30somethingsexybear

I am a not on the first date kind of guy. If i see someone regularly then goes both ways. But if it’s a issue for you then you need to ask upfront and don’t be offended if the guy says no to someone he has never met before and is asked this question in a email, text or call

I often wonder why Rentmen doesn't have a 'N/A' option for the Stats Section.
 
Gman

First interactions with him have been very pleasant, responsive, kind, not the norm. Just finalized the booking, will let you know how it goes. So far I'm really impressed.

Most of the guys I’ve hired have swallowed, but then I tend toward guys on the piggy side. As others have said, ask first.

Been with him twice in London.....fun bottom, esp if you are into FF

Now that's the way to showcase a derrière in an ad!!
 
Gman

oh Hung Cody, you and I are so simpatico with our love of sweet and simple muscle boys with child support payments and loose restrictions lol.

oh Hung Cody, you and I are so simpatico with our love of sweet and simple muscle boys with child support payments and loose restrictions lol.

oh Hung Cody, you and I are so simpatico with our love of sweet and simple muscle boys with child support payments and loose restrictions lol.

oh Hung Cody, you and I are so simpatico with our love of sweet and simple muscle boys with child support payments and loose restrictions lol.

oh Hung Cody, you and I are so simpatico with our love of sweet and simple muscle boys with child support payments and loose restrictions lol.

Your warning means nothing if you don’t tell which guys this is.

I went there. It's better than the last place in that it's not as narrow, but it's still pretty snug for the number of people. But what's Tim supposed to do realistically? He needs a certain number of dancers to make sure people come, and there need to be a certain number of clients to ensure the dancers can make money. I really doubt there are any larger venues that aren't in buildings that don't want this type of business. Short of making it a truly private guest-list-only event with a high admission, I don't see the limitations of the current setup being able to be addressed. NYC is not friendly to this business at all and we're lucky to get what we get.

he says he's very much into kissing.

List of big cummers? (let's get this thread back on track shall we?)

I'm really glad you are feeling better and I love all the responses here! The community really coming together! Being with a partner for 25 years and losing them is just a pain I cannot begin to imagine the loss, and I would ask if you feel you have mourned for them in a way you feel is sufficient? This "slutty" phase that you referred to earlier seems like an avoidance of sorts as well as a protective husk in a way. If you feel you can please a younger man in the prime of life (physically anyway) and feel they care for you then it eases the pain of loss as you have something new and shiny to look forward to.
 
I agree with the other posters that maybe doing more of a one hour - 3 hour stint of time, so you can enjoy yourself and feel some connection but not feel like a father figure making sure to take care of everything for your young charge.
This escort took advantage of your situation but in his head I can imagine him thinking that it's a win/ win for everyone! You get to spend time with him and have sex when you want at a discount, he gets a vacay and make some money on top of it and he gets to enjoy your lovely home to have even more destination sex. What someone that young may not understand however is that their beauty and prowess (sexual or otherwise) is not proportional to what they are taking from you.
 
I don't think this guy is a bad guy necessarily but he definitely did not take all of your feelings and needs into account. I'd also recommend going with an older escort next time as well. The difference between 18-23 and 28-33 emotionally is Gigantic but not much is lost in terms of looks etc. Most of the older escorts have better bodies also as they've been working on them longer and understand their career/ job at this point.
Best of luck to you and feel free to directly message me if you feel like you want to talk to someone.

I know a lot of people didn't like the Jake Cruise vids with him in it and granted I didn't derive sexual pleasure from them but I did use them as a tool for knowing what escorts would probably be excellent. Jake was older, not in the best shape and some of these hot guys were hard as a rock and also some would bottom and it would give me a secure feeling as I know porn shoots are pretty unsexy in general and the fact that Jake was not what one would call the ideal specimen coupled with that always led me to believe that if they can perform under those conditions, I'm sure they'd have no problem spending time with me and hell, they may even enjoy it! Or at least be able to fake the enjoyment well enough lol.

I know a lot of people didn't like the Jake Cruise vids with him in it and granted I didn't derive sexual pleasure from them but I did use them as a tool for knowing what escorts would probably be excellent. Jake was older, not in the best shape and some of these hot guys were hard as a rock and also some would bottom and it would give me a secure feeling as I know porn shoots are pretty unsexy in general and the fact that Jake was not what one would call the ideal specimen coupled with that always led me to believe that if they can perform under those conditions, I'm sure they'd have no problem spending time with me and hell, they may even enjoy it! Or at least be able to fake the enjoyment well enough lol.

I know a lot of people didn't like the Jake Cruise vids with him in it and granted I didn't derive sexual pleasure from them but I did use them as a tool for knowing what escorts would probably be excellent. Jake was older, not in the best shape and some of these hot guys were hard as a rock and also some would bottom and it would give me a secure feeling as I know porn shoots are pretty unsexy in general and the fact that Jake was not what one would call the ideal specimen coupled with that always led me to believe that if they can perform under those conditions, I'm sure they'd have no problem spending time with me and hell, they may even enjoy it! Or at least be able to fake the enjoyment well enough lol.

I know a lot of people didn't like the Jake Cruise vids with him in it and granted I didn't derive sexual pleasure from them but I did use them as a tool for knowing what escorts would probably be excellent. Jake was older, not in the best shape and some of these hot guys were hard as a rock and also some would bottom and it would give me a secure feeling as I know porn shoots are pretty unsexy in general and the fact that Jake was not what one would call the ideal specimen coupled with that always led me to believe that if they can perform under those conditions, I'm sure they'd have no problem spending time with me and hell, they may even enjoy it! Or at least be able to fake the enjoyment well enough lol.

I'm really glad you are feeling better and I love all the responses here! The community really coming together! Being with a partner for 25 years and losing them is just a pain I cannot begin to imagine the loss, and I would ask if you feel you have mourned for them in a way you feel is sufficient? This "slutty" phase that you referred to earlier seems like an avoidance of sorts as well as a protective husk in a way. If you feel you can please a younger man in the prime of life (physically anyway) and feel they care for you then it eases the pain of loss as you have something new and shiny to look forward to.
 
I agree with the other posters that maybe doing more of a one hour - 3 hour stint of time, so you can enjoy yourself and feel some connection but not feel like a father figure making sure to take care of everything for your young charge.
This escort took advantage of your situation but in his head I can imagine him thinking that it's a win/ win for everyone! You get to spend time with him and have sex when you want at a discount, he gets a vacay and make some money on top of it and he gets to enjoy your lovely home to have even more destination sex. What someone that young may not understand however is that their beauty and prowess (sexual or otherwise) is not proportional to what they are taking from you.
 
I don't think this guy is a bad guy necessarily but he definitely did not take all of your feelings and needs into account. I'd also recommend going with an older escort next time as well. The difference between 18-23 and 28-33 emotionally is Gigantic but not much is lost in terms of looks etc. Most of the older escorts have better bodies also as they've been working on them longer and understand their career/ job at this point.
Best of luck to you and feel free to directly message me if you feel like you want to talk to someone.

I'm really glad you are feeling better and I love all the responses here! The community really coming together! Being with a partner for 25 years and losing them is just a pain I cannot begin to imagine the loss, and I would ask if you feel you have mourned for them in a way you feel is sufficient? This "slutty" phase that you referred to earlier seems like an avoidance of sorts as well as a protective husk in a way. If you feel you can please a younger man in the prime of life (physically anyway) and feel they care for you then it eases the pain of loss as you have something new and shiny to look forward to.
 
I agree with the other posters that maybe doing more of a one hour - 3 hour stint of time, so you can enjoy yourself and feel some connection but not feel like a father figure making sure to take care of everything for your young charge.
This escort took advantage of your situation but in his head I can imagine him thinking that it's a win/ win for everyone! You get to spend time with him and have sex when you want at a discount, he gets a vacay and make some money on top of it and he gets to enjoy your lovely home to have even more destination sex. What someone that young may not understand however is that their beauty and prowess (sexual or otherwise) is not proportional to what they are taking from you.
 
I don't think this guy is a bad guy necessarily but he definitely did not take all of your feelings and needs into account. I'd also recommend going with an older escort next time as well. The difference between 18-23 and 28-33 emotionally is Gigantic but not much is lost in terms of looks etc. Most of the older escorts have better bodies also as they've been working on them longer and understand their career/ job at this point.
Best of luck to you and feel free to directly message me if you feel like you want to talk to someone.

It’s hard to add to the already excellent comments here, except to say again that sticking with regulars has largely served me very well. The sex keeps getting better and more adventurous, and the personal time as well. But, these experiences are rare. When I decide to add a new provider to the roster, it’s usually a dice throw, but I never would’ve met my regulars had I not taken that plunge. I consider the “meh” experiences to be an unfortunate part of the hobby.

I know a lot of people didn't like the Jake Cruise vids with him in it and granted I didn't derive sexual pleasure from them but I did use them as a tool for knowing what escorts would probably be excellent. Jake was older, not in the best shape and some of these hot guys were hard as a rock and also some would bottom and it would give me a secure feeling as I know porn shoots are pretty unsexy in general and the fact that Jake was not what one would call the ideal specimen coupled with that always led me to believe that if they can perform under those conditions, I'm sure they'd have no problem spending time with me and hell, they may even enjoy it! Or at least be able to fake the enjoyment well enough lol.

When I started this hobby in my early 30s, it was common to develop friendships or friendliness with some of the guys. In fact, one companion, who was my age at the time, could have become a bf, if I had been into relationships, which ain't a thing with me and never will be. Now a generation later......and the idea of that is something I find impossible and never pursue. The delta in wisdom, experience, empathy, and plain ole common sense is too vast. And I'll be damned if anyone, much less a know-very-little 20-something, is going to drag me down. When they start yapping about their life experience and expertise, I'm like enough already. I kiss him, then turn 'em over and spank their bubbly asses.
 
This hobby works best when we simply mix some fun and adventure into an already satisfying life. It cannot compensate for essential life deficits. We must deal with those issues in other ways.