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Yes this is PNP. It's also not OK if you did not say OK, if the provider did not get permission to introduce that into your session, and especially if you said no PNP.
G is much more than Viagra, its a psychedelic. It's also illegal.
Not being prudish, I've done my share of illegal drugs in my day.
But I have the right to know (and decide) if I'm being put in a position with illegal drugs involved, and to have that be an element of the session I am paying for.

Well, all that, but add to it all the fact that I just saw a brand new ad for Dean on RM last night. So this must be some tied-in shilling for him. ;-) Timing is everything....
 
His "new" screenname is Vrsivyleaguehung.

My view is that coercing straight men into homosexual intimacies in exchange for some funds necessary to feed/shelter/medically provide for their families is flat-out wrong.

It was the mid-90s, on a business trip, stayed at a Hyatt in downtown Chicago. Took a taxi to a leather shop several blocks away that I found in the yellow pages (do those even exist anymore?). Bought a few items, and picked up a gay newspaper. Back at the hotel, looking through the personal ads, I found the courage to call one. “Gus” answered on the first ring. He said he wasn’t too far away and would be right over. Oh shit, this really going to happen. Took a quick shower and there was a knock at the door. College-age, cute, curly hair, scruff. The clothes came off quickly, and he was amazing. However, I had not planned very well, and within 15 minutes or so, I achieved an unwanted, but magnificent orgasm. He asked me to “keep going” so he likewise could reach satisfaction. Five minutes later, we were getting dressed. His fee was $80 and I generously gave him a hundred. That, gentlemen, is a pleasant memory that will never fade. And the start of a fun, interesting, and memorable hobby.

Definite outlier.
 
are / were you also a masseur yourself?

n your case if was the escort who decided to take it to a different level. Also, if your username is actually descriptive of you, you are....better equipped than the average client to attract a mate, let's be honest here. You're an outlier.

Best to walk away and stop all communications - aka block - you might have with the escort. Remember when you are in that state of mind you interpret all acts of kindness by the escort as “ maybe he really loves me” which is delusional thinking. If you ignore/block him he’ll just move to another client. As someone told me - escorts are salesman. Some are really good at sales and will do or say anything to keep the >money< rolling in. Bottom line it’s a business plain and simple.

I found myself getting way too attached to an escort and resolved to never see him twice in a row. Always had to see someone else before I saw him again.

Honestly, if I start liking an escort too much, it's time to move on. Nothing good can come from that.

i have always said with co-workers... be friendly but rarely friends!

Tell you guys one incident in my work place. There was a technician and he left job. Before leaving he wrote a mail that in his 16 years of work at the place he thought he made good friends. But he was wrong. They were just good co-worker and were never friends. He was disheartened! Same goes in this line of work too! Keep calm and carry on. Control your heart and you will be happy.

You’re thinking too hard.
If you had fun, it was worth it to you.
If he got paid, it was worth it to him.
Any thinking beyond that is delusional.

The answer can be both. I can go to my job and LOVE it.... but at the end of the day it's where I get my money to pay the bills.

Does it matter?

Take it the way you want it. You are paying to fulfill a fantasy. If you feel wanted and desired, then the escort has done a great job and delivered. Trying to figure out if it's real or not will just take away from the experience, and may lead to disappointment. GIve yourself compassion, and consider it very possible that the guy is into you.

If you're paying them; they are performing.

Totally agree with this.

its best to not debate that it will mess with your head. If you feel you both had a good time be happy with that. A lot of guys love sex and are good at it. Most good escorts find a way to connect with the guys that hire them.
While i have become friends with some escorts when all is said and done they are conducting a business transaction. Trying to make something more of it can lead to heartbreak

"Looking for love in all the wrong places."

this is so true. I have accepted and ok with hiring is transactional and a lustful hobby. I’ve hired my share of plentiful guys over the years but only fell hard for one. I was with him three times but I’m so glad he disappeared otherwise it would have been a bad situation. I even told him I was falling for him.
I still haven’t hired since pandemic and I’m ok with that because it’s all just lust. If I was looking for love with an escort, I would be damn near suicidal at this point. Lol.

It’s not real love guys! You can have connection. But I will say that people mix lust, need with love. Real love is based on sacrifices, selfless attachment and not transaction. Keep it transactional, be good, treat respectfully the other person. Best thing is to be self reliant and avoid dependency on others!

It’s not real love guys! You can have connection. But I will say that people mix lust, need with love. Real love is based on sacrifices, selfless attachment and not transaction. Keep it transactional, be good, treat respectfully the other person. Best thing is to be self reliant and avoid dependency on others!

It’s not real love guys! You can have connection. But I will say that people mix lust, need with love. Real love is based on sacrifices, selfless attachment and not transaction. Keep it transactional, be good, treat respectfully the other person. Best thing is to be self reliant and avoid dependency on others!

It’s not real love guys! You can have connection. But I will say that people mix lust, need with love. Real love is based on sacrifices, selfless attachment and not transaction. Keep it transactional, be good, treat respectfully the other person. Best thing is to be self reliant and avoid dependency on others!

It’s not real love guys! You can have connection. But I will say that people mix lust, need with love. Real love is based on sacrifices, selfless attachment and not transaction. Keep it transactional, be good, treat respectfully the other person. Best thing is to be self reliant and avoid dependency on others!