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29 minutes ago, tassojunior said:

Some guys just want to get their money's worth. 

Well said. Nothing wrong in that! 

17 hours ago, guru68 said:

Perhaps he means the THICKEST 9" cock? Like "terrifying, bottoms hide your asses" thick?

I remember to have met a guy on Grindr years back. He narrated his own experience where he got screwed by a guy with thick 9 “ cock. The after effect was he could feel his ass to be present for next couple days and also unable to control fart and his loads! So he was avoiding public places and interacting with people face to face to avoid any accidents in front of them! 

23 hours ago, Merboy said:

Hopefully once COVID is done with for good, all those hard-bodied studs that have been working out in the gym will realize OnlyFans isn't gonna bring in the money like a good old romp with a friendly stranger will, and we'll see massive influx of highly recommended hunks everywhere!  RM's not a bad site its just that its getting slim, mostly twinks on there now.  Where is the big muscle, the juicy pecs?

It is my personal opinion, only fans doesn’t exit me! Meeting in person is different experience! In onlyfans only the provider is gaining! I agree it empowers them to choose content theme of show and/ or exhibit their body parts on their own terms!  But as competition increases then do they really make the money unless they are in top 5 or 10 performers!

7 hours ago, tassojunior said:

fwiw- I used to see  "David White" the porn star in Prague a LOT and when he offered me overnights for 500 I asked if if there are actually clients who can have hard sex all night long on him without stop (he's a bottom). He surprised me saying yes, there indeed are some who do. Blew my mind since I think a couple hours of topping is very hard. Guys who can fuck for eight hours should be advertising, not hiring.  

Those guys topping (provider or clients) 8 hours straight must be supermen! To have such stamina they most probably be taking some pillls! After a while in the session is it even a fun? Unless breaks are taken? 

I agree that 2000 per night is too much! When you buy a car, new or used, do you go for test drive or buy blindly? I would suggest that having overnight on first time is not recommended. First is test with 1 hour meet! If you like then later book for overnight. Learn to respect your own hard earned money! If you develop some good connection then spending on the person is altogether different thing. Why these escorts charge so much because they know that out there someone is salivating and thinking from waist down rather than from that grey matter! We all have urges! Just need to control our mind, think rationally. 

Probably he has amnesia and need tattoos to remind him! Also by now he must be used to tattoos and does i they remind hiof his buddies anymore?

Not a pleasant experience. If you are looking for a meth queen look no further. Nice guy, but not worth the time or money. Incredibly manic and sketchy.

What the hell is wrong with these people? Chemsex is not real sex. Also it is altered reality state where you can’t expect meaningful connection. The maniac thing comes with drugs. Are these even people in touch with reality?

Someone should jump on this grenade. Please.

Who is interested to blow his own ass by these grenades? They blow wallet and mind!

My two cents: Nothing wrong in hiring. It saves time on grindr by the too much back and forth messages. Also on RM we can meet same person again and again and say bye to one night stand! It is bad if exploitation is involved though!

Tipping a provider? For what? Are these providers paying taxes to Government like us? What does tipping to providers mean??

....OMG....what a HUNK!!!!

Yes, hunk above waist and waste below waist particularly after doing horrible injections to make him erect for hours!

It's happened to me several times as well even with well-reviewed escorts. It still sucks though and it hurts to feel like you're being rejected somehow. I've had the same thing happen to me even with having dinner reservations and everything.

 

So sorry but it's actually not uncommon...move on and hopefully find another guy who is better at respecting your time.

Reading this posting I would say that why @peterhung85 is darling for many. He commits whole heartedly to meetings that he has promised and it is indeed great pleasure to be with him in for outings. In one occasion when he was visiting NYC, he took me out to a restaurant for dinner.

Curious on your thoughts on a recent situation.

 

A provider and I were exchanging texts over several days in the last week. Over those days, I had initiated some conversations with an update on a dinner reservation at the restaurant of their recommendation and once I had secured a room at a very nice hotel. He had initiated some conversations as well, so got good vibes leading up to the meetup. Several comments from him about liking that I got reservations and a hotel, shows I’m serious.

 

On the day of, I let him know 3 hours ahead that I’ve checked in to the hotel and that I’ll relax then start to get ready for the evening. No response.

 

I text him as I’m leaving for the restaurant, which is 15 minutes away from me. No response.

 

I wait to be seated and send a text 20 minutes after we were supposed to meet letting him know I got a table and where to find me in the restaurant. No response.

 

It has been a little over 2 hours later, and still no text. I sent him a text saying that I am sorry tonight did not work out and that I understand things happen and plans need to change. I say, sincerely, that the most important thing is that I hope you’re ok.

 

Have you had this happen to you? Would you see him again? Looking for input from clients as well as providers. What are red flags that may incline you to ghost someone? I didn’t think I did anything wrong or too much. It seemed like we were having a pleasant exchange, but now I’m left wondering what others have experienced.

I would say that if it was your first meeting with the provider then first have test drive in first gear. Once you know him then go to fourth gear!

I didn't ask him to show papers lol . I asked about STDs and he volunteerly showed me his result of HIV,gonorrhea, syphilis and then I ask wbout herpes and he replied what I posted

What is your good reason for being obsessed with herpes? Is it life or health threatening condition with herpes?

The questioned thing is the feature of the iPhone. I asked him about stds and he showed me for syphilis and gonorrhea and hiv and I asked about herpes and then he replied : questioned about herpes and the following said above

I would say that first get your std 101. Get on prep. If you are do much worried about stds then this is not your place. Instead of being paranoid be informed. Get regularly tested and if you catch something then get immediate treated, communicate about it with whoever you slept with and complete the full course of medicines. Be responsible! Here assume that everyone you are meeting are positive about stds and think what appropriate steps you will take. Calm down and chill.

Sometimes people just prefer living with someone instead of living alone, nothing to do with money. It’s the love language called “Gift of presence”

Lol victor! Isn’t being independent, apartment to oneself especially for the professional boys here make more sense? Also how can you guarantee that the apartment is your ideal mate who will not care strangers coming in any time, using restrooms or bath? It seems you are ivyhung PR manager/ pimp or himself!

Yes, I'm his sub. User former_lurker (previous page) is a veteran, and he also confirmed he had a great time. Builder_nyc is a veteran, same. FoxyJ is a veteran, also ?. Joe is a big poster said he's great in the sack. Some other 25+ non newbie users who have met him said great things. All users who have met him in person, newbie or old, without exception, posted here a good time with him. Feel free to check the thread, or better yet, go experience yourself. I mentioned this forum to Dean and he actually doesn't come here to read because he cares for his mental health and prefers not reading gossip online. He's in touch with his clients, always hears feedback. He really doesn't come here to read you, sorry guys. Start off with a videocall with him to get to know his personality, and he shows off quite some hotness too. But yeah, you can't talk about someone you haven't met... that's why I'm here defending him and making a point that all 25+ veterans in this thread who have met him said he was great in the sack. If I was an escort I wouldn't be here reading about myself either lol not good for anyone's mental health. Peace and love to you all

Lol or you are yourself ivyhungvers?

Yes, he's a great guy. User former_lurker (previous page) is a veteran, and he also confirmed he had a great time. Builder_nyc is a veteran, same. FoxyJ is a veteran, also ?. Joe is a big poster said he's great in the sack. Some other 25+ non newbie users who have met him said great things. All users who have met him in person, newbie or old, posted here a good time with him. Feel free to check the thread, or better yet, go experience yourself, it's the only way you'll know instead of being an old bitter wang talking about a guy you haven't met ? I mentioned this forum to Dean and he actually doesn't come here to read because he cares for his mental health and prefers not reading gossip online. He's in touch with his clients, always hears feedback, and he said that's what matters, not anonymous trolls online ? He really doesn't come here to read you, sorry guys. Start off with a videocall with him to get to know his personality, and he shows off quite some hotness too. But yeah, you can't talk about someone you haven't met... that's why I'm here defending him and making a point that all 25+ veterans in this thread who have met him said he was great in the sack. If I was an escort I wouldn't be here reading about myself either lol not good for anyone's mental health. Peace and love to you all

Are you his personal representative or salesman? Just asking it.

Life in Dayton will never be the same.

They all come back! He is confused person! He had been on and off here many times!

Exactly. But not just escort situations either. Even your day to day hookups can be that way. There’s a lot of people out there having sex just to get off...being “into” someone may only go as far as the moment in the bedroom. Maybe they were perfectly into the sex, but perhaps not the person themselves.

 

That’s why I’ve stepped back from the hookup circuit a bit. You can ride the conveyor belt of hookups, without getting a 2nd or 3rd encounter out of it. Nothing bad or sad about it, but after awhile it starts feeling pointless, unless it’s someone you really into like that...but you have to then separate real from fantasy. . If I do that, I much rather do it with a client who’s atleast apparent in investing in my time.

 

Unfortunately, I’ve also come to see many clients are either happily married...or chronically single, and for apparent reason. If anything “more” comes of it, has to be with considerate understanding.

Tell you guys one incident in my work place. There was a technician and he left job. Before leaving he wrote a mail that in his 16 years of work at the place he thought he made good friends. But he was wrong. They were just good co-worker and were never friends. He was disheartened! Same goes in this line of work too! Keep calm and carry on. Control your heart and you will be happy.

this is so true. I have accepted and ok with hiring is transactional and a lustful hobby. I’ve hired my share of plentiful guys over the years but only fell hard for one. I was with him three times but I’m so glad he disappeared otherwise it would have been a bad situation. I even told him I was falling for him.

I still haven’t hired since pandemic and I’m ok with that because it’s all just lust. If I was looking for love with an escort, I would be damn near suicidal at this point. Lol.

I understand we are social animal and look for that love or emotional connection that nature gave for survival of species! To be honest I came to realization that occasional meeting is fine. What best we can do is focus our energy on ourselves. We will be more happy to do so. One day everyone will leave us and only ourselves will be there for each one of us unless we loose our mental faculty!

It’s not real love guys! You can have connection. But I will say that people mix lust, need with love. Real love is based on sacrifices, selfless attachment and not transaction. Keep it transactional, be good, treat respectfully the other person. Best thing is to be self reliant and avoid dependency on others!

Are you sure you're not confusing him with Christianx's homie Robbie?

No. I remember this guy was discussed before pretty well.

Just lose track of him and no longer can't find it. Last time he was located in NYC. Does anybody know?

 

He is sooo hot and even hotter in person for sure!

 

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This guy was discussed a lot number of times on this forum. He used to go by name Jay and what I remember that he was discussed to steal from clients! I remember that he was not discussed in positive light but had some thin reputation!

Hot looking guy but that dick is a huge turnoff

I think probably for a while the non- functional junior Ryan Rose will keep the elder Ryan Rose ego in check!!