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As far as airports are concerned try to avoid LAX at all cost. Under the best of circumstances it is a mess. Besides constant construction the main problem with LAX is that it is located on the west side of Los Angeles which means one has to drive through the middle of the city to reach Palm Springs. Depending on the time of day the drive through downtown L.A. is god awful or worse. The best airports for Palm Springs are as follows: 1.) Palm Springs if price is reasonable, 2.) Ontario about an hour away is a great airport and very easy to negotiate, 3.) Orange County doable because it is on the east side of L.A. and finally 4.) San Diego probably a better drive than that from LAX but still a long drive.

nycman there isn't an unofficial "host" resort, HOWEVER, I will assume that if the past repeats itself the largest group of attendees will be staying at INNdulge. The place has a very social vibe in the late afternoon.

For those who like to plan ahead – mark your calendars for Saturday (dinner), April 15 - Sunday (pool), April 16 and Monday (breakfast), April 17.  I hope to see many of you there.  And those of you who said “I’ll go next year” – it’s next year!😄😏

I tend to write off mediocre sessions, like the one you had, 
to "bad chemistry". The possible causes are infinite, and 
ultimately irrelevant. Hell, I’ve even had an "off day", with
a 6’4’’ ripped Brazilian escort, who was 100% present,
that I had seen many times in the past, and with whom
I was madly in lust. But that exact day, at that exact time,
I just wasn’t into it. Shit happens. 
Personally, I wouldn’t write a review in your scenario. However,
if someone asked on here about the escort, I would say,
"Our chemistry wasn’t great and I wouldn’t rehire. YMMV."
Congratulations on Blessed Boy. Jumping back in the saddle
is always the best cure. 

I would choose to not review in this case.
In light of all of your research and positive reviews from others, it does makes you wonder what he might have been like with the sex aspect if he had not jacked off before your appointment.   

Well, the women...

Hello. I think you have a point about the catty remarks. To me this thread is shallow but seems like fairly harmless venting.

To me, PNP specifically means having sex while high on crystal methamphetamine. A profile like you describe would mean the escort may not use drugs during the meeting but doesn’t mind if the client is high. My take on the provider is that he is looking for people who won’t mind if he doesn’t match his pictures.

He looks like a sweetheart to me. The old queens on this forum are probably a lot scarier.

https://rentmen.eu/BeauTravis
~Boomer~

Thank you Daddy for creating this website and helping me feel comfortable to explore my sexuality with a provider. RIP

Two new Forums have been added to our list of subjects: “Personal Finance & Investment” moderated by @Kevin SlaterAND “Museums” moderated by our newest moderator @foxy. 
We’re starting to move related threads from the Lounge into these new Forums. If you see one we missed just send a report.🙏
 

Although he’s been problematic for some clients, I enjoyed my meetings with him in the past. He’s still fibbing about his height though. Not 6 feet, 5’9” max. 

I agree it’s deceptive if a provider’s pictures are no longer current, especially if they show a model with a six pack. A guy may not be able to stay in photo-shoot condition 365 days of the year but also shouldn’t show up looking like his out-of-shape uncle. 

I've only hired one guy from Friendboy who wasn't also on RentMen.
He was a amateur and had (for most people) a forgettable face and body. He was extremely limited in what he'd do. But he was extremely cheap (street rates). He stopped after he saved a bit of money.
I've contacted other guys on Friendboy, but either they flaked, never responded, or were rude

this is a very polarizing topic on this forum.    I suggest you search for ‘friendboy’  there are 200+ results.    keep in mind there were/are a few members who made money from the site either directly or through advertising, meanwhile many many many  pros have profiles that they never signed up for and got no compensation for

I agree that it's petty to send someone on his way, after he's prepared himself for an appointment and traveled to a client's residence/hotel, simply due to something like nail polish.  I agree that if that issue is so important to a client that he should screen for that in advance, not at the moment someone shoes up in person.  Or pay for the service you requested if you decide to cancel at the last minute.
The rest of it is just intellectual nonsense.  Unless we're going to start arguing that all sexual preferences are wrong, that we should all find every person potentially sexy, then just accept that people have their likes and dislikes and that sometimes those are congruent with dominant culture messaging but other times they are not.  Kudos to those who truly are more open to a wide variety of people, and I think the best escorts are those who are able to see the sexiness in a much wider array of people than most of us can.

Back in the days when I smoked, the store was out of my preferred cigarette brand. The clerk said, "But we have x-brand, instead!" I said, "No, thank you." Then the clerk said, "We also have y-brand, if you'd like." "I wouldn't," I replied, "but thank you, anyway." When the clerk moved on to z-brand, I stopped her and said, "Look, there are two things -and there are only two things- you can't sell me. One is what you don't have, and the other is what I don't want."
It's your money, your tastes, and your preferences; you have a right to satisfy all three with your selections and spending. You can ask for what you want and walk away if it's not available. You can ask about the nail polish, or the beard, or the tats, or the whatever -none of which were displayed in the ad you saw and none of which had occurred to you before the in-person meeting. But people aren't cartons of cigarettes and shouldn't be looked at or treated as such. If the provider is agreeable to an on-the-spot modification to suit your sensibilities, fine. But, if not -and over an issue not previously discussed- sending him on his way without some level of compensation for his trip and lost income opportunity, is graceless.

If the guy I hire has a body to die for and a great personality I could care less whether or not he is wearing fingernail polish. If an escorts asks me what I would him to wear I ALWAYS respond what ever makes him feel like the sexiest guy in the world. If that means he shows up in pink lace underwear SO BE IT.  When we get down to brass tacks I'm not going to be looking at his fingernails and the pink underwear will be long gone.

Many years ago a guy wearing an earing would turn heads, now no one cares.     

And that’s certainly your prerogative. That’s why we celebrate the number of choices we have.

One of my favorite memories is the time an escort and I spent painting each other's toenails after an afternoon session, relaxing in the afterglow of a particularly productive romp- still makes me warm 'n' fuzzy to recall that day!

If the manly provider I hired showed up in drag, that would change the mood.  Male polish, however, is a fashion trend and unsurprising on a gay male escort who probably spends time in major cities. Does he also thread his eyebrows?
I will say that the current trend is sad to me.  Bowie, Prince, and Cobain wore nail polish and were legit artists reinventing culture.  Today we have the likes of Harry Styles who is a glorified hair model seeking attention and trying to sell more online merch. 

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I find threads like this to be very childish.  I often remind myself of all the things providers have to endure, i.e, clients of all shapes and sizes who expect providers to sexually perform at a moment’s notice, bad client personal hygiene issues, smoker’s breath, clients being pissed off because they only got 57.3 minutes instead of a full hour, clients complaining his dick is only 7.5 in when he advertised 8 in.The list goes on and on.  And yet there are those of us here concerned about nail polish.  
 
And spare me the comments that you’re paying good money to get what you want.  I don’t want to hear them.