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There are a few important changes that are in the works that I wanted to let the community know about so that there are no surprises and that you can properly plan for them.  
Sometime before the end of the year (most likely in November), there is going to be an update to the Invision Power Board (IPB) software which will require users to login with their email address instead of their display name.  This means if you have to login to the site, you would type in your email address to access the site once that update is applied.  Once logged in, your email address will not be shown anywhere.  You current username will continue to be used once logged into the site to view and post.    
  With the October release of IPB, it will introduce a new feature that allows admins to prune older private messages that have not had any replies within a certain amount of time.  We currently have over 1M private messages exchanged by users going back for 20 years.  This takes up over 1000MB of space within the site's database.  I plan to use the new feature to prune messages that have not been replied to within 5 years.  If you have older private messages that are important for you (for sentimental purposes or contain helpful information), please be sure to save an offline copy for yourself.  You could also simply just reply to the message again so that it has recent activity.  That would automatically exclude it from being pruned.
  As part of my resiliency planning, I've been trying to figure out how the site would continue to operate if something happened to me.  We've seen what happened when Daddy died...  if we don't have someone who understands how to run a website and how to maintain the IPB software, we could find ourselves in a bad place.  Finding people that understand all of this is difficult if not impossible.  As a result, I've been focused on how to remove this dependancy.  My plan is to have the site moved to being hosted by Invision itself.  They would take care of all of the underlying server technology and ensure the platform is compatible with the software.  Any updates could be applied from the Admin area of the site without needing to understand about the rest of the stuff under the hood.  Sometime before the end of the year (most likely in November), I will need to schedule a day or two to take the site offline for the migration to ensure we don't lose any data from the time I start the export until the time it's migrated and restored.  Having Invision host the site is somewhat more expensive than what we're doing today, but I think it's a critical step to ensure the site's continued operations should I get hit by a bus or something similar.   I don't have specific dates yet for the above changes.  The first two changes are dependent on the IPB software being released and me being able to test them successfully before applying.  The last change will need to be coordinated with the Invision hosting team to make sure they have someone available on their side to handle the import after I finish exporting our data.  
If you have any questions, please feel free to ask below.  

I thought I was gonna see channing tatum's butt. What a let down. Boo!!!!

Although it's been a while, I'd say Justin Herringg.

Just checked each one, great choices, seems like its an age thing, the older the better

Daddysreviews are no help cuz too generic (who cares if you find five different ways to say how wonderful he was and omit to say that all he did was take off his clothes so you can worship him). Tired of getting excited over escorts discussed in "The Deli" only to discover that they don't btm or kiss or rim or bb or... yawn.
 
So who is your best confirmed "does-it-all" guy?
 
Beeferman

He's more versatile, but SonnyinSeattle enjoys being fisted and takes huge toys.
https://rentmen.eu/SonnyInSeattle
 
 

I dunno, sounds like the NYC boyfriend experience to me! Should of asked for the "decent human being" BFE I guess. He just gave you the standard one. Sigh, men are the worst.

I dunno, sounds like the NYC boyfriend experience to me! Should of asked for the "decent human being" BFE I guess. He just gave you the standard one. Sigh, men are the worst.

I dunno, sounds like the NYC boyfriend experience to me! Should of asked for the "decent human being" BFE I guess. He just gave you the standard one. Sigh, men are the worst.

I dunno, sounds like the NYC boyfriend experience to me! Should of asked for the "decent human being" BFE I guess. He just gave you the standard one. Sigh, men are the worst.

I know it's a specific thought, but one never knows what may be available out there. I know a lot wont advertise it but may not be opposed to it either. Any of you fine gentleman who are in the know, know of any? I find a lot of really slim, fem presenting guys out there seem to but I'm looking for someone who goes a little bit against type. Even if they are a muscle queen, it's the muscles that go against the type imo. Any help is appreciated! Tks!

Sigh, just lookin for a nice, muscular bottom escort who will just drink from the tap. What are all these dom escorts out there? I need me a human urinal. Shouldn't be so difficult right LOL!

Sigh, just lookin for a nice, muscular bottom escort who will just drink from the tap. What are all these dom escorts out there? I need me a human urinal. Shouldn't be so difficult right LOL!

The ease of money transfer and home filming via only fans and just for fans has made it so remarkably easy to make money with such little effort that these glorious bodybuilders who put so much into the gym can expand their financial reach across the world as opposed to their local  state/ city area. The cream rises to the top and you can make a very significant amount of money and not have to face the pitfalls of escorting. So many more guys are going for that so those who choose to escort in person now are either scammers, not that hot, those who can't make it on those sites and the rare, genuine sex pig who wants to get paid for sex with strangers and gets excitement out of the unknown.

Too many red flags.

Too many red flags.

That ass is to live in!

A few things:
1. Any provider cheeky enough to have their name listed as "Oxford Comma" has to have a clever sense of humor (which I really enjoy)
2. I'm not into dongs, but this dude has a HUGE and beautiful one
3. He does give me very much serial killer vibes tho

If you're staying in TJ, all the clubs are near the Arch on Revolucion, with the exception of Club Extasis(they are located across from the PedWest border crossing and are only open on Fri and Sat). The gay bars near the arch all have gogo boys who will dance on you for tips and you can probably negotiate with them for extras outside the club. The quality of these guys is pretty low compared to the guys at Premier. Premier is the main gay strip club that people go to, they say they open at 8pm but guys don't actually show up and start dancing until 9:30pm. There's a cover charge of about $100-$200 pesos depending on the day or event. I have been going to Premier for 4 years now and my main gripe is that they're becoming extremely money hungry. It's fun but you have to keep an eye out for the hustlers. When you arrive, you will probably be hounded by a waiter asking if you want a drink. I suggest getting a beer (I prefer to buy mixed drinks from the bartender directly, for some odd reason they tend to be stronger than when I order from the waiters.) They have all types of guys here, twinks, twunks, and bodybuilders(tbh the quality of guys has gone down recently but they still have some gems). Don't be shy, the guys want you to call them down from the stage to give you a lap dance (they do not approach you). Guys will dance on you for a few dollars(if you need change go to the bar and ask the person at the cash register to change your bills, don't ask the waiters)and anything goes especially on the nights only men are allowed in. If you hit it off with a guy you can go to a privado, or private room where anything goes. Be sure to negotiate with the dancer what you want to do and how much he will charge you before you enter. The privado is 15 mins and costs $40 that goes directly to the club (it's cheaper to pay in pesos, I believe it's 600 or 700 pesos which is $30-$35 dollars). You can also buy a ficha, or drink for a dancer and it's about $7 or 140 pesos and the guy sits down, drinks a beer, and chats with you. I personally don't enjoy this but you can try if you'd like. If you really like a guy you can take him back to your hotel room but you have to pay the club a fee and the dancer's hourly rate. I have heard from dancers that it's about $300 for an hour. Premier also has a hotel called Red Boutique next door which is like a bad 3-star hotel but you can hire some of the dancers for a massage with happy ending, not sure how much that costs but if you're into that you have that option as well.
Anyway, I hope you enjoy your trip and please report back!

Don't forget the social safety net, and universal healthcare that includes therapy. In the U.S., if you need help but don't have money or the right insurance, you're SOL.

For the broad picture: gay men in general have higher rates of addiction, psychological problems, and suicide. 

A few things:
1. Any provider cheeky enough to have their name listed as "Oxford Comma" has to have a clever sense of humor (which I really enjoy)
2. I'm not into dongs, but this dude has a HUGE and beautiful one
3. He does give me very much serial killer vibes tho

Well...just following the logic...if you're looking for the sort of vapid, insecure, narcissists who are into bodybuilding and showing it off for cash ...it's obviously LA where you find the most vapid, insecure narcissists .

He is so hot but even in his ad it has a lot of red Flags.
-There is such little information that it would be easy to think it's just a catfish ad even tho I'm sure it is the "real" sean costin.
-There are no do's and don'ts (whenever I see no do's and don'ts it's safe to assume everything is a "dont" except "get paid" lol).
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