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I recall similar issues when Daddy was here and the site would be down for a few days and then, miraculously it would reappear.  I am glad the magicians who work to keep this going know the right tricks to do so.  
Thanks for your hard work.  I will be sending a small donation of thanks and urge others to do so as well.  

For this reason, I now almost exclusively cruise on gay chartered ships, or with an organized gay small group on a ship.
I am really fond of OUTbound travel.  I've sailed with them once on a river cruise, and have two upcoming cruises booked with them for their full charter of Azamara Quest.
When I sailed with them on a River Cruise, the changes they implemented with the cruise line really made the entire trip more relaxing, upscale, and worth the extra price.
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@DavidNY and @White Daddy Top don't give up! Keep an eye on the Lounge and the next PS Forum Gathering Event will be announced sometime this year and once it does, you can start making reservations to InnDulge or Hacienda and join us in the event activities!  And though meeting providers is definitely fun, meeting the other forum members and developing new friendships is the highlight.

I'll give you my perspective from a client's POV.
While you may think it's about you, it isn't. You're there for the client so write an ad that's about what you can do for them. 
Recent good quality, clear photos. Face photos, some nudes. You don't have to be a 10. There's someone for everyone.
Give out a phone number for texting. I find it frustrating when the only way to contact is through a message board. Learn to block numbers on your phone. Don't put up with pic collectors and endless back and forth.
Truth in advertising: Be honest about your health status, age, size, etc., so there's no surprises when the client opens the door. 
Save your money. Eventually you'll either grow tried of the crap that comes along with this profession, or age out. Have a plan.
Congratulations on what I hope is a fulling and lucrative career. 

I do not presume to speak for Oliver, who has worked very hard year after year for this event.   And at his age, getting very hard is not as easy as it used to be.  But, in my last conversation with him, he was definitely planning on returning to Palm Springs in a rental home and I would bet that his arm might be twistable.  

I wish I could say that for myself!  The last few days have been interesting to say the least. 

Glad you’re back.  Thanks for your hard work in keeping this valuable forum alive!

Greetings folks...
As you might have noticed, this site has been offline since around mid-day Tuesday.   Our prior hosting provider decided that they are unable to continue hosting our website and had ended service to us.  Unfortunately they did not provide any notification to me about this decision and I was forced to move the site to a new server without any sort of heads up.  This includes arranging for the new hosting company, configuring the new server to meet the technical requirements, getting a copy of our current data, restoring that data (over 300GB of files), recovering the database (over 18.5 million records in that database taking up 11GB of space for the DB alone), and reconfiguring the software itself to run in the new environment.  
While migrating there was also some technical issues that I ran into that required me to coordinate with Invision's technical support team.  So that back and forth added additional time to the mix as well.  
And to pile on further… all of this occurred while I'm traveling for my day job. So I've been doing this while in a hotel in between doing my day job on the road.  
There are most likely several other things that will need to be fixed still and I'm working through them.  For example, email may only be partially working.  I still need to setup things like SPF and DKIM for the new server so our emails don't flag as spam.  There are other settings that might need to be redone to work in the new server as well that I'm not thinking about yet.  (As you might have imagined, I've not had much sleep during this whole process.)
But anyway... you get the idea.  No... we're not going anywhere!  This was a minor setback but we'll continue to move forward.  Thank you all for your understanding and support!
Rob

My best hires so far for 2025 were the men at the annual Company of Men Palm Springs gathering in April.  I hired about 4-5 of them throughout the weekend: some in a group and some separately.  My room is already booked for next year's gathering... Just waiting for the dates to officially be announced.

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I highly recommend Leo.   He is visiting New York right now, but Palm Springs is his base; hopefully he will return by the time of your trip.
 
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Have not met him but tried to connect,  Here is his review from RM (not mine): He made me send money ahead of time, and then he drove up to the house, got out of his car, I sent additional money and then he got in his car and left.
 

Please see the last two pages of this escort's thread, who is a close personal friend of mine.
This crazy client is still posting and just posted another pic of Maicon's daughter along with a naked pic of him. It's crazy. If you have an X account, can you please report this profile.  Sadly one or two or three reports don't get someone taken down. They need a few dozen reports and I am reaching out everywhere to help him. 
You can see my profile on here on this site and know that I am legit, I have been around a while, and posted for years and have some street cred here.
Thank you for your time. 🙏
Fake account:  https://x.com/renan_omar22

Original thread here:  

 

So I took the plunge with this guy.  His pictures were totally accurate.  Washboard abs, muscular thighs and a nicely built chest with sensitive nipples.  
So with all that, the encounter was still very very meh.  In summary:  Great body, nice cock, friendly, but as far as his mouth and hands were concerned, I could have left my penis home.  
It was a bit difficult to make the arrangements but we both had responsibility for that.  
He did ask 400 and he did agree to 350.  I think he would have said yes to 300 but by the time we were discussing donations, I was not going to fight for every penny.
He said he would kiss and he did and well, but it was clear it was not his favorite activity.  He never initiated it and he was always the one to stop first.  
He offered to top, but I was not interested.  He had a very nice piece of equipment and for those who enjoy such things, he did exhibit some talented hip action in other activities. 
He would not do oral, though I did ask about it before the meeting.  His answer was vague, so I was not shocked, merely disappointed.   He did enjoy receiving it very clearly.
I did manage some ass play, but any attempt to enter him with a finger was greeted with a gentle swat.  I persisted and accepted minimal digital entry as a moral victory.  
I can not recall him using his hands to touch my cock 
I did get off.  Once I was excited, I did the pumping.  Not a favorite of mine with an escort,  as I can do that at home.  
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Relocated permanently to London, UK.

I had such high hopes for him
but he seemed to be starting his downward slope.  A year it so later he hit me up and said he had a bad couple of years.   Couldn’t get hard

Well...  this gets even more interesting by the day I suppose.  
Jestwink has attempted to escalate this further.  I happen to poke by the PO Box today and received the following letter.  I've scanned it in its entirety without any masking.  
I'll just add a few comments here...
I've reviewed this with my lawyer and he literally laughed out loud after reading it.   I checked the California Bar's website and there are exactly 5 names anywhere near "Joseph Regan".  Three are deceased, one is inactive (not practicing law for over 20 years), and the only one active is an insurance lawyer down in Santa Ana (6 hours south of San Carlos).  I reached out to him and he does not recognize the name "Jestwink".   My name is NOT James Rakvica.  Many folks from here have met me personally and know that is not my name.  I don't know where he got that name or address from, but it's not related to me in any way.   So again... he's resorting to making fake legal threats against the site.  Unfortunately for him, I actually have a lawyer who is prepared to defend me and this site in court.  If he would actually talk to a real lawyer as well, they would tell him he has no legal case either.  But if he wants to go through the legal discovery process though... MY lawyer will be happy to ask tons of detailed questions about him, his business operations, etc.  And I'll be happy to put ALL of the in the weeds details here as part of it.  
From now on, any communication I receive from him is going to be posted here.  If he contacts any members of this site, please feel free to forward it to me and I'll anonymize it and post it here as well.  
I cannot stress enough how much I recommend against either hiring or interacting with this person.  He has harassed other members of this site and me personally when anything is said about him.  If he's willing to do these sorts of things, he will have no sort of problem harassing you or trying to make your life miserable if he is ever unhappy.  
If Jestwink thinks he has a legal case to be made, I encourage him to bring it.  Quit with the fake lawyer notifications and file the case.  The threats do not scare me.  My lawyer and I are fully prepared to defend myself and this site.  
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Anyone have the 4-1-1?
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Another post, the only mention I could find on this site, mentions a porn video of him topping someone that poster would love to be with.   It would not open for me to check him out but I like his look.

yes! I am active!! Glad to be back 
 

@Daniel84  you're one of the reliable guys around here and I wish you weren't having this hassle......some of these flakes may, in fact, be sincere, but are just being very private and careful......you're doing the right thing asking for phone verification and all, but if the client is too nervous, you can't help that...... 

Seriously, this is getting old. I've had six people bail on me. It's always the same thing. They book for two hours, message me on RM, and I ask them for their cell to confirm. They respond how they are discrete bla bla.. clients wonder why providers are starting to require deposits. 
What advice can you guys give me to weed out the flakes more?

Welcome to the forum @BrendanCole! Good to see you even though your RM profile is frozen.
Is this a sign that you’ll be active again soon?

Chiming in to let you know you’re not alone. It’s happened to me. It’s happened to a lot of us, and it’s happened to many more who may not admit to it. I beat myself up for a day (or two) and then I let it go. Let me say that you were kind to let our community know of this. 

Don’t be ashamed…we all pay the “stupid tax” at some point.  Learn from it and move on. And thank you for making us aware - you probably saved someone else from paying the tax on this dude.