Kman

I hear you. When I first started I was very excited and wanted to hire all the time, but I've definitely slowed down a lot. For me, it's basically been a couple of traveling regulars and then if someone comes into town that I am really excited about.
 
I think part of it for me is I'd rather save money and then have a really great, longer experience with someone I am really interested than have more frequent sessions with guys that are fine but nothing special.

This guy now has a rentmen ad, I remember his pics from men4rentnow but I don't think he was Mpls based...I want to say San Francisco??? Any intel?
 
https://rentmen.eu/Sexyhotstud

Personal phone with number provided by carrier

I have texted with him briefly, his rates are very reasonable. Timing might be an issue for me...but I will try

I have texted with him briefly, his rates are very reasonable. Timing might be an issue for me...but I will try

My guess is this is the guy....
 
http://www.flirt4free.com/models/bios/griff-teller/about.php.
 
I have seen him on cam a few times...he seems very nice.

Cant speak for his massage skills but he dances at the Adonis Lounge. Seems like a genuinely nice guy, and good body.

Im a little different than most on here in that I llike risky and elusive men. I like men im not supposed to have. I had a lil plumbing issue the other day and I called up a local plumber(rates super cheap). When he showed up it was something out a porn movie. White tight tshirt with holes in it faded blue jeans with muscles bulging everywhere. Honestly guys like this make alot of what i see on the internet obsolete.. We were talking and he is a young kid early 20's just became an apprentice barely making ends meet. Has a young kid etc etc. A buddy had to drop him cause he didnt pay his insurance etc(hard luck stories galore). I didnt make a move but i thought to myself arent guys like this perfect types? They work with their bodies and are blue collar so they dont overthink things. Should i clog up my toilet again and make a move?

Thanks @sync that is exactly what I did. It seems we are all feeling the same.

I see all kinds of guys. I enjoy what I do. I've been doing it for a very long time. Why would I discriminate? Cum one cum all!
 
Hugs,
Greg

Thanks @sync that is exactly what I did. It seems we are all feeling the same.

@Kman, it pains me to hear what you are going through. Many in our society expect us to feel nothing but sadness when someone dies. It is gratifying to hear that you are able to avoid that trap and let yourself feel the way you feel.

@Kman -- sorry to hear what you're working through, but very impressed that you're doing so with such openness and clarity.
 
Not sure that it will be useful, but your experience with your friend put me in mind of this recent article, which I found to be a powerful account of experiencing a loved one's mental illness.
https://www.nytimes.com/2019/05/08/magazine/cousin-kill-me-male-violence.html

Thanks @sync that is exactly what I did. It seems we are all feeling the same.

Thanks @sync that is exactly what I did. It seems we are all feeling the same.

owning it means you have to be honest with yourself that you have a bias...you can't date someone or hook up with someone based solely on their race I think that's a problem.

You do have that right, yes. But if it’s based on race you have to own that.

I still don’t understand where you coming from...no one is born with tattoos you are born with your ethnicity and you can’t change that...so to rule out a potential hook up/date ect solely based on their ethnicity is racist.

Ok, food and people are not the same.

I still don’t understand where you coming from...no one is born with tattoos you are born with your ethnicity and you can’t change that...so to rule out a potential hook up/date ect solely based on their ethnicity is racist.

I have met with him, looks like his pics. Subpar in my opinion PM me if you would like.

I would agree that the stat is pointing towards heterosexual men but when you get on grindr or adam4adam or whatever you're using no one seems to want to meet. Even when there is a mutual attraction it seems like someone tries to find an excuse not to meet. IMHO it has to do with the whole social media cultural where people can hide behind a screen and not really meet anyone...just another reason why hiring an escort is so much easier

I think the 50-55 minute of actual massage time is pretty typical, they account for the set up and clean up as part of the full hour (much like doctors, therapists, ect)
 
And I don't normally like continuing the massage after the HE..I would much rather clean up.

Crazy, I did not know there was a pill used to help you with alcoholism. I have a friend that recently went through a weight loss surgery and she was an over eater but now she doesn't eat much but has turned to drinking heavily (she drank before but not to this extent) so basically substituting alcohol for food. So do people who take that pill start abusing something else since they don't desire alcohol??

I would agree that the stat is pointing towards heterosexual men but when you get on grindr or adam4adam or whatever you're using no one seems to want to meet. Even when there is a mutual attraction it seems like someone tries to find an excuse not to meet. IMHO it has to do with the whole social media cultural where people can hide behind a screen and not really meet anyone...just another reason why hiring an escort is so much easier