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This is why I deleted my profiles on rentmasseur and masseurfinder, it’s all beyond pointless, l only use them to check the listings and get the phone numbers of the masseurs I might hire. I no longer write or read those reviews.

I am glad the scammer(s) didn’t get what they were after. But in reality there were many red flags along the way. Always remember RULE #1, also called TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE. A guy that hot checking “erotic” and charging only $100?! In LA of all places?! Plus there’s RULE #2, when things get just a little weird RUN! First, there is no way the muscular guy in these pix weighs only 165 lbs while being 5’9”. Then he lists Clearwater as a travel destination. As if he rushed to establish his rentmasseur profile just before his trip to that major metro area. And most importantly, who the fuck wants a stupid card instead of cash?! Remember, when something doesn’t seem right in this business, there is a good reason for it. Having said that, I now feel like contacting these asses and wasting their time, they certainly deserve it!

It is one thing if the client gets up and wants to leave. It’s a different story otherwise. A great masseur/professional can always suggest things like neck massage, grooming, showering together (if the massage was erotic or sensual), or take that time to gently wipe the lotion off of you, with some soothing additional sensual moves. The least he can do is acknowledge that the time is not up yet and attempt to engage in some polite conversation about nutrition, exercising or whatever. Getting rid of you well ahead of the supposed end of the appointment exposes any friendly attitude or great vibe as phony and is a major turnoff for me. This is why I carefully check recommendations on this site when it comes to straight or “aspiring model” masseurs, as this wham-bam attitude tends to be an issue.

I could be an outlier here but I no longer write reviews on masseurfinder and rentmasseur. I simply tell any masseur who wants me to write a review that they pissed me off and I deleted my accounts, which is true. Plus I truly believe these are pointless at this point anyway. This site, on the other hand, is a different story, and I’ll put in a good word for any masseur who deserves it. Those who shortchange you on time are automatically disqualified, sorry. Theft of time makes any “great vibe” phony in retrospect so that cancels it in my book. And I am not going to go back and remind an adult charging what is typically a very nice hourly rate that theft and disrespect of the client is not ok. PS. Nobody handles any time left over at the end of the appointment better than my boy Jake, a true professional and a very sweet, articulate dude. He never rushes to get dressed & run, typically suggesting a nice neck massage instead. Or shower. My other favorites somehow always manage to hit the right time or even give a little extra, which is a good business practice as they get referrals, recommendations here, and nice tips. I am so over take-the-money-and-run guys no matter how hot they are. My favorites are as hot as any but they are also decent guys above all so why lower the bar?

That's just my luck, he'll be in Texas! :-) :-) :-)

Yikes, thank you! I was browsing in a hurry, I totally missed it. A MAJOR red flag!

Looking forward to revisiting NOLA but the masseur scene there is seriously disappointing for such major tourist destination :-( I would love to hear any recommendations, and/or feedback on these two guys I might consider: https://rentmasseur.com/TouchofPleasures https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/36350/

He is now in New Orleans. I am going there soon and would love to hear about any experiences that might recommend or disqualify him. As much as I love the city, the masseur scene there is seriously underwhelming :-(

I am afraid too hot, as in too good to be true :-( The whole thing just doesn't jive, the very recent profile, the wording of the ad, the professional level pix, and the ridiculously low rate for a guy that hot. Sorry to be so negative, I hope I am wrong...

I tried contacting him when he was in Chicago and received a very assholey response. Instead of answering a couple of simple and polite questions it was like “check my ad and give me a call if interested.” I passed, the hot pix and the low rates just don’t jive.

My sense is that the "security reasons excuse" is pure bullshit, especially if they, and you, don't allow blocked numbers. I am sure all text messages are recorded and retrievable from the providers, so if some serious shit should happen, things should be easy to trace. Given that, I feel that, as long as the guy sounds normal, setting up appointments via text gives me sufficient confidence to walk into a hotel room for a massage, with the understanding that there is no protection against lame. Now, there are always psychos and bad actors, and this is why you want to be careful, but in reality they can get you on the subway or a dark street corner too. Hence, as soon as a masseur sounds like he might have "issues" just RUN, no matter how hot the pix on the profile. The pix are most likely fakes anyway. In this particular case, it felt like prying basic information that someone that's in this business in order to make money should be eager to give. I am not going to beg or jump through hoops for a service for which I am already paying considerable amount of money, period.

Going to Detroit soon, so, in addition to any updates on Kevin, any info on this guy would be great: https://rentmasseur.com/Shaner The rate is on the low side and it's outcalls only, so I don't have hopes but you never know :-). Needless to say, other recommendations are more than welcome, thanks!

Harley Davidson muzej mi je bio zanimljiv, ali ja volim motore :-), kratka voznja Uberom ili Lyftom, ipak nije za pesice. Ima i odlican muzej umetnosti na samoj obali, ultra-moderna zgrada koja ujutro uz klasicnu muziku "otvara krila" a uvece ih spusta. Bila mi je jako ugodna i voznja brodicem, grad je na obali jezera ali kroz njega tece i reka koja se racva. Ugodan stari centar (historic third ward) sa obnovljenim zgradama i mnostvom restorana, jedan manji i pitomiji Cikago :-) Jedan od top 5 gradova u USA u kojima bih mogao ziveti samo da zima nije uzasna. To se vidi i po tome da su mnoge zgrade u centru povezane tako da ne moras izlaziti vani :-) PS Verovatno cete bit u samom centru, ok ste izmedju jezera i reke i par blokova zapadno od reke, a onda vec krece biti malo neugodno zbog beskucnika i prosjaka, standardni americki problemi :-(

Tried contacting him, but didn't feel like prying the most basic info out of him so I gave up. Another reason is that $140 per hour doesn't jive with superhot pix, it all just made me suspicious. Oh, well...

Going (for the first time) to SLC soon, so I thought we'd update the info. Any experience with https://rentmasseur.com/RugbyCade or https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/33254/ ? Also, any updates on these two would be great: https://rentmasseur.com/Intimitherapy https://rentmasseur.com/Cris Send me a private message if you prefer, thank you!

Do we have any new info on Marcio? Updated link: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/24984/

I am highly skeptical, he doesn't state what type of massage he offers (therapeutic, sensual, erotic) and the pricing ($145, WTF?) is a major red flag. I'd so avoid.

Nice guy, looks like his pix, friendly, literate and prompt texts, massages you naked and is ok with light mutual touching. Massage is OK but not great technically, with lots of sensual touches that make up for it. Very relaxed experience, I'd do it again, even though I prefer a little better technical skills. However, he makes up for it in personality, chillness, and playfulness.

Yeah, pushing it, I got a quote of $250 for 90 minutes, which is above the usual $200/240. I think a guy charging $160 an hour and $240 for 90 minutes is already pushing it, and I am unlikely to tip unless he is insanely hot AND the vibe & chemistry are awesome. And if he is not insanely hot, I probably won't even try at this rate. All this is more a matter of principle than a matter of money, because I frequently pay well over $240 for a really good session with a masseur whose quoted rate is like $200. But if he tries to push it by quoting $240, he gets less or no business at all. At $250, I am thinking I'll likely do multiples of $20 so I am looking at a baseline of $260. Nah. Not because I cannot afford it but because it sets the stage in a wrong way. I don't like the feel of being treated like a cash machine.

A quick report from NYC, with sincere thanks to all who provided feedback and advice after my Feb 27 inquiry. https://rentmasseur.com/Samgl A very good and pleasant experience, the dude knows what he is doing, handles glutes and other tricky areas with a gusto, is friendly and professional, and his place is nice and conveniently located. I just love it when they get naked right away, it makes me feel comfortable and "levels the playing field," whether things turn sensual or not. And yes, it did turn sensual (but of course not sexual, which I don't want anyway) and I thoroughly enjoyed it. I'd see him again if my boys Brad or Yosi are not in town, the only reason being that I have better chemistry with them and find them insanely sexy, even though their massage is not as sensual. Sam is hot, though, with beautiful body hair . https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/19807/ Ivan politely responded to my message that he doesn't feel comfortable being naked (or touched), so I decided to pass. I have made it my requirement, sorry. If I am going to be lying there naked, I want my masseur to be ready to be naked with me. Without that, I might as well go to a regular massage place and get professional quality service for $80-100 an hour. Interestingly, his posted rate was $140 when I inquired. I just checked and it is now $160, maybe he changed his mind? So I bit the bullet and saw Andrew: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/37459/ https://rentmasseur.com/AndrewOo He is a nice dude, insanely hot, generally knows what he is doing, but the whole experience was underwhelming. Yeah, he has some training but he uses tons of baby oil and the massage is a little half-assed. Yeah, he gets naked but you have to remind him, even though you specified that in the initial texts. Yeah, he allows touching but he clearly dislikes it, so you just give up as soon as you find out because it feels weird. Etc. etc. His English is quite basic but his texts were very literate, which suggests that I was talking to a handler who recruits hot and mostly straight Eastern Europeans, for whom this is an attractive gig. And he probably makes a lot by charging them a percentage (and without fully disclosing to them what the client's expectations are?), which is an additional turnoff.

This is weird, his profile doesn't show up when I do search for NYC. But when I click on the link above, his profile shows up and is active, and says he is in NYC, wtf?

I had no idea he was a former porn star, I found out only later, after my very good experience. It seems that he has found his calling, I think he does this really well and enjoys it, and that's just great to see. Some sensuality and he massaged me in the nude, it seemed to come natural to him (duh!) , but nothing extravagant or sexual. I will repeat when our paths cross again. And yeah, he IS hot and masculine. Mature and athletic but not overly pumped or ripped, just the way I like them ;-) Very professional too, he texted me on his next visit (super-polite note) but we couldn't make our schedules work.

It must be that his ad is on and off (is that a bad sign?), I didn't see him when I was doing my NYC search for the upcoming trip. Glad I saw him now, one more candidate to put on my list Having said that, he does list "therapeutic" so is he completely unskilled or is it that he just tends to emphasize sensuality? Maybe he operates under the assumption that that's what all he clients want anyway? And if you want to tell me about the sensual part, I'd love to get more detail via PM ;-) THANKS!

THANK YOU! The ad really does have that "too good to be true" vibe. I love this forum!

Many Eastern Europeans who advertise "sensual" are "do it yourself" guys, so the very high rate does not guarantee anything. Just saying... Also, from what I remember from another thread, there were some questions whether he massages naked.