peter831

That is a bullet dodged @Lovecraft58. If the provider responds that way to your use of the RM system to request access to his pix, I can't imagine what the response would be to a more personal/intimate request.
 
His loss. You'll definitely find a person better suited to you.

I am a premium client and have had reviews rejected for the communication thing.
 
Now I simply send a “I’m looking forward to meeting you” email

Interesting... because it seems most rentmen want to be contacted out the the actual website.

If it is any consolation, they would not publish a positive review I submitted because they had no record of me contacting the escort through their system.

Doesnt surprise me of Rentmen shady behaviour.
Rentmen refuse to publish one of my review of an escort (new, gold member with no review) who I met and does not appear as his picture (using stolen images).
Rentmentreason because I didnt email the escort through Rentmen system, I texted the escort instead cause his phone number listed on his profile.

Ah. But for me-and I doubt I'm alone-seeing 'Ask Me' just annoys the heck out of me. Deciding whether an escort and I might click from an ad is tough enough, I don't need extra obstacles put in my path.
 

 
Sure straight guys can prefer certain physical acts. I might enjoy getting a blow job from a woman if #1 I could get hard to begin with from being with a female, and #2 I could mentally get over the fact that I had my tallywacker in a woman's mouth. But I'd still be gay.
 
Or another case-I talked to a guy on one of the apps a few years ago. He told me he was totally straight (if he was to be believed) but that he enjoyed bottoming. All he basically wanted was to have a guy come to his hotel room and plow him. But he was still straight.
 
 

 
 
 
Interesting my homophobia is more externalized. But I prefer gay escorts-masculine but gay.
 
 
 
 
 
 
Gman

I agree with Myophile here. I want a hot experience and feeling of physical connection with an escort. I want to fanatasize. I don't pretend he's really going to be into me. So I don't worry about it. It's about the fantasy. I've had great experiences with gay and straight. I usually like to kiss so that can be a deal breaker if the escort doesn't kiss. Some str8 escorts are great kissers and some gay escorts make kissing off limits. So, for me, I'm not real concerned what the escort does in his "real" life.

As a rule I NEVER hire and escort who answers Ask Me to the questions Orientation and Position. I expect to know and I have no intention of asking.

This gets discussed a lot on this forum, but frankly I think it’s an irrelevant question, and can only draw an irrelevant answer. Only the provider knows what he fantasizes about when he closes his eyes to whack off; it’s better for everybody concerned if you do not assume that YOU are his fantasy-come-true; but in any case he’s under no obligation to be upfront with you about that. What matters (or should matter) to you in this transaction is 1) his CAPACITY to engage sexually with people who may not turn him on, and 2) what he can make you BELIEVE. The difference between a good provider and a legendary one is the degree to which he can use that capacity to conjure that belief in you.

Why did you respond to the bf's inquiries? There's an implicit agreement between an escort and the client to respect each other's privacy. How would you feel if the escort began making inquiries to your friends and family about your private affairs with escorts?

Let alone befriended him

I would not have responded to the boyfriend's email …

Was anyone else alarmed by today's review of Tony Cuba? The reviewer stated that the escort pulled a gun on him when he didn't pay enough for backing out of the appointment. Now I realize that this is mostly a "He Said - He Said" situation, but in Tony's refute of the appointment, he never mentioned that the reviewer lied about the weapon. To me, the gun is the most egregious and scariest part of the encounter.
 
Has anyone else ever been assaulted in this way?
 
https://daddysreviews.com/cruise/2019-06-11

65 posts and we're still debating this???......
 
keep track of the time and politely shut down the meet at the appointed hour!!....is it really that complicated???.....

Besides Ian, I would also recommend this fellow for a great massage. Trained, works on a table, looks like his pix, and extra services may be available.
https://rentmen.eu/islandkinehands
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/36248/

Are people you pay REALLY your friends ?

Guys on an escort site preaching morality and invoking God...SMH...

It really is. And I just started reading the thread within the five minutes prior to starting to write this (9:15 PM PT)
 
I'll start by saying I am single. That does make my situation very different from yours. However, there have been times where an escort and I have spent "off the clock" time hanging out and it was fun. There have been other times where by the time I realized it was well past the time of being enjoyable we were so far in that it would have been awkward to abruptly cut the guy off.
 
When I've found myself in that situation I've waited for a good time to change the conversation and suggested we wrap things up. For example, I don't barge in mid-sentence and tell the guy to leave. When that doesn't work I say something to the effect of "I hate to cut you off but it is way-too-late o'clock and I really need to go." This also works when you are in your own hotel room. "Go" does not have to mean "leave." It can mean "I have other stuff to do (like being alone) and you need to leave." Perhaps it is my direct nature ( I get accused of yelling when using my normal conversational tone) but that usually ends it.

OMG, who are YOU to be judging anyone?
You have NO idea what his vows were. Maybe he & his partner have never agreed to monogamy!
And what about this "...in front of God..." comment? How do you know he even BELIEVES in a God.
 
And, how in the world are the rest of us (from your statement, "This world is going bat crazy over doing whatever one wants and making the rest of society pay for it" paying for his life choices?? STIs are not from escorts, but rather FROM places like Grindr, where the STIs are coming from. Yet that's where you suggest he should be going. If you want him to reduce his risk of STIs, urging him to go to Grindr is the last place he should go. WTH?
 
And just HOW are YOU paying for HIS choices? ("Why do gay men think they have the right to have their cake and eat it at everyone else expenses"?). Could you elaborate on this peculiar train of thought?
 
I reject your judgmental and ironically inaccurate opinion here.
Who are you to be so judgmental, really?

Funny thing, isn't this the same advice given to escorts dealing with clingy clients?

Repeat after me.....
 
"Wow, that was hot. Thanks man."
 
Get out of bed. Get his money and hand it to him.
 
"This is for you. Thanks again."
 
If he hasn't already gotten out of bed and started getting dressed
to go...then you start getting dressed. Keep small talk to a minimum.
 
Walk him to the door and open it.
 
"Thanks again".
 
Close the door.
 
Seriously, it take two to tango. Just stop dancing.

Do you make it known you're just having fun on the side and that you're married and otherwise content in your life?

When your escort keeps giving excuses, is that a sign that he doesn’t want to meet you? lol.. experts pls

The more interesting question is - will his travel time count towards the hourly fee that you are booking him for? For example, you hire the dude for an hour, outcall. It takes him 30 minutes to travel to you, one way. Do you owe him 1 or 2 hours? Make sure to clarify that.
 
I think it is time for us clients to be more assertive. If a guy posts an 'outcall' rate, the travel time and expense should be on his own dime. That is just his cost of doing business!

I think the way to ask that question is "How much would it be for you to come to my hotel (the Marriott at 314 Main Street) for two hours tomorrow starting at 2pm?". Then he has all the info to provide a more accurate quote.
 
Kevin Slater

The only one who can definitively answer what "plus travel" means is the escort. If his response makes you feel like a complete idiot, then you decide whether or not you still want to hire him.