PaulM
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PaulM got a reaction from + Just Sayin in Blakemassage - Scottsdale
Same experience a few years back....dirty place, not sure why I stayed the whole time other then I thought he would make a scene if I left early. Strange experience.....don't do it.
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PaulM got a reaction from + azdr0710 in Blakemassage - Scottsdale
Same experience a few years back....dirty place, not sure why I stayed the whole time other then I thought he would make a scene if I left early. Strange experience.....don't do it.
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PaulM got a reaction from Marc in Calif in Blakemassage - Scottsdale
Same experience a few years back....dirty place, not sure why I stayed the whole time other then I thought he would make a scene if I left early. Strange experience.....don't do it.
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PaulM reacted to PiSquared in Extortion advice?
I was the victim of blackmail on Sniffies. Guy reached out, we shared conversation which was pleasant. He asked for my cell which I foolishly provided. Next day he texted about a meet up, sending me racy pics, and asking me to do the same, asking me my experience, my marital status. I was a complete fool and shared all that. You know what happened next: text with all my texts and photos, threats to contact my wife, website info on those close to me, demand for money. I freaked. Paid him in Amex gift card, bitcoin, etc until nothing seemed like it would make it stop. With the help and encouragement of another gentleman on here, I cut all ties, pulled all social media and waited it out. It’s been 7 months and no contact. It was the worst time in my life, bar none. I was humiliated, bullied, and in fear. I’m totally freaked now by the pickup sites. Lesson: never share your cell number, real name, or any personal info about yourself until you can totally trust the person you’re talking to.
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PaulM got a reaction from + glutes in Patrick in LA: looks new!!!
Saw him about a month ago...really good strong massage, great ending. He's shy, but I was able to coax him to loosen up!
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PaulM reacted to CuriousByNature in Alex/blessings
This warms my heart more than you can imagine. You and @Alex.Blessings should both be commended for turning around a negative situation in such an amazingly productive and powerful way. You, @dk582, have gone out of your way to correct any misperceptions, and with great maturity and integrity, have not only acknowledged what you could have done better the first time around, but have walked the walk and not just talked the talk. And despite the earlier critical and negative posts you made about your first massage with Alex, @Alex.Blessings clearly has the professional fortitude and inner kindness to meet again and show you what a great experience with him should be like. I don't want to gush, but you guys are both awesome, and you've shown all of us how two adults can work together to make a challenging situation positive. This has made my evening because it reinforces my long held view that humans were made to be in relationship with one another, and that disagreements and misunderstandings do not need to result in the breakdown of relationships, but rather, can actually strengthen those connections if we approach our differences with kindness and a willingness to understand each other. ❤️
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PaulM reacted to dk582 in Alex/blessings
I deleted a comment I made a few weeks ago in this thread after @Alex.Blessings reached out to me 1:1 to understand my feedback. I wanted to share an update here, which is twofold.
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@Alex.Blessings messaged me offering a free follow-up session to address any feedback I had. Though I was initially hesitant, he genuinely seemed interested in my feedback, which I will admit I did not offer him after my first session. I guess I am not used to sharing feedback live with a masseur after a massage, when and if I have any. When I shared the feedback with him, he was very fair in responding to it and offered me to share exactly what I was looking for in the massage. I did, and I told him if it wasn't a match and it's not what he offers, no hard feelings and we could each move on. I truly appreciated his offer to try to understand my feedback and what I was looking for in a session - I had never experienced that with a masseur before, and I have tried many.
He agreed to the items I listed and once again offered a free session to give it another try. He was very kind about it. We had our session last night and it was everything I asked for - he took my feedback into account and incorporated all I asked for. I've tried a bunch of masseurs this year and have not yet found my regular, but after last night I don't think I need to continue my search and will be visiting Alex on a regular basis. I didn't want to take his offer for granted, so I did provide a tip for his generous offer and thorough session.
If you plan to meet Alex, just be open about what you're expecting or hoping for, and he will do the same in return. Perhaps I should have done so before our first session.
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Everyone needs to take the temperature down a bit on this thread. Our world is full of enough hatred and division; it doesn't take much to be cordial and nice to one another, even when we disagree. This should be a forum in which people are comfortable sharing their views and none of us should be worried about being attacked for our opinions.
@Alex.Blessings genuinely sought out my feedback, made a very generous offer to rectify the situation, and provided a session that was everything I asked for. Thank you, Alex, and I look forward to many more sessions together.
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PaulM got a reaction from Marc in Calif in Hottest Massage Video Ever?
One of the best in a long time!
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PaulM reacted to kniff in Boston, massage +
you can't find anyone better than Danny
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PaulM got a reaction from themsg in Justin from Palm Springs
Saw him about 18 mos ago.....OK massage, decent extras.....nothing remarkable. Nice guy, but a little chatty.
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PaulM got a reaction from TennisPro35 in Patrick in LA: looks new!!!
Saw him about a month ago...really good strong massage, great ending. He's shy, but I was able to coax him to loosen up!
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PaulM reacted to Ktripp in Any info on Babylon West in Seattle
Fascinating. Anyone with more recent experience?
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PaulM reacted to colonexstacy in pictures dont do him justice? thoughts gentlemen
Well first of all may I suggest that my behavior is not conducive whatsoever to whatever standards you desire of me.
I have received notifications this week a-plenty regarding people who have been messaging me from other topics regarding various providers in which I have communicated my past experience with them. Now you will not believe me, and again that is certainly not my insomnia inducing concern, but for the record for those who still slightly hold my existence as one worth to continue the engagement of breathing I would like to state that today is the first time I had a notification of this post whereas previously I wondered why there had been no response. And for some reason even I could not find the post. And I thought perhaps it was deleted because it was not a subject of any particular provider. Now sit down.
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PaulM got a reaction from + Just Sayin in 411 on MassagebyLogan in Phoenix
Yes, sweet guy, decent massage, sweet peach
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PaulM got a reaction from tbuzzsaw in 411 on George_Mexican in Palm Springs
Another good guy…I found him better looking in person, very friendly, engaging. Massage B-, extras A-.
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PaulM reacted to ThickCockScotsman in Marccus in Los Angeles
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PaulM reacted to la_connor in Fredrick in SD (previously in LA, OC)
Excellent description. Something odd about him that left me uneasy. The massage was okay, but I wouldn't go back even for free.
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PaulM got a reaction from Tactile Daddy in TwoBoysFourHands in LA
@TectonicThrust curious who was the other duo that you preferred? I agree with you that 2 masseurs working two different parts of the body is pretty distracting.....I would prefer 4 hands in one location
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PaulM got a reaction from domonkasshu160 in TwoBoysFourHands in LA
@TectonicThrust curious who was the other duo that you preferred? I agree with you that 2 masseurs working two different parts of the body is pretty distracting.....I would prefer 4 hands in one location
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