Jacque

First was Royal, he’s out in the northwest suburbs. Nice massage, super pleasant guy. About a month later I visited Caleb in the city and received an excellent massage. Really worked on certain areas and made sure I was comfortable. I left his studio feeling so relaxed.

I saw him while here in Chicago. He's very real. A polite handsome dude. Will post a review.

The pictures are professional glamour photos, but, they are in no way fake. Very good looking guy with nice body and 9" uncut cock that stays hard. Very cordial and considerate and hot.

I would have canceled after day one. I wouldn't tolerate that from a fuckbuddy, boyfriend, date, and certainly not when I am paying for TIME. That special TIME thingy TIME TIME TIME. It means, you spent several thousands of dollars to be cute on instagram. Put his ass out and cancel the flight back.
 
I had a regular date from a guy who chased me for years attend a friends wedding in Cabo. Well, the night before the wedding when we all went out he was wasted sitting and snuggling up with a local in front of my friends. I didn't blink. When he returned to the room he was checked out and the ticket I paid for was canceled by my assistant. You can pay your own way since you are traveling alone. I need my room free for the hot local ass I'll be fucking tonight. So, call your boy and head over to the barrio. "He doesn't have a place." Well you two have a lot in common. I am sure he never did that again. Part of this experience needs to be a lesson.
 
This is worse than newbies trying to spend the entire session "Getting to know you." Let them now your therapy is covered by insurance. If we don't know each other in 10 minutes, you should leave. Ciao.
 
It sounds like you have more of a "friendly" relationship where when he needs something you are his good friend. But when you need something, business less than usual.
 
Kick him out. I get annoyed by such trash. You worked hard to wine and dime him for no cuddle and no selfie. A third of the guys there are less and they would love to join you. You will look like a well respected gentleman in the end.

Yes, we've had good chemistry in bed but he was just so into himself that by the end we weren't really speaking. We had talked about our own times and I was specific of just having a nice BF experience. At night he told me he couldn't sleep with anyone. We had to change rooms to get 2 double beds. I think I counted that he had posted 38 selfies of himself on his Instagram account alone. Not one time did he say let's shoot a photo of us. I think you get my drift.

I'm a client who had just recently taken an escort for four days to Palm Springs, flew first class and stayed at the Hacienda. He was someone I had seen regularly thru the years but mainly on hour or two and an occasional dinner.
It was such a disappointment. I think I'll post in Deli about good travelers as my escort spent countless hours at the pool taking selfies and posting on his Grindr, Instagram accounts. Just was so not engaged as to any quality time together.

I’m a little curious about his fee for this period?

Got it! The only escort I know I could travel with and know 100% all eyes and lips would be on me is [uSER=12155]@Dominiking[/uSER]. It is good that you shared even though not a positive experience for you. It will help all those thinking about traveling to plan effectively.

I thought I would bump up a thread about my experiences in Palm Springs at various resorts.
 
Thus far, I have experienced four of the clothing optional resorts, an two of the more main stream places.
 
The Parker
Fancy place, Jonathan Adler designed. Beautiful grounds; I was there for a wedding, which they seem to do a lot of. It was really costly; I think my total bill for the weekend was almost 2 grand (but that did include some meals and drinking). I would skip it, but head there for brunch or lunch if you want to see it.
 
The Ace
I checked this out for a friends birthday weekend...the firm that designed it is called Commune, and they did an awesome job. Very sort of 60s chic vibe, they took an old motor lodge and made it cool. The clientele are very (well, to be blunt) douch-ey. Entitled 25 to 35 year old folks. Lot's of well done breast implants. The old school diner charged $16 for eggs and toast. I had fun, but mostly because of the block of friends that I went there with. It was more expensive than it was worth.
 
The Century
Gay, clothing optional. Small resort, 10 or 12 rooms. This was my first clothing optional experience, which was not as weird as I thought it would be. It really does not matter if you want to be naked or not. I thought the hotel was really cool, but also a little bit late 90s dated...but I now know that it is pretty chic as far as palm springs clothing optional goes. The hotel is small enough that everyone is super friendly with each other, and they do a magical 5 PM cocktail hour that really makes everyone hang out and chat. Great staff, friendly owners as well. The hot tub is super fun. The vibe is not overtly sexual, though I think some naughty times happens....it is more discrete and not creepy. My only complaint (seriously) is that the sliding doors are a little bit janky to try and lock....I would advise against bringing anything expensive with you so you don't have to worry about keeping the room secured. It is in Warm Sands, parking is easy...you can grab lunch if you take a 10 minute walk up the street and you can be to downtown PS in about a 25 minute walk / $8 uber ride. The folks that stay there tend to be sort of well heeled gay guys, 30-50ish.
 
The Canyon Club
OK, so it's pretty much a bath house. The check in counter has a lube display if that tells you anything. Outstanding downtown location. The pictures online are not accurate...they make it look sort of nautical and pretty, but the place has a seedy sort of rundown late 80s vibe. I kept wondering why the coke dispenser room smelled like lube until I realized it abutted a dark room sort of area. My room was cleanish with stained brown carpeting and was so un stylish that it was sort of honest about it. The crowd during the day skewed older (40 to 60) and they sell day passes, so outside folks were coming in to hang out. I was there for two nights, on night #1 I had a fun time hanging out with a guy visiting from out of town and on night #2 I had really good sex with a 25 year old fellow who must have been there on a day pass...he knocked on my room window and I got to know his bubble butt very well. The vibe was friendly-ish and a little bit skanky, which I did not mind. This place is very affordable and the location is awesome.
 
El Mirasol Villas
Not a fan. Sort of friendly staff (well, I only met one guy working there). Beautiful landscaping in general, two pools. They will loan you a porn DVD at reception but I did not get a sexual vibe at all. I had booked a room there for 4 nights, ended up moving hotels after one night; I think there are 20 rooms (give or take) but I only saw 4 other guests. One fellow was mid 50s and so tan he resembled tree bark, one mid 70s gay couple who were cute but passed a lot of gas while sunbathing, and one fellow who was in his room the entire time but had a procession of escorts come and go from it...I would assume he was the most interesting out of the lot. I think it was just not the right place for me. The room was TACKY...aggressively fake mexican furnishings. I would rather a space be taste free instead of tasteless. I think if you wanted a quiet couples only weekend this would be a great place to do it. After one night I realized I would rather pay for two rooms than remain any longer.
 
All Worlds
This place is also pretty much a bath house. The main resort is a big compound with (four?) pools, one small hot tub, and a wide array of buildings. All ages of people were there. They sell day and night passes, which brings a lot of people in. I had a lot of fun; there is a really active and super friendly dark room setup and they do a fun Sunday BBQ in the afternoon. Nice staff. Rooms were a little bit beat up but fine. There were guys there in their 20s all the way to 70s. The main resort is very busy, lot's going on. The Annex, which is across a street from it, has it's own pool and hot tub and is super quiet. My room was back there, and was nice...I think I would rather be in the main resort but the annex would be better if you wanted someplace quieter. I had a lot of sex there, which was kind of fun. Three problems: There was a lot of drug use. Lot's of smoking pot (whatever) but also a major group of people on crystal meth. They all seemed to know each other, so maybe it was just a drug friends vacation situation but grindr was full of people in the resort referring to crystal and one guy actually sat in a chair by the pool with a thing tied off around his arm...I thought he was going to shoot up right there. The owner was present, and was having an argument with his 'boy toy', which apparently change often...that was weird energy. It also got a little bit creepy at night back in the annex. I was a little weirded out by the drug guys, and did not feel 100% safe....I was up stupid early on Sunday morning and hopped into the hot tub with a book at 7 AM and was joined with two super sketch guys who were on substances and were still up from the night before. I actually had a lot of fun staying there, though I think I would probably book rooms again at the Century (just a block over) and get a day pass to hang out at All Worlds.

I've tried him before...he's based in san diego, but is in palm springs and LA at least once a month...looks exactly like his pics, nice guy, super warm and friendly, very professional, but no extras :-( except for a nice bear hug at the end which was kinda cute
 
massage was good, but tbh I probably wouldn't see him again...with tip I paid $180 for a 90 min massage with no extras :-/ hell i've paid half that before for the same quality massage WITH extras lol so yeah I hate to say it cuz he's a really nice guy but for the price there's better options

Welcome to the Sandbox.
 
1) Do your homework and only hire well reviewed escorts.
 
2) Never pay upfront.
 
That will solve 95% of your problems.....now for the rest....
 
End a session immediately if the provider is not keeping his end of the deal.
Once you realize you are being scammed....it NEVER gets better. Trust me. End it.
 
They know full well they are trying to scam you and they are counting on you
backing down and "paying them to leave". They also know when the fish has jumped
off the hook. If they're a scammer...this isn't the first time it's happened to them.
 
Your safety comes first....but I've never had an escort get violent when I've called
them out on their deceptions. I generally do pay a small "showing up /taxi fee" if
we get beyond "meet and greet" phase before it becomes clear I'm being scammed.
We're talking less than $50. Most take the token payment and run for the hills.
 
Be firm. Be direct. Be polite. Don't blink.
 
It helps if you're a New Yorker....if you're not....now is the time to FAKE IT!
 
Remember, escorts scammers don't want security/police called any more than you do.

I’m sorry about your bad experiences.
 
Hire well-reviewed escorts from the review site or this board - I’m going to presume that you did not do this, if you did, my apologies
 
I am NOT shocked to hear story after story (here and privately) about guys having bad experiences with the guys they hire. DO NOT put up with some hot guy’s bullshit - yes his body is amazing, yes he starred in some porn, but NO he cannot stand you up multiple times / fail to deliver the promised services / disrespect you.
 
/rant

This happens so often that I'm not hiring anymore. I never hire unless the terms are agreed:for me, the escort has to kiss suck swallow and btm bb. Escorts are 100% allowed to say no and most do, but some will agree to all. Then, change the game once money has been exchanged, barely kissing and telling me that they are fukn tops, so no sucking and no fucking his ass. I know they are tops, but they advertised top/vers... Problem is that the guys I go for are muscle beef, and I end up paying for the exact opposite for what was agreed because I don't want to risk pissing off a guy that could hurt me, and as this is escorting, I can't take these guys to court for breach of contract.
I've hired 5 guys and all 5 played the same game, thinking that they are so muscle and hot that just showing up is enough. And sick thing is that for 99% of their clients, it is: so many out there happy to pay to get fucked and nothing else.
Any client had the guts to refuse to pay because none of the sex acts that were agreed occurred? and if yes, what happened. Of course, getting an escort point of view would be great.
Thanks
Steve

Yes, Easter and Christmas are similarly big deals over in Europe.
In America, Christmas is a much bigger deal than Easter for some reason.
 
Having said that, I'd be inclined to tip extra undisirrigardless.
It's an important day to many so let's spread some cheer.
Especially if the masseur comes up with an interesting thematic touch, like massaging you on "a cross" or (gently) whipping you or something ;-)...

Only if he makes me rise again...
 
Kipp

I'm following Gio Benitez in IG, do you think he would hook for me?

If you know the guy is an escort there's not much problem. If it's a guy who has friends that escort you mention their name. You can stick with "see" or "meet" and they're likely to turn to escort talk. Just last night I friended a cute friend of an escort friend in Prague and he's been messaging me all day and he turned to "business" and "escorting".
 
I sort of created a monster with this on the other site. In Prague things are different and all you need is a couple good pornstars or escorts friends' Facebook or Insta and all of a sudden you're into their friends list. I did this because my best guys there are not on RM and Romeo is troublesome and you usually are going through their agent who speaks English. So many clients have now friended these guys and their friends that a number of totally fake FB and Insta profiles have cropped up to appeal to gay clients for some reason (birthdays?). I can spot the fakes easily.
 
You also get into the Czech bodybuilders who as exhibitionists are all on FB and interconnected. Half my friends' timeline on FB now is in Czech which I don't speak and half of those are bodybuilders or MMA fighters, only a couple of whom I've ever dated and most of whom are at least one friend removed from escort friends. Not sure how I'll deal with them. I'll announce on FB when I'm in Prague and mention if any friends want to meet.
 
And my favorite guys I will only contact through Messenger or Insta because I know they will get the message. Even WhatsApp/text numbers can change at the agents' whim. And it is nice seeing where they are traveling, their home, family (sometimes gf's, wives and kids !). A great way to exchange photos of home and travels etc. For maybe 4 or 5 friends WhatsApp is the better way to talk, for the rest FB or Insta.

It’s well known that a lot of instagram models use insta as a very discreet way to escort. It happens all over the world.
 
Instagram is totally unfriendly to escorts, professional doms, and anyone of the sort however. So escorting on instagram happens really discreetly. Known escorts/providers who keep instagram accounts often see them deleted out of nowhere suddenly. Just for being a known escort from elsewhere online. Advertising escort services openly on Insta is definitely not possible.
 
The models who escort off instagram run their pages like normal models, but they will reply when you ask how you can meet them in real life. The smart ones will give you another form of contact to discuss it off instagram since it can get them banned easily to discuss it thru the platform.
 
But yeah if you google I’m pretty sure there are articles talking about how (perhaps female) instagram models are escorting secretly thru the platform.

I’ve never connected with an escort on IG, but I follow several — some I’ve interacted with, and some I hope to see. But if you’re interested in knowing more about an escort, IG is a two-edged sword. Some escort IGs leave me wanting to see the man in question again, but in other cases a peek into their IG life amounts to w-a-a-a-a-a-y TMI, and/or a real buzz-kill, and I have to strike the guy off my list. Definitely a “Black Mirror” problem.

It's a safe bet that any instagram model who posts nudes on onlyfans will escort for the right amount.

So I saw Caleb this afternoon and it was a good experience. His massage skills were good. I think because he’s only 5’7” that it’s not as easy for him to reach compared to someone who is 6’0” or taller. I did ask for deep pressure and he was able to deliver that on my body parts closer to him but medium on the other parts. Not that it’s a bad thing. And he was easy to talk to, very friendly guy.

LOL, it's true!
I tried out of curiosity and got blocked too :-) :-) :-)
 
What a pathetic little diva... so not my type but, based on what I see, a narcissist thinking of himself as some kind of super-hot celebrity.

Worse - he disappeared after i sent a payment. I own up to the mistake though. I know better than sending advances to escorts. Was probably just blinded by what I thought was his celebrity, having seen some of his work and his promise to send his videos before we met. They didn’t come either. Lesson learned.

I am not a registered user, so I don't think they can tell if I look. But I did send him an email and have gotten no response so far......

i don't understand how people get blocked? are they able to block anyone...or only registered users?