Wunder82

After thumbing thru a bunch of Forum posts and RM profiles like my gum-popping mom sitting under a beauty shop hairdryer reading The Inquirer, I stumbled across a jolting, refreshing set of observations by Tylerthebadwolf. It’s something that really struck a nerve because it seems so obvious yet elusive:
 


"For all of the hardcore, bareback, fuck-me-in-the-ass porn that exists in all the mansex world, it seems that what men want (without realizing that they want it) is to be connected. Connected to another human; another man."
 
If your thing is ejaculating into a wet hole or being ejaculated into then more power to you and have at it with sweaty gusto. I’ll even hold the flashlight.
 
But the game seems lopsided.
I read RM profiles by "heavy shooters" with close-up, bareback videos that look like Soviet-era industrial safety films and read discussions here about who didn't get hard and who didn't cum and wonder if I'm missing something.
 
What I want to do is make a brief connection with someone... to freely give and receive affection, holding eye contact and happy simply for the moment of the shared experience. Most profiles & videos I see tell me something about someone's anatomy but what I really want to see is something about who they really are and how capable they are of making a connection with me.
 
I'm not trying to change anyone's mind about what they should enjoy - to each their own. Please enjoy.
 
What I would like to do is give a word of encouragement to the escorts who are genuinely interested in creating a connection with their clients. It's so rewarding to find a guy who understands and values this and, I think, it's more rewarding for those escort too.
 
 


"...what you’re sharing with that other man is intensely personal and very often private. Something about which they may have all sorts of conflicted feelings: shame, guilt, fear, sadness, elation. You can’t do anything about their feelings, but you can be open and receptive and those are the keys to connected sexual interaction. You can be excited and you can let their expressions of pleasure enhance your own...:"

Tyler gets the trophy for "Most Insightful Observation Of The Day".
(please don't sue me for copyright infringement)

Ten years ago my sexual partner was my one hand.
 
Kevin Slater

Magnum PI

Barrett Foa

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Matthew Ludwinski



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Vince Edwards (1928-1996) studied acting at the American Academy of Dramatic Arts; his classmates included Anne Bancroft. John Cassavetes and Grace Kelly. In 1950, at age 22, he was signed to a contract by Paramount Studios and made his debut as "Vincent Edwards" in 1951's Mister Universe. He had leading roles in several films, but it wasn't until he appeared as the title character in the highly successful TV series Ben Casey (1961-66) that he achieved stardom. Here, on the cover of TV Guide, at age 33:
 
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Curry (71?)
 
Curry's first full-time role was as part of the original London cast of the musical Hair in 1968, where he first met Richard O'Brien[7] who went on to write Curry's next full-time role, that of Dr. Frank-N-Furter in The Rocky Horror Show (1975).
 
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https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/quinn-christopher-jaxon.99286/

I would hire him in a second!

I like ALL men, irrespective of their racial make up. When I hire or connect for sex, I look at physicality, size of penis, versatility, interactivity, openness {if indicated in ad}, activities in which we
can both be equally engaged. The preceding criteria has paid off in the long run for me.

Sorry to enter this discussion late... it is an interesting and valuable one, and one that can easily open the very real wounds that some of our brothers carry as a result of mis-treatment because of their identity.
 
One thing that resonates deeply for me is how white-ness plays out here. White people, especially men, can far more easily navigate through places -- actual or implied -- than any others in our world. There is almost an assumption that whiteness is the norm ... a kind of hegemonic whiteness... and that anything that is other-than-white is the exception that must be "dealt with" as the other.
 
White men cannot possibly understand just how "easy" we have it - how our lives are not full of the aggressions (micro or otherwise) that are part of the daily realities of persons of color in our world.
 
To suppose otherwise - to in any way imagine a world in which there is "color blindness' is to be delusional.

I can't remember exactly how old I was when I got my first sex talk, but I do remember it well. It was in the afternoon, and it was wintertime. I was with my dad behind the milking barn helping him fix the tracks that spread silage from the silo down the feeding trough for the cows as they were lining up to be milked. My "helping" at this age amounted to standing at the ready to fetch a wrench or whatever dad needed, so I had a lot of time to stare out into the distance.
 
As I was staring out into the field, I noticed two cows acting kinda funny towards each other, and I said, "Hey, Dad, look at those two cows wrestling!" And my Dad said, "Well, son, those cows aren't wrestling. They're having sex." To which I inquired right on queue, "Sex, what's that?"
 
"Well, sex is where babies come from," my dad told me, and he then proceeded to give me the whole biological breakdown of mammalian reproduction in broad strokes: penises, vaginas, sperm, eggs, fertilization, pregnancy, delivery. Up until that point, I'd never really given any thought to where babies came from, and the whole process seemed so wholly complicated and involved that it kinda blew my mind. "Cool!" I seem to recall saying, which got a chuckle out of my Dad. I would have never guessed it had he not told me.

Naw I gave them the birds and the bees story. The balked at the "then the rooster covers the hen and has his way with her...."
 

 
We never did get to the bees.
 

#45...if I had a dollar for every fantasy I've had around Burt Ward's portrayal of Dick Grayson/Robin, boy wonder. The word in the street is that Ward was so hugely endowed that several options (including chemicals) were employed to make his endowment less obvious when he was in his costume.

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I feel like it is time to confess my steroid use.
 

Please don't judge me.

Yeah, something like this happened to me. The doctor was quite attractive with really muscular forearms and I could tell from the pressure on my leg that he was not only rock hard, but very well endowed. For some reason he had me lay back on the examining table and adjusted the angle of the table so that my head was a lower than my legs. And then he was standing next to the table with that monstrous tent in his pants just inches from my face. I shifted on the table to get closer and turned my face toward his crotch... and then, just like that, he was rubbing his big boner against my face! I reached over and started to unzip his pants, and OMG!... it was sooo...
 
That's when my alarm clock went off.

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Boner bonus pic of the day...
 
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