur at his home, without checking much into his set up or professionalism. I was young and naive, and this was before I actually joined the profession myself (call it my research years).
I turned up at the address given. It seemed ok. The masseur answered the door (I’d seen no pics of him, only a description and an outline of his services). He didn’t match the description but I was too scared to walk away…so I went in. He was very friendly, indeed he was delighted to see me. 
I’ve written in more detail about it before so I won’t relay the whole story but the following behaviour occurred:
- Using his loft (attic), a windowless cramped space accessed from the bathroom by a pull down loft ladder as his massage space. It didn’t quite have the right ambiance.
- Letting me know, mid massage, that his wife would be home soon and I wasn’t to worry because she couldn’t get up the ladder…
- Talking almost all the way through about how he wasn’t really gay but he liked massaging guys whilst he was naked. 

The massage was mediocre, the ending wasn’t very happy and his wife called up from the bottom of the loft ladder if I’d like a cup of tea. 
I didn’t return to him. The tea was too weak. 
 
 

 
 

It's the industry standard system for pouring wine without exposing the bottle to oxygen. A lot of nicer wine bars and restaurants use it for the expensive wines they offer by the glass.
I'd recommend it if you got some nice bottles you want to drink without a time limit. I got one on sale and enjoy using it for something nicer that I wanna drink without drinking the whole bottle. 

https://www.gayforit.eu/video/150472/One-Heck-of-a-Massage

https://www.gayforit.eu/video/150472/One-Heck-of-a-Massage

https://www.gayforit.eu/video/150472/One-Heck-of-a-Massage

https://www.gayforit.eu/video/150472/One-Heck-of-a-Massage