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    Nvr2Thick reacted to Zapped in Escort talks too long - should he get paid for it?   
    By the way, I finally read the review that started this whole thread. It sounds like the reviewer thought he was being polite listening to the guy talk, and the escort assumed the client just wanted the company and was planning to and.or should pay for it.
     
    Differing unspoken expectations of each other. Which is why it is always best to make expectations clear.
     
    I once hired an escort for an hour and we agreed to keep the option open for a second hour. Our time together was enjoyable, but it was clear he wasn't that into me sexually. We both came before the first hour was up. As we got to the one-hour mark, he was lying in my arms rather sleepily and it was clear we weren't going to have a round 2. So I mentioned to him the hour was about up. He said, "oh I thought you wanted the second hour," and I said no, and he said OK, and was happy and eager to get back to his boyfriend.
     
    Now it's entirely possible that had I been lonelier and more financially comfortable I'd have wanted to pay for an additional hour of cuddling/sleeping. But I wasn't particularly lonely and the money was a bit of a stretch. And I can see why he would have assumed I wanted him to stay, since I hadn't said anything to the contrary, and why I might have been happy to pay for "his time" and body contact.
     
    I actually thought he was asleep. He was, I think, pretending to be asleep, and, having already come, probably not looking forward to the second hour but willing to do his best for the money. Had I been "nice" and let him sleep, which occurred to me, then he probably would have wanted to be paid. As I'm writing, it's coming back to me that he pretty much jumped out of bed once it was clear I didn't want to pay for another hour.
     
    Getting expectations explicit is very helpful! I started having less tension with my husband when I realized I was upset with him for not meeting expectations I hadn't made explicit. Turns out he's not a mind reader. And he's from Asia, and there are some very different cultural expectations. A topic for another time. . . .
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    Nvr2Thick got a reaction from rvwnsd in Friday Funnies   
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    Nvr2Thick reacted to TruHart1 in Friday Funnies   
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    Nvr2Thick reacted to BabyBoomer in YoungFlyTop in LA   
    The OP met him on 02/02/19. He gave the escort a 5 star review.
     
    ~Boomer~
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    Nvr2Thick reacted to BabyBoomer in BigmasterXX NYC   
    Moot point. All links to the ads have been deleted.
     
    ~Boomer~
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    Nvr2Thick reacted to + Reisr30 in Is it rape? He consented to penetration but not orgasm...   
    Perhaps I’m biased but didn’t he initially say no. It should have stopped right there. When I was much younger and starting to come to terms with being gay I went on a date with a guy I met on an online dating site. We went back to his place had a few drinks and ended up in the bedroom. I remember saying no when he flipped me over but I was pretty drunk. I think I said no again as he put on a condom and I realized what was about to happen but couldn’t get free and when it was over just remained frozen in place. I remember waking up in the morning and he acted like it was no big deal. I went home and was sick to my stomach. Took me a couple of years before I considered even having dinner with anyone. So, it doesn’t matter to me if he changed his mind and changed it back; if he said no then it should have stopped...
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    Nvr2Thick got a reaction from + Hung_Cody in JesussXX: FAKE   
    I'd report it to Rentmen. You might also try sending the escort's Rentmen link to the pic owner if he has a publicly available e-mail address. I've done this in the past using one of my anonymous gmail accounts.
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    Nvr2Thick got a reaction from + Travis69 in JesussXX: FAKE   
    I'd report it to Rentmen. You might also try sending the escort's Rentmen link to the pic owner if he has a publicly available e-mail address. I've done this in the past using one of my anonymous gmail accounts.
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    Nvr2Thick got a reaction from + Hung_Cody in BigmasterXX NYC   
    I recently reported stolen pics on a traveling escort's profile. The pics were from an established model's Instagram. Rentmen deleted the pics but not the ad, leaving a few big dick closeups that could be from anyone. One pic was immediately reposted with the head cropped off. It took a bit of prodding to get that one (re)removed, but the ad remains.
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    Nvr2Thick reacted to + Hung_Cody in BigmasterXX NYC   
    not real. While Rentmen doesn't do a good job of removing fake ads, if you report the add and show proof (i.e. link to instagram model who's clearly in a different city than the escort claims to be and has the same pics) RM will (sometimes) cancel the profile.
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    Nvr2Thick reacted to + azdr0710 in Friday Funnies   
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    Nvr2Thick reacted to marylander1940 in Goofy, geeky or childish?   
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    Nvr2Thick reacted to marylander1940 in Goofy, geeky or childish?   
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    Nvr2Thick reacted to marylander1940 in Goofy, geeky or childish?   
    Goofy?
     

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    Nvr2Thick reacted to Shawn Monroe in C J Madison   
    @hornytwells just so you know, looks like CJ Madison started a JustForFans page earlier this week...
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    Nvr2Thick reacted to + BenjaminNicholas in Str8 guys available   
    Clearly, this is a fetish for you.
     
    https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/straight-guys-vs-gay-guys.143199/
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    Nvr2Thick reacted to Rudynate in The Superbowl Will Have Male Cheerleaders   
    In the early 20th century, cheerleaders tended to be men.
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    Nvr2Thick reacted to rvwnsd in Support Peacock Not Allowed On Flight   
    Don't be ridiculous! No one would do that. A crocodile on the other hand...
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    Nvr2Thick reacted to Kevin Slater in X marks the spot   
    I'll give you both partial credit. X = ± 4.
     
    (Must be why I was allowed in the state.)
     
    Kevin Slater
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    Nvr2Thick reacted to Bearofdistinction in March 24, Grace and Frankie, Season 3.   
    First I thought that Paul Mihael Glaser hd been dead for ages~
     
    Second === If he played Lenny == I thought that was Tony Robertson looking like death! Who knew~
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    Nvr2Thick reacted to + BenjaminNicholas in Dragnet's Anti Gay Episode   
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    Nvr2Thick reacted to samhexum in A Horse Is A Horse (of course, of course)   
    SACRILEGE!!!
     
    Yesterday on THE VIEW the panel was going to discuss Wilbur Ross’ brilliant observation that workers who weren’t getting paid during the shutdown should just get loans…
     
    The Whoopster is off on Fridays (Ana Navarro joins the panel) and Joy is the moderator. In introducing the topic, Joy pronounced Wilbur as Mr. Ed used to (RIP), and one of the other panelists asked why she pronounced it that way. She said it was from some character (she thought) from Charlotte’s Web. Nobody at the table knew better… somebody from the audience mentioned Mr. Ed to Meaghan, but she didn’t know who that was and nobody else at the table heard the exchange.
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    Nvr2Thick reacted to LoveNDino in Bodyguard - Netflix   
    The King of the North is back....2 episodes into this sexy thriller and I'm hooked.
     
    Richard Madden is sexy! By jove, he is...
     

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    Nvr2Thick got a reaction from + quoththeraven in The Great British Baking Show   
    I've binge-watched a few seasons over the past few months. I've grown to enjoy almost all aspects of it. I have also developed an understanding of the clichés, manipulations through editing, and some of the biases. They definitely do play favorites, though there's no way of knowing whether that's happening at the show-runner level or with influence from Mary and Paul.
     
    I adore Paul Hollywood. I can understand why so many people dislike him, but I admire his confident, authoritative demeanor. The show runners and editors do an excellent job of balancing his posture with Mary Berry's demure ladylike, though no-nonsense presence. Mel and Sue's comedic ribbing of Paul's insufferable masculinity and confidence prevent him from dominating the show as another Gordon Ramsay. Those over-the-top personalities are usually done by design, and I get the impression that the show's producers and Hollywood decided that "it's been done."
     
    For me, what's most admirable about The Great British Bake-Off is that (while there are some exceptions) it doesn't rely on the negative and adversarial tropes of typical cast elimination reality TV shows. Both judges are matter-of-fact in their criticisms, focusing on mistakes or failures to execute supported by evidence without attacking the cast members personally. Even the harshest criticisms are balanced with constructive advice and with positives. The show also doesn't live and die by cast member conflicts; it appears to neither encourage disagreement or expose conflicts through editing. In a typical reality show the biggest asshole is booted, or a beloved member is set up for a dramatic betrayal. In the GBBO one of the poorest performers is eliminated, and he or she is in full agreement with the judges' decision. For the most part cast members are portrayed as respectful and supportive of each other, and it's rare to get a whiff of annoyance or resentment. I'm speaking in general -- I could point out counter examples, but they're exceptions to the overall theme of the show. They also seem to cast contestants who are mostly likable and positive, rather than mixing in some intentionally cast edgy antagonists and train-wreck personalities.
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    Nvr2Thick reacted to + Avalon in "The Orville" Renewed For A Second Season   
    In the recent episode they made first contact with a planet who believe that people who are born under a certain zodiac sign are prone to violence and are imprisoned.
     
    I would think that the solution would be quite simple. Since the gestation period is known just do not have sex during the time that birth would later occur during that sign.
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