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I agree @toocoolforschool. He’s cute and he has a lovely ripped body. I’m sorry @britok that you describe talking with him as “not a great experience”. I appreciate that his response to your wishes was not what you wanted to hear. I feel, however, that the honesty of the young man is to be valued. It’s better that he was polite and direct with you, rather than you waste your time and money and not get what you want.

I’m currently in Spain which reported a further 152 deaths overnight linked to the coronavirus. Spain has a population of just under 47 million and to date almost 8000 cases of infection and 288 deaths. Authorities admit the “data is lagging”. The response has to been to declare a state of emergency with a national lockdown in full force for at least 15 days. The police are already cruising city streets in Madrid and Barcelona, asking people why they are out of their homes. Heavy fines of almost US$28000 - yes, that is not a typo - are to be imposed from 8am tomorrow on people leaving their homes for any reason other than to go to work or “absolutely necessary” visits to get food or obtain medical care.

I agree. He’s tall and cute, but he’s so slim and slight. I once slept with a guy of similar height and build, and I was seriously worried that, in giving him a hard pounding, I’d break him.

PS re Iguazu Falls Be sure to check ahead @m4same on what the water flow is like when you plan your visit. A few years ago, it was a small trickle. But when I visited (10 years ago), it was in full flow. IMO Iguazu is much more impressive than Niagara, partly because there is a simple walkway over part of the falls...and you walk by a disused, partial but higher walkway which has a sign attached saying that in a strong flow the rest was washed away! You can easily fly in from Buenos Aires in a big jet, but it’s worth staying overnight to explore the area. While walking one morning in the National Park, a wolverine walked across the path in front of me.

IME in a recession (a) rates are not lowered by experienced guys but newcomers offer lower rates to get business; (b) regular clients become much more desirable; © with less disposable income or capital that’s available to spend, clients may be fewer in number; and (d) more men may want to supplement their incomes. This time MAY be different in that it is a supplyside shock first, then a demand shock to the economy. Any downturn might be short-lived if the pandemic is not so severe and not long-lasting.

Buenos Aires may interest you @m4same. With a population of 15million in the city, there are a lot of fit young men. I’m of similar age to you and I found that I was “hit on” quite often. It‘s still a patriarchal society and an older man with money is valued and sought after. Argentina has a distinct culture and an interesting nightlife. And when you tire of the city, the beaches of Uruguay - my favorite being José Ignacio - are within easy reach.

It was the last 3 pics that I had in mind when I posted. Just to annoy you, I can report that I’ve seen the frontal pics ;-)

If you want some serious eye-candy, and a stylish drama set in Mexico, I strongly recommend ‘El Club’ on Netflix

@TruthBTold you‘re usually very up-to-date, so I was disappointed that you didn’t post the recent nude B&W pics of Pietro in the desert.

Thank you @DR FREUD you are quite correct. I attribute my error to my complete fascination with Billy. The thread brought back memories of watching him on video and imagining him deepthroating my cock prior to my giving him a hard pounding.

Yes I remember him well @poolboy48220 and @big-n-tall. IIRC he went on to compete as an MMA fighter. He may have done more than 2 videos with Sean Cody. The one I recall best is him giving a long, sensual and athletic fuck to Billy, who was my ideal of a handsome musclebottom with a ripped physique. (I knew Billy IRL and he was a sweet, eager-to-please guy then; he’s shaved his head and bulked up very considerably since)

Yes @Cubist I’m in a longterm, monogamous relationship with a much younger man. And I get a massage every 1-2 weeks. The relationship not being open is important to my partner, and so it’s important to me. I have had offers of ‘extras’ but I find it easy to refuse anything more than a therapeutic massage. I just think of how upset my partner would feel if I had my cock in another man’s mouth. If declining ‘extras’ is difficult for you, I feel you MUST discuss this with your partner. It’s not good for either of you that you feel “conflicted” in a massage session. Perhaps you should explore with your partner more ways to have physical intimacy - have you tried giving each other a good, long massage (and not being diverted into having sex)?

I sympathise with you @LaffingBear. I try to bear in mind that these young guys may have no experience of how to run a business. And I always endeavor to ”leave the door open” for future contact.

I knew 2 such guys and dated each for several years. Both were as @ezlvr described his guy - masculine, handsome with ripped, muscled bodies, personable and terrific in bed. The first guy was dark (Italian/Spanish mix). In his early 30s, he had a tremendous physique - the most symmetrical body I’ve ever seen: V-shaped torso, tight waist, perfect pecs, 8pack abs. I met him at a group session a friend had organised, and as he was a skilled cocksucker I made sure to get his phone number. Tho he was very masculine (str8 acting, as he put it), he turned out to be an eager bottom provided he was first dominated. Further dates revealed how he loved being tied up and fucked, sucking all the cocks at a party and swallowing loads etc. He had a big cock himself but rarely climaxed; he became especially enlarged when used by a group of men. He never advertised and only took referrals. Strangely, tho he always wanted discretion, he didn’t mind being photographed when he was naked with an erect cock in his mouth or his ass. The second guy was a blond Englishman, early 20s, a dedicated gym-goer from his early teens. I met him in an AOL chat-room; we shared an underwear fetish. I offered to buy him some sexy new briefs and he came over for a date. Tho he wasn’t into older men, he loved to get fucked hard, preferably for a long time and in various positions. We agreed on a regular rate for regular dates, and after I’d pounded him for long enough, he was happy to suck my cock to completion. I was fascinated to discover how readily he swallowed my load and licked my cock clean. He confessed to a strange sexual desire: as my cum hit the back of his throat, he would always climax without even touching his own cock. He only had an ad on Rentboy for a month or so, and he took it down once he had a small group of regular clients. He also was not camera-shy.

Thank you @honcho and @whipped guy. You brought back memories: he’s a very handsome Brazilian who’s always impeccably groomed.

@haring222 have you considered a weekend in San Diego/La Jolla or Fort Lauderdale ?

If it’s an afternoon or evening appointment, I’d text about 10am saying ‘I’m confirming as asked and looking forward to meeting as arranged at (time and place)’.

He’s a male model, named Dusty Lachowicz. And not just a pretty face.

Yes @Trebor he is a beauty. Nice guy too...and he’s as big as he looks to be.

I was just trying to make a small observation on how far this thread had travelled from the OP’s original question. There’s no need for you to be nasty @jjkrkwood As it happens, I received a very nice and informative PM from @Smurof

Now there are 4 pages of responses to @Smurof and his despair at never getting a reply, does this thread have a purpose? ;-)

Get used to very late nights @KevinChgo In Chueca (the gay zone). Dinner at midnight is not regarded as unusual. AFAIK there’s only one sauna (Adan) with working guys. But lots of guys advertise in the usual places (PlanetRomeo.com and Telechapero.com)

I wonder if guys remember Jonathan Agassi, an Israeli gay male porn performer and escort, who started work in the first decade of this millennium. His story is pretty usual for a porn performer - drugs, depression and easy money - but he survived and is a Tel Aviv supermarket worker now. His life is described in this article https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-8029821/Former-gay-porn-star-claims-father-tried-adult-girlfriend-sex-12.html And there’s a documentary about him on BBC. “Storyville: The Rise and Fall of a Pornstar“ will air on BBC Four on Monday at 10pm In the UK

I agree with you @Coolwave35. If it were me, I’d say “there’s no obligation to have sex,, unless you want to” and I’d add “there’s a strict NO photos policy to ensure privacy UNLESS everyone involved in sex in a couple, trio or group AGREES to photos being taken” That was very much my experience @Coolwave35 when I organised sex parties with a group of hot guys. It does take a lot of planning and discussion.

I think you’ve gotten some good advice here @lonely_john. If your name here reflects your current feelings, I’d add that you should aim to NOT get too excited on first meeting a man. By staying calm in the first five minutes, you’ll be able to assess his physical and mental states. Does he look like his pics? Does he seem unfocused? Are his pupils dilated? Are there unexplained actions by him? Is he hyper? And learn to trust your instincts/initial reactions. If you sense danger, give him $20/$40 and get out fast.