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Sorry I can’t help. I wonder where he’s based. However, as he says he’s “open to a Sugar Daddy” MBA, maybe you can import him for a full inspection and test-drive.

Yes. Years ago, I met Luke, a blond muscleboy for an afternoon session in San Francisco. He defined as straight which he told me by way of explanation that he did not kiss. At least, he sucked cock well and he was a decent bottom. It taught me 2 important life-lessons: always clarify in advance what a guy is happy to do; and kissing well is an essential part of love-making for me.

That pic is a few (5?) years old, but it brings back memories. He’s an Argentine with a very hot body, worked in London for a year or so and had the worst universal reviews I’ve known. He was a total dud in bed; he couldn’t even perform well for a gym-buddy of mine (a well-muscled guy of similar age, early 30s).

That was my experience in Argentina too. All such guys kiss with tongue. Most said Yes to bottoming. Majority offer to rim. All but one said Yes to sucking to climax. But you must ask the guy.

The boy in the hoodie (pics 3&4 of this page) is well-endowed and he’s not reluctant to ‘unpack’ it. I’ve seen it and had the pleasure on 2 occasions.

That last boy is beautiful, just my type!

I can’t give direct feedback but a good friend of mine hired him 2 years ago. He reported a very disappointing session (my friend is 50, tall and in decent shape) but CV was uninterested and did not perform as arranged.

Sorry, Unicorn, but I don’t think you can make assumptions about when people nowadays are available for work. Tho I go to bed after midnight, I think of 9pm as my evening curfew for phone calls. I would only make or accept a phone call after that time if it were an emergency. Similarly I never make or take phone calls before 9.30am. And if I were in a Spanish-speaking country, I wouldn’t call someone at home or work until after 10am.

I trust you’re all realistic and understand that what VF does enthusiastically on film may not be how he performs in real life.

Yes to “Fuck First”, or @Tarte Gogo’s more elegant statement. As a client and total top, I defer to what escorts told me - bottoms prefer to get fucked on an empty stomach. If that session was good and we bonded well over dinner, I’d invite them home afterwards. I dated a couple of bottoms who enjoyed getting fucked after dinner but others felt uncomfortable or wanted to douche first. I was always happy to have an oral-only session and be sucked off and see them swallow my load for dessert.

I understand that he won’t fuck you but he will suck you. For $$$$. And sorry to be pedantic but he ain’t blondish, he’s dark-haired.

That’s harsh. He states that he’s 23. And as the activity is consensual and between adults, I don’t see that it matters that there’s an age-gap.

What’s your point? Clients are routinely older than the guys they date.

Boxers Sports Bar isn't that far away, at 742 9th Avenue (by 50th Street). I'm not a bar-person but I took my young boyfriend there once and it was friendly and fun; we had an enjoyable time.

I agree. JockCharlie/Miles has the type of masculine beauty that gets me aroused.

I suspect that Mike Carey, like me, learned to drive Right-Hand Drive vehicles (driving on the left of the road). I live in 3 cities so I only drive automatics.

I'm sorry to hear that. I think it's wrong for you to curtail the pleasure you take in life. I'd encourage you to try again with another guy whose looks appeal to you. Have some fun and take him out for a good dinner afterwards (but don't invite your friends along too). Many nice young men appreciate an older man, especially one who's generous and picks up the dinner check. And FWIW I've dated a lot of young men over the years. Four proved desirable long-term companions, while others were pleasant company for several dates over a few months. And there were a few disastrous one-time dates, including one spectacularly bad no-hope date which still makes me chuckle when I look back on it (especially as the young man concerned chased me for second and third dates). But if I hadn't kept dating, I wouldn't have met the lovely young man who now lives with me.

This young man has a delicious physique. Anyone know who he is? I realise that it's an image by Rick Day but Google Images hasn't been able to help me identify the young man.

I'm proud to report that Kevin (McAulay) is British, gay and out.

@Reluctant Daddy, because you say you're terrible at communication and, unlike the young man, have problems being direct and assertive, I'm going to give you my advice in the form of bullet-points. To put them in context, I'm an older man, fit and in decent shape, and I dress well. Until a few years ago, when I met my much-younger boyfriend who now lives with me, I too used to hire fit-bodied young men. 1. The young man behaved badly. The reason is irrelevant. He was on-the-clock and he should have been kind and considerate in public. 2, If the young man is dazzlingly handsome, has a beautiful physique and performs in bed exactly as you like, you may want to retrieve the situation. Simply state that your feelings were hurt and that you'd like to understand what happened. Suggest that he come over for a drink so you can talk privately. State that this meeting will be off-the-clock and unpaid. If he won't see you to resolve this matter, he does indeed view you just as an ATM. 3. If the young man isn't your hottest companion ever, move on. Contact other young men that interest you. Spend your money having fun with them and take them out to dinner or on trips that interest you. 4. The age-gap will always be 'the elephant in the room'. Accept that it may seem curious to your friends and to strangers. You may get some odd glances in public but most people are unconcerned. Don't let it spoil your fun.

No 'policing', just an appreciative comment on a nice young man. I can certainly see why meeting someone so nice remains firmly a fantasy for you.

http://lmgtfy.com/?q=villa+gianni+london Or if that's too much to handle: http://www.villagiani.com/about-us/

Oh I thought you posted pics to attract comment, not just to take up space on the site's servers. Doubtless you would have me apologise for posting a message in the message-forum ;-)

I think his feet are not that big (IIRC size 9) but certainly Toby James has classic good looks and a very nice body.

It's certainly a rich and stable country, and it counts as a democracy in southern Africa. Nonetheless there are aspects of a feudal society and essentially the country is run by 5 families.