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I would never have left my home if he did not respond. We as gay men get caught up in this hope that these unresponsive guys are worth us getting into a car, taxi, bus....and showing up somewhere and no response. Don’t bother with unresponsive masseurs. Move on. Weed these guys out of business. Yes...they look great in their pictures but be realistic if they don’t respond. This Forum is the best ever on getting rid of unprofessional masseurs.

I got a massage from this guy years ago in San Diego. He was strictly theraputic and said a few body shaming things to me at the time. I was very nice and let them go but he was very arrogant and full of his own grandeur. I am also not a bad looking man but he hated guys that had any weight on them. It is interesting to see his developments after a few years. I think he is still very picky about who he sees. Not really a gay affirming man and should not be in this business.

Josh-Masculine - I hired him years ago in Vegas and it was a very negative experience. He showed up not looking like his pictures, he was drunk, insisting on taking things from the minibar. Maybe we just didn’t vibe or he was having an odd day but it was pretty bad. I was very new to hiring at the time but I’ll never forget it.

I get soooooo tired of the “buy him a sandwich” here in The Spa and elsewhere on the forum. If a provider isn’t your type, move on. How is commenting on your personal opinion of a person’s physique helpful in moving a topic forward.
Thanks @Dmitri

Completely uncalled for your language and attitude on this site. Jokes can hurt and they hurt a lot more than you could ever imagine… Most gay men know that and have experienced thishurt in their life… Maybe you have not but that doesn’t mean that it isn’t a universal thing for gay men...it is a universal thing for gay men and has always existed for centuries to make fun of gay men. Also your ability to write something nice and without hate is nonexistent. The site was not made to bash people…

Completely uncalled for your language and attitude on this site. Jokes can hurt and they hurt a lot more than you could ever imagine… Most gay men know that and have experienced thishurt in their life… Maybe you have not but that doesn’t mean that it isn’t a universal thing for gay men...it is a universal thing for gay men and has always existed for centuries to make fun of gay men. Also your ability to write something nice and without hate is nonexistent. The site was not made to bash people…

Completely uncalled for your language and attitude on this site. Jokes can hurt and they hurt a lot more than you could ever imagine… Most gay men know that and have experienced thishurt in their life… Maybe you have not but that doesn’t mean that it isn’t a universal thing for gay men...it is a universal thing for gay men and has always existed for centuries to make fun of gay men. Also your ability to write something nice and without hate is nonexistent. The site was not made to bash people…

Hey guys, I know it is all in good fun, and good for a laugh. But making fun or ridiculing a masseur's appearance, whatever it is .....body type, fat/skinny, unattractive, ugly, etc. is not cool. I know mocking comments are made as a joke....but let's not have our laughs at their expense. I have seen this alot in posts, and find it sad. As gay men most of us were mocked growing up, so we know what it's like. Let's not bring that into the Forum. Aaron is a good looking guy, and looks like a sweet kid. Would hate for him to see this post body shaming him for how skinny he is. It would be great if we could stop trying to get laughs by insulting a masseur's appearance.

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Sorry this is an annoying reply as I haven't had any experience with any of the masseurs on this list, but am replying as I love your taste, and would also love some info on any of the above!

I wrote that comment. He is very fun. Pictures are recent and just ask to clarify what you want.

I would never have left my home if he did not respond. We as gay men get caught up in this hope that these unresponsive guys are worth us getting into a car, taxi, bus....and showing up somewhere and no response. Don’t bother with unresponsive masseurs. Move on. Weed these guys out of business. Yes...they look great in their pictures but be realistic if they don’t respond. This Forum is the best ever on getting rid of unprofessional masseurs.

I would never have left my home if he did not respond. We as gay men get caught up in this hope that these unresponsive guys are worth us getting into a car, taxi, bus....and showing up somewhere and no response. Don’t bother with unresponsive masseurs. Move on. Weed these guys out of business. Yes...they look great in their pictures but be realistic if they don’t respond. This Forum is the best ever on getting rid of unprofessional masseurs.

I would never have left my home if he did not respond. We as gay men get caught up in this hope that these unresponsive guys are worth us getting into a car, taxi, bus....and showing up somewhere and no response. Don’t bother with unresponsive masseurs. Move on. Weed these guys out of business. Yes...they look great in their pictures but be realistic if they don’t respond. This Forum is the best ever on getting rid of unprofessional masseurs.

Thanks @EVdude
I can't help being a novice on this site, but I've reviewed a few people, some good some bad, all based on personal experience. For me this is an expensive hobby, so when we splurge this forum is great for making sure your money is well spent. Some of you have helped me navigate and avoid the pitfalls, I'm just doing my best to give back and pay it forward

Is there anyone who has been active in this forum a while who has seen this masseur? The thread was started by and the positive comments are all by new accounts. Please forgive my suspicious nature. ?

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I had a great time with him. He will clarify what his boundaries are if you ask when booking. Very nice guy! Beautiful man.

I had a great time with him. He will clarify what his boundaries are if you ask when booking. Very nice guy! Beautiful man.

Wow. Very bold to say such things here to a very big client base. Especially since many men here desire a regular and consistent masseur. I understand hygiene can be an issue for a masseur but overweight and uncut? Many potential clients are a little overweight all the way up to obese. I would think hygiene is the most important issue with anyone but weight is something a good masseurs knows how to handle, appreciate and satisfy a client.

Wow. Very bold to say such things here to a very big client base. Especially since many men here desire a regular and consistent masseur. I understand hygiene can be an issue for a masseur but overweight and uncut? Many potential clients are a little overweight all the way up to obese. I would think hygiene is the most important issue with anyone but weight is something a good masseurs knows how to handle, appreciate and satisfy a client.

And we know who’s going to be a lot less busy. Enjoy all your free time! You deserve it.

My good man, it is the quality of play betweenst the sheets not the sidewalk presentation that should be considered. . .unless, of course, you are utilizing the hire as table decoration in place of a floral arrangement.

No massage skills, felt distant like he didn’t want to be there. The ending felt mechanical, but he is very attractive. No repeat for me.