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Slightly off-topic - Cyber advice - get a quality password manager. I use Keeper Security because of deal through work. A good password manager will let you put in secure notes in a separate entry for these questions. Also, you’re less likely to forget them.

Tho rumor has it - they would figure out a way to tax it if they think they could get away with it. I remember coming out of private party at a certain strip club New Year’s Day to get the parking meter ticket. Pissed off from that I missed a No Turn on Red - got a red light camera ticket in the mail. The city really follows the GoodFellas “F*ck you, pay me” model

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Any interest in a get together for Chicago based members? I’m thinking we meet up at Lucky Horseshoe one night in January after the holidays start to slow down? Open to other venue suggestions, but figure the Shoe is a convenient shared interest meet up. I seem to recall someone organized a dinner during IML once if I recall correctly. Perhaps we should plan for that or a Market Days meet up to be added to the CoM social calendar?

I was thinking of trekking up to the Flagger Museum on Saturday as well.

I have a work boondoggle at the end of January. Work week I will be in Miami for acouple nights, then going to head up to Fort Lauderdale for the weekend. Staying right off the Beach. Did this last year and enjoyed my time being a tourist. Did a boat cruise, had a nice dinner. I plan to check out the usual strip spots if I’m solo. I enjoy dinner at Coconuts on the marina aa well. Any other recommendations - site sighting, spa experiences perhaps?

Also endorse NordVPN. Is the most secure no? Will they sell your data or give it to the gov at a drop of a hat? Absolutely. is it cheap and effective for getting around geo blocks - yes! I missed a sale on after a renewal and they comped me another year as an offering with little back and forth.

Should this get moved to the Tech section?

Perhaps it’s the strip club veteran in me… I understand the transactional relationship entered in. Sometimes there’s a genuine friendship formed but it’s rare and often complicated for a variety of reasons. If you are catching feelings for a provider that’s understandable, but it’s taken to the point of jealousy/envy. That’s not healthy full-stop! The fantasy is turning into a delusion. If you ever date a stripper, you have to be ultra secure in yourself and what you bring to the table. Even having stripper friends, I’ve reminded them at work. “Listen I know we’re pals, I’m just drinking tonight - there’s some whales here go earn your rent. I’m staying til close as usual”. Lol. That was when I was a regular before the day job came back in my life.

It appears you are nailing it in the building a demand phase of marketing

It gave off a very Malcolm in the Middle vibe, before it got serious. I will admit.

This series brought back a ton of emotions/nostalgia including the ugly parts of life before Will &Grace. Timely, because it feels like we are expected to go backwards in the current US environment. I do wish there’s a Season 2, and they don’t fuck it up. Sullivan needs to come back for Desert Shield/Storm. He’s going to get blue-discharged in the end. There’s no escaping it, but in time of war, we have a habit of looking the other way if you have a skill set in demand. As Admiral King supposedly said something to the effect of, “In times of war, the country calls upon its SOB’s. Here I am”. Paraphrasing.

It’s not just gay men, have you been around 18yo’s? Yeah, some are emotionally well adjusted and have their shit squared away. Most do not. Hence Boot camp’s indoctrination into what they are supposed to be. Even then, they aren’t fully mature.

It’s a few more hoops, but I can usually work around it. If you have the $ to hire, you usually can find a decent hotel in a nearby city. Plus even if you live in the same city, folks will grab a hotel room for a variety of reasons. It’s not that weird. will you go by the same name? The link is currently user not found. I haven’t been back to Toronto in awhile.

Just a general appreciation post for the male nurses! As someone who’s been on the other side of the bed more nights than I cared to be, I appreciated all my nurses who were there when I needed them. Also it was probably a good thing my gaydar was switched off in recovery, I just fear how many folks I flirted with while I was on pain/anesthesia meds.

So update on this one. Still haven’t set a retirement date, but starting to form around the idea of 55 in about 7 years. Still need to work out where I’d like to be long term. Likely somewhere warm in the winters because I’m done with the snow. I’ve been starting to take better care of myself between WeGovy and Testosterone. It’s long since past time to start working out. I have to be more consistent with it. Also trying to put myself out there more. I volunteer drive for dog rescues in my spare time, and likely will continue that into retirement. Add some additional hobbies in there as well.

I’ve noticed looking at Tryst. It’s really rampant on the straight side for females. I suppose it’s lucrative way to get your OF numbers up. It’s an easy way to monetize the guys just looking to jerk and can’t commit for whatever reason to meeting up. Agreed though it’s only a matter of time before AI comes for OF. Then it’s back to the tale as old as time. Love for sale. Appetizing young love for sale….

“Father was well off, very well off. His considerable income was derived from fireworks, bunting and other patriotic accruements”. - Ragtime I’m supposed to be comfortable I suppose but it’s mainly locked up in a 401k prison. Then in home equity as well…. I gotta get busy living. I’d rather die while I’m living than live while I’m dying.

During Covid, I started a coffee habit because it did feel nice to be recognized by name as a regular. As Covid lessened, I voluntarily started to go back to the office. Mainly for social interaction because otherwise it’s just me and the dog. As I approach the retirement years, I don’t know how best to approach social interactions. However, I plan to start volunteering more of my time just so I’m out in the world with folks.

Started the Testosterone Gel at 2 pumps - 40mg in the morning - went from 200s up to 600 during the first 6 months. Enjoyed increased libidio and then got reminded I don’t deal well with emotionally clingy guys looking for daddy. Eek. Then after a year, my levels went back to the 200s while my balls shrank because they were like f*ck I quit. Doc recently upgraded my gel to 3 pumps or 60mg started that acouple weeks ago. I will get my levels checked again in the new year. I will say I miss my older larger balls. The cock rings and ball separators don’t work as well since the boys tend to go back into hiding more so than swinging wide like they used to. Trade offs I guess.

Curious if anyone has a travel tips to handle a 2 week+ - organized tour? Going to go to Guam for a history tour of some Pacific islands. Airfare likely will run $3k on top of the $11k tour cost. Concerns - do I pack for a week, and accept that laundry charges will need to be a thing? Trip insurance? Given the cost of the trip, I figured this is a bit of a no brainer but guessing the fee and limitations will be significant. Plan to fly out a day ahead of the scheduled start just in case any flights are missed/delayed. There’s no non-stop. I also consider Premium Economy the bare minimum. I’d love to fly business but that’s not in the cards unless I upgrade with points.

I always assumed it was either code for damn near close to FS, the massagee getting in depth prostate massage with the masseur’s dick! or this is going to be some hippy dippy new age session that will leave me frustrated and my Shakra’s out of sorts.

10 comments in and not a single - “Hello Mr. George - how much you pay new guy? He no good operator”. disappointment

Opting for Key West for New Years this year. Staying at Casa Marina. Hopefully the Bourbon Pub lineup is choice! also considering PS for CoM weekend. Any suggestions for Palm Springs lodging? Assuming the Inndulge is the safe choice?

Also for apps, make sure they don’t have location permissions set if it’s a mobile device. I can see GPS betraying you. Some apps absolutely require it. In that case, you need a GPS spoofer too.