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    Post a song that makes you HAPPY

    in Music

    Posted

    Nice song but the best Anime vibes and was played on Toonami to give it that extra hype factor lol

     

     

    OG Teen Titans I like so much better than this new weirdly animated one

     

    AAAH! I love the old Teen Titans theme song! I watched the cartoon religiously during college!

     

    Thank you. You put the smile on my face tonight. :D

    Chloroformed Hunks

    in Fetish Forum

    Posted

    Remember the old Batman TV show and knockout gas?

     

    Gassing scenes from Batman were OK, but there's something about chloroform that was attractive because the muscular guy was struggling and fighting, trying to free his face from the cloth over his nose and mouth, his shouts muffled as he slowly loses strength and sinks into unconsciousness. There's something about a strong man succumbing to the chloroform while gassing doesn't really offer much of that.

     

    With that said, I love that one shot of Chad Brock. It's a shame not a lot of gay porn shows chloroform scenes. :)

    411 on this model/erotic actor?

    in The Deli

    Posted

    Bumping. If this isn't successful, then I'll try another forum but I figured with the coronavirus, more people might be online and might be able to link to this model's IG or OF page if possible. If need be, send me a PM.

     

    Thank you.

    Bondage escorts

    in The Deli

    Posted

    I think you're smart to be explicit going forward. Hypothetically speaking, if I were to want a breathplay session with someone brand new, I would be very explicit about it to make sure they understood what they were getting into and also make sure they understand if they have any potential triggers. If someone's every been assaulted before, restrained against their will, or felt completely helpless against their will, then this could trigger them. Doing it within the bounds of the legality of this profession could be a discussion about favorite porn. Find some breathplay videos on the Internet that show what you're thinking and share them so they have a clear picture of what you're into.

     

    Thank you but the thing is, I did explain to him what I was going to do. I told him I would tie him spread-eagled with rope and padded restraints around his ankles and wrists so he wouldn't get rope burn. I told him he would be gagged with a cloth. And I told him I would hold a pillow over his face for 30 seconds, then allow 30 seconds for him to breathe and catch his breath, and alternate over and over. I also told him the safety signal (snapping his fingers) and that I would be on top of him, straddling him so I could feel his muscles and he struggled and groaned.

     

    He listened to me explain it on the day of my session and he said he was good. I'm not sure how much more I could have described it. But you did raise a point about asking if they had any potential triggers. I didn't think about asking that before. But I did explain this word for word in the paragraph above. Except for a video, I'm not sure what else I could have done.

     

    But in the subject of this e-mail, I reiterate that bondage escorts may not be exactly into bondage as they claim and we may end up disappointed, but I had to remind myself that professional relationship or not, I should stop because he asked to stop and cut the session short. As disappointing as it is, escorts can change their minds and we should let them if that's the case.

    Bondage escorts

    in The Deli

    Posted

    Sometimes you can describe EXACTLY what you want to do, and they may still don't realize it until they get into it.

     

    Example: one respected escort I asked if he was willing to be bound, gagged, and light breath play with a pillow. He agreed. I asked him on the day we met again if he had any concerns and explained what I would do. He said he had no issues with it.

     

    After tying him up and fondling him, I then got the pillow, but after two times, he gave the signal to quit and started shaking. Even after untying him and dressing, he was still trembling and asked to stop and cut our session short.

     

    I told him I understood and that I would just pay for the time allotted. He agreed, and I pointed out to him that I said I was going to hold a pillow over his face and have him struggle with me on top. He admitted that he didn't really think of it and that he didn't read it completely. Plus, in his mind, a pillow wasn't really that dangerous and he felt he could handle it.

     

    The way he was trembling afterwards made me realize that from now on, I should be explicit, but the problem is unless I have a video of it, I'm not sure how much more in detail I can be.

     

    Sometimes it can't be helped. I met some great escorts who are definitely into being tied up, and some who aren't. But as annoying as it is, I have to respect that if they get into a situation and realize they're in over their head, they are allowed to change their mind midway. And I have to respect that as part of "Consent 101".

    CANCELED - 2020 Palm Springs Weekend! #17

    in The Lounge

    Posted

    To all, I will attend Saturday and Sunday and will be coming from Orange County, about two hours away.

     

    I may need a room to stay for Saturday night and I plan to go back to Orange County on Sunday night.

     

    Would anyone be willing to spare a bed for Saturday night? I'll gladly pay half of the hotel fee for one day.

     

    Thank you. Feel free to DM me privately if you like.

    411 on Las Vegas Escort

    in The Deli

    Posted

    *hugs*

     

    You don't deserve to be used and abused like that. I'm sorry you had to go through that.

     

    Here's a suggestion: come to the forum's Palm Springs weekend. You'll hang out with other people on this forum and meet some decent and wonderful people and escorts to help show you that not all escorts are like this abuser. :)

    Rory from the UK

    in The Deli

    Posted

    Might have been his boss. He has been known to out the guys and a few clients from time to time

     

    Wait, then that's one thing i don't understand.

     

    With their physiques, Rory, the old Jesse Jaymes, and whatever bodybuilders they're associated with could have easily built their own clients on RM and established their own base and loyal customers due to word of mouth and good reviews. Rory built up a rather impressive set of eager returning clients in a matter of months who couldn't say enough good things about him.

     

    Why even go with this handler, especially if he's been known to hurt or screw them over?

     

    If someone told me if I'd like to earn a lot of money, but he'll take 25% of my profits despite me doing the majority of the work and own my soul and ensure that he could ruin my life in a heartbeat if he chooses to, I'd couldn't walk away from such a creep fast enough.

    Straight guy tied up?

    in Fetish Forum

    Posted

    To @StraitToBeTied welcome to the forum.

     

    First off, thank you for sharing your desire and asking questions. That's the first step to a safe and sane experience.

     

    I agree with the idea that you and your girlfriend can visit a friendly bondage group or information gathering. They are open to all races and gender and personally, where I live in SoCal, there's the SoCal Bondage Club which offers events where one can explore and safely try out bondage activities with newbies and experts alike.

     

    And of course, there are escorts on RM who will be happy to perform such a service.

     

    However, I want to let you know that you must take it slow and read up on safety and making sure you're comfortable with a relative stranger or escort tying you up. Consent and being safe and sane are very important, and in no way should you feel pressured into doing something you have misgivings for later. Get your feet wet first and try the Janus society or a bondage meetup where you and your girlfriend can learn the proper resources and techniques before asking a gay guy to tie you up.

     

    I also find it admirable that you are being honest with your girlfriend and bringing her in the loop on your desires instead of trying to hide it from her. That goes a long way.

     

    Being bound and gagged by a gay guy isn't weird in the slightest, and as @Ds35mm said, it most likely roots from a desire to being taken against your will and being forced to do something out of your control (but I'm not a psychologist so please don't take my opinion as the factual truth).

     

    If you feel you want to explore, there are numerous events and resources out there that can help you explore this safely and in a good way.

    Documentary Dilemma

    in The Lounge

    Posted

    While I'm flattered they'd be interested, there are issues. First, some RuPaul drag queens come do a performance at the end of each segment where the subjects participate. A whole one-great-show-can-change-the-world sort of thing, I suppose. I don't think I could ever do that...ever. We actually have a drag community here, but it's averse to me. I've never even seen an episode of RuPaul's show and it makes me uncomfortable when I see clips, even. Secondly, I'm afraid while trying to portray us as some kind of community role model that the escorting thing comes to light...not necessarily in the documentary, but from the aftermath of it airing. We can be pretty mean to each other in our community and there's a huge stigma attached to hiring with some people. Maybe rightfully so, but still an issue.

     

    Tyler and I are leaning towards saying no, but would love some thoughts from the thinkers on this page.

     

    The bolded part already made me suspicious. Documentaries are supposed to be informative, not over-the-top or focus on being entertaining. Also given how you refused and the director is still pushing you both to be on the documentary as well as you both are having some misgivings are signs that you shouldn't do it.

     

    Also, if you do the documentary, there is the chance that your family members will have exposure or be under more scrutiny. Sometimes anonymity or relative obscurity is the best gift you can have for a peaceful and content life, so personally, I wouldn't do it.

     

    However, that's just my two cents. You sound like you both already made your decision. :)

    411 on Coleossus coming to NYC

    in The Deli

    Posted

    I noticed his ad some months back and decided to contact him about his services.

     

    At the time, I initially contacted him, he didn’t list kissing in his “intros”. When I asked he stated he kisses but not the whole time. From everything he wrote about kissing, I got the impression kissing revs him up but once he gets going his attention focuses else where(if you catch my drift). He also said he is more a top but will bottom as long as he preps for possible pain. He doesn’t suck dick or eat ass... “least not for my normal rate. But everything has a price.”

     

    Again this was a few months back not long after he joined RM. So it is possible he’s a bit more open. Until I get more definitive info on how he is with clients, I don’t plan on hiring him.

     

    I hope that helps others in there decision to see him.

     

    From what his profile shows now that he's coming to the West Coast, he looks more open-minded and he's gotten five reviews that all rave about him (and they don't look fake)

    Rory the British muscle god

    in The Deli

    Posted

    I have some bad news regarding Rory.

     

    I noticed his profile was down so I texted him. It turns out he's taking a long break because someone leaked his photos, ad, and videos to his father's workplace and outed him, so now he's trying to distance himself from it and he's not sure if when or if he'll ever get back to RM.

     

    I liked Rory and he was a total sweetheart and a nice, personable, and friendly guy, so it saddens me that someone revealed his stuff to his family and inner circle like that. Still, I texted him some words of encouragement and if anyone has his personal phone, wish him well and a Merry Christmas.

     

    And frankly, this is a question for anyone who can answer: if someone outs you like that, can't you sue them? Or it's not possible because it's revealing Rory made a profile for gay escorts, so it would incriminate him?

    Jesse Jaymes Friend

    in The Deli

    Posted

    I have some bad news regarding Rory.

     

    I noticed his profile was down so I texted him. It turns out he's taking a long break because someone leaked his photos, ad, and videos to his father's workplace and outed him, so now he's trying to distance himself from it and he's not sure if when or if he'll ever get back to RM.

     

    I liked Rory and he was a total sweetheart and a nice, personable, and friendly guy, so it saddens me that someone revealed his stuff to his family and inner circle like that. Still, I texted him some words of encouragement and if anyone has his personal phone, wish him well and a Merry Christmas.

     

    And frankly, this is a question for anyone who can answer: if someone outs you like that, can't you sue them? Or it's not possible because it's revealing Rory made a profile for gay escorts, so it would incriminate him?

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