Rod Hagen

Maybe It's this movie, Circuit: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0218107/?ref_=fn_al_tt_1 I loved it at the time, haven't seen it since. DevonSF wrote a great appreciation of it on this forum when it came out in defense of it. You can buy the whole movie on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/gp/video/detail/amzn1.dv.gti.44a9f7af-0a68-7560-ff96-8955a113d0e8?ref_=imdbref_tt_wbr_pvt_aiv&tag=imdbtag_tt_wbr_pvt_aiv-20 The scene starts at 8:59 if you let it run on autoplay the scene will continue in the next film in the playlist:

I do those maneuvers all the time. I Loved the client's reaction when the therapist moved the client's leg a bit while holding his elbow at the pressure point; that laugh we all make when something hurts so good. Adorable. :-)

This is the toy, or one of the toys by this company https://www.amazon.com/Masturbator-Masturbators-Masturbation-Fondlove-Stimulation/dp/B087M4QGH5/ref=sr_1_4?c=ts&dchild=1&keywords=Male+Masturbators&qid=1630344561&refinements=p_89%3AFondlove&s=hpc&sr=1-4&ts_id=11441820011

In and out of the gym I wore shorts like these up until my mid-30s. Looked like a total slut :-)

Advertising on men for men sites from age 26 to 35, I received 10+ calls from women; none after about 35 years old.

I've met men who identify as straight and are 100% bottom, some of whom enjoy strap-on play with women, and view their assholes and rectums as epithelial tissue available for physical pleasure. Straight men DEEP French Kissing with other men, that's hard for me to wrap my head around.

God Love him :-)

And yet, imagine a review-website wading into those shark-infested waters, nowadays.

You can find out through reviews and such if what the escort likes is what you like. Then, when you message him, tell him what you are interested in; he'll say, "me too!" or "not me!" or say nothing, and by then you've done all the pre-arranging you can do. Then when you meet, assuming you've chosen an experienced escort and made it clear you're inexperience, he'll take the lead. Good luck, Have fun!

Those two photos are amazing. AMAZING.

Very true. If the masseur is not advertising as an erotic masseur, and something enjoyably erotic happened during your session, you should not relate it, he could lose his license.

That Simpsons episode has one of my FAVORITE interactions. You'd never ever get away with this in an episode now. https://comb.io/98tEzI

Re: Kristian, sorry, you asked why and I didn't answer. Kristian is genuine, passionate, and loving, that's why.

Pushing back on the kissing question, mutual touch is a reasonable checkbox in an erotic massage questionnaire. Kissing is an escort thing. You, easygoingpal, may have had lots of luck seducing masseurs into it :-) and that's great, but masseur kissing is not a common expectation; it would fall in the category of an over-expectation.

Folegandros/ isn't gay, but it's my favorite Greek Island. LOVE IT. https://www.greeka.com/cyclades/folegandros/

Love that movie

Kristian Elix, absolutely.

If they are window shopping, I'll definitely leave them alone. if they ask for private photos, I'll tell them the photos should now be unlocked and also I'll flirt briefly and provide email and text information.

This really is a generational thing :-) 20 years ago the West Hollywood Athletic Club went bankrupt and closed, the gym had no female members. It was wonderful for many reasons. I can remember in my Gay infancy in the late 90s large complaints about how women were infiltrating gay bars, specifically The Gay '90s in Minneapolis, but presumably elsewhere, with their friends to fawn over the hot male strippers. Someone very close to me who is in his 80s now looks back at his gay life and the gay events and organizations he belonged to and has ruled that, generally, women move in and ruin things. So, it's both a different history and, in the case of people like my friend, a different attitude based, reasonably or not, on individual, non-millenial and non-zillenial, therefore ancient, experiences.

Did you ever play in the hotel behind Laguna's Boom Boom room? That was KINDA like a bathhouse, at least "action" wise. :-)

Thought you all might like this, Kristian retired briefly in 2011 and this is what Oklihomo had to say :-) Kristian retired! From the Deli-- 23. But I have talked to him and he has retired. Really.??Kristian has been part of this whole deal since before I started. Back in his Houston days with Athan....?? Feels like a loss. He was a magnificent escort. Perfect body, perfect face, perfect teeth and a magic ass... and a one of a kind dick that was relentless. Hung and then some.??Truly versatile.... remember back in the Hooboy days, when he had that 3 way review with Brick Tavern of the massive cock... and Kristian hired Brick himself the next day because he couldn't get enough of it. Yep. He was certainly a fan of the big dick....??And so sweet and funny. Shyly charming. Unassuming... also recall a conversation where we are all talking about doing a double penetration (which he had done before with Justice and David, effortlessly.... no easy feat, that.. "What are you guys waiting for) .... and Kristian said, "Oh, I can do that..." and then he preceded to tell us, "Yeah, I can take two dicks and put my own in there, too." We were speechless, in awe of that magic ass... and then I said, "Buddy, we were just talking about two" And he was like, "Oh, yeah, that would be three, wouldn't it" Classic.??See, boys, however, fucked up it may seem, that's why I film it. Because I will always have Kristian. In his prime, in that sexy cowboy hat, doing what he loved best on many Sunday nights in OKC and at what, he was the best at. Giving it, getting it, being one of the most totally sexual men that I have ever met... totally into it, all the time. Seriously, I have seen the man cum three times in less than a hour... just watching. Amazing.??But the real deal with Kristian... is that he never lost his basic decency. He has a real life, a real goal. I think that the only time you really get lost is when you have no place to come home to. (Feel free to stitch that on a pillow) Kristian has always had that and good for him. He was smart enough to never have believed his own press and knew from the beginning what was important to him and what to protect... but then again, he HAD something to protect... a genuine kindness, a real ability to love, an honesty.??Wish him the best.??Okie

Chubby? WTF? :-)

A few weeks ago I saw Scott Adler in the neighborhood eating lunch alone at a restaurant I often eat alone at. I wasn't alone, so I did not say hi.

Very connected I have a long term gay partner, that's reason 1. I have sex with lots of nice guys, reason two. I meet lots of gay guys. I have long time relationships with lots of gay guys. I have, and have always had, a build that gets me attention, yes that's a shallow connection, but a connection. I love gay literature, Gay Films, Gay Plays, Gay music of the 30s 70s 80s and 90s, and gays in athletics, particularly my athletics (Mountain Biking, Snowboarding, Climbing), I enjoy large gay gatherings such as the Gay Games and Gay Aspen. I love sex parties. I've always been very interested in possible proximal and ultimate "causes" of homosexuality. As much as I love music, I've never liked dancing and that's something I've always felt is missing. I don't feel particularly connected to young gays and the current gay culture, but that doesn't make me feel at all disconnected, just more connected to the past and my present.

Quite a chest...bastard :-)