Daniel84

The terms of service link is broken and my friend is trying to signup and it’s not allowing you to make an account.

How can an escort even implement this? Do you have the client’s payment info where you can charge him? How do you pursue him? Chances are he is using a pseudonym and a burner phone or a VOIP app.

When they try to rebook I inform them that I require a deposit.

Besides some negativity on this thread overall I appreciate the open dialog and points of views of many of the members.

Thank you

I always give clients a second chance unless they ghost or flake. If a client is a no show and they try to book again they have to prepay. Some of them do but most don’t. Just like a eye doctor or doctors office if you no show or cancel without proper notice they charge a fee. When it comes to EC clients I will only see 2-4 clients a week. If I am not in the headspace I won’t book any clients as my Massage business keeps me very busy as well as managing a photo studio.

How do I post a pic lol? I am also a photographer that mostly shoots B&W

Here's an even funnier part;

 

Didn't you make a client stand in your apartment complex hallway for over 10 minutes while you kept saying through the door that you were almost ready?

lol Dear Oaktown you are still bringing this up after 5 years??

I amended for my ways and errors years ago and apologized that I was not on time and made you wait outside of my apt for 5-10 mins as I wasn’t ready. I apologized to your numerous time and even sent you messages (You actually blocked me ) to clear the air for your grievances.

Can we just let it go and move on. It’s been half a decade and I am tired of apologizing for making you wait 10 mins.

I know Daniel quite well and he is anything but a flake! I can’t even imagine having to deal with some of these clients.

He’s always polite, courteous, warm and very clear When he’s making an appointment..

Hang in there buddy!

Always a pleasure chatting with you :-)

I have had a few who didn't want to bear the awkwardness of waiting outside the door or in a lobby. Understandable.

That though then becomes the responsibility of the client to communicate that concern and then the escort reassuring that they will accommodate their concerns.

He was never at my apartment. He emailed me later asking for a free hour to " Make up for his time"

first, thanks for the the time you are giving to your mother and to your family......I'm sure they appreciate it and are grateful......

 

I'm not going to say you're the first to have a complaint about flaky clients because you aren't (cough, cough, Mocha, cough, cough).....it's a colossal problem for many providers.......it's possible (?) the client(s) don't want to meet you in the lobby for their own privacy (seen by others with you)....they may want to be as discreet as possible and slip in/out unnoticed.......or they may be flakes!

 

my only practical advice is to inform the clients very early in pre-meet communication that you will meet in your building's lobby and that you don't give out your apartment number because of past problems....it's then up to the client to decide if that will work for him or not......ask him if that will be ok

Thank you :-)

Going forward I will not book any clients from the message service on rent.men. If you want info and more pictures you can text me. I am also removing my private photos as people use rent.men to replace what was tumblr.

Here is the funny part;

The client states he dialed the code ( He did not). Now he's asking for " Complimentary hour for free" because I didn't buzz him up...

I have a feeling this client's MO is to flake on a provider and then ask for a free hour.

Here is a mini-rant,

I have been a massage therapist for about 8 years or so. I relocated from LA/SF to DC to help take care of my mom who is suffering from lupus. I started Escorting on and off for a few months. I just don't understand people; I was scheduled with a client and confirmed today. Fifteen mins ago he said I was flake because I won't give out my apt number to clients off of Rent.men. I have had issues where clients would be high or just creepy. As a business owner, I can dictate my hours and how I operate for my own safety. When I confirm with a client they have my address and the code to buzz in. I always meet the client in the lobby for the safety of both of us.

I am starting to question if I should even bother advertising on Rent.men. I never get this many no show or flakes practicing massage.

I am pleading with clients if you have second thoughts, or you decided that you don't want to hire someone. Just send an email and cancel with notice. In my case, I am using this money to take care of my family and would rather book clients who actually respect me and my time.

Thank you

You're Friendly neighborhood Spiderman..... ( Massage Therapist)

I hired him for a massage. It was a good massage.

Recent lurker, first time poster but I had an incredible massage from Danny (https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/4644/) last week and wanted to say thank you to members here (and Danny himself) who had posted recommendations, thoughts, and experiences. Massage addressed my problem areas, he knew when to go deep and when to be a bit softer, and the conversation/connection was super friendly and natural-feeling. Highly Recommend and look forward to a return!

It was my pleasure working on you. I loved our conversation and looking forward towards the next time see you :-)

Wishing he would visit Atlanta.

I would love to visit Atlanta but I heard of many stings arresting out of state massage therapist.

What an adorable guy with such a positive disposition!!!

 

I may have to make an appointment myself!!!

That is so sweet of you to say ;-)

Allways a top notch experience. Great skills ,truly a nice guy. Oh, and sexy as hell

Thank you

I’ll echo @Bluefin’s comment: he’s sweet and cute and the massage was a B+, but my god does he talk. I was trying to give him cues that I wanted the conversation to end (pretending I didn’t hear him, or taking a while to answer), but they were not picked up. I could recite his life story, but I’m sure you’ll get it when you meet him.

Thank you for the input. I will keep my chatting to a minimum now. Rule of thumb I always ask my clients if they like to talk and if I didn't I am sorry. I also apologize I did not pick up on your cues.

Hopefully one day I can work on you again and allow you to enjoy my massage.

Have a wonderful Valentine's and a great weekend.

One of the cutest and sweetest! Give you a real human connection.

Thank you so much ;-)

He’s pretty popular here from what I remember (search DannyJay or his MF ID)

 

I saw him and although he was a super nice guy he was a bit scattered and chatty and his apartment was very cluttered. I wouldn’t repeat. Feel free to PM if you want details.

I am sorry about the apt being cluttered as I just moved cross country 4 weeks ago. My apt is very clean and organized after taking some time buying furniture and breaking up boxes.

Hope to see you again.

Most of my clients like to chat, If you prefer we don't talk during the massage of course I can be quiet.

Thank you

I don’t know if it’s just the climate or the city where I live in. I rarely get a noshow when it comes to massage services but dear god 6 out of 10 clients for escorting don’t show up or even respond after a booking.

I never cancel on a client, and I try hard to be punctual. I also hire guys at times for massages but I would never think “ To flake or not show up” .

At the end of the day Massures and Escorts depend on there profession choice to have a roof over there head. We are not tools or pieces of meat that can be discarded and treated like trash. I always give the same level of respect that I am giving and would be nice of the escort / massure and client community to respect each other alot more.

If you can’t make a booking or get cold feet just say so. We would rather know then to wait around twiddling our thumbs.

Thank you reading my frustrations.

Happy holidays

Hey guys. Where does one post a " anyone interested in this?" Have a great house in Aspen. Hosted a few massage guys last year. We had fun during apres ski, and they saw clients over the the weekend.

I am interested , When is gay ski week? Please PM me for more details.

Thank you

Danny is great. Wonderful skills. Great personality and sexy as hell. I would not hesitate to call.

 

Have no experience with the first two guys.

Good luck

It was my pleasure seeing you for a massage ;-)

Thank you ;-)

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/4644/

 

https://rentmasseur.com/DannyJay

Thank you

This is Danny,

I was living in LA for the past 6 years and decided to make a change. I am currently living in a quiet and private studio in Nob Hill SF. I will be traveling a bit for the next two months but you can find me on Masseurfinder, Rent.men, and Rent Masseur.

Looking forward to work on you guys.

Tell me you read my post when you book and I'll give you a discount for 1st-time clients.

Thank you

It's back up but I can't access my account.