Merboy

Are circuit parties basically gay guys' version of the wild high school parties and the slutty college Spring Breaks they could never have when they were young boys?

That little movie was so moving, so touching, so sweet.... it really made me cry.  It did more in its short time than a 2 hour movie could do -- beautiful flick!

https://www.thetrevorproject.org/explore/
They are doing the Lord's work, truly.  Any of these LGBTQ youth organizations deserve every bit of support financially, in volunteers, in our community....
Every gay man can enrich his life by fighting for the rights of gay boys... after all, he was one himself. 

Of all the beautiful young transgender women in America to focus on, the national media zeroes in on these people.  Unbelievable.
We have a fucking Miss Nevada who's going to Miss USA.
Nicole Maines is a gorgeous young girl and she's an actress now on TV shows.
There are so many trans girls in elementary schools around America who are brilliant, talented, and beautiful.
Yet we have to see this constant theme - the ugly, unpassable, manly trans woman (Caitlyn Jenner without her shitload of money) who make for "sensationalist stories" (Avowed homophobe Rupert Murdoch's New York Post is the King of Smut).
This is all to gin up the Old Geezers who want to complain about something when they head over to the Bingo Room at Shady Pines tonight.  (Then it's chicken a la king with a side of peas and Jello before beddy bye time.)

Of all the beautiful young transgender women in America to focus on, the national media zeroes in on these people.  Unbelievable.
We have a fucking Miss Nevada who's going to Miss USA.
Nicole Maines is a gorgeous young girl and she's an actress now on TV shows.
There are so many trans girls in elementary schools around America who are brilliant, talented, and beautiful.
Yet we have to see this constant theme - the ugly, unpassable, manly trans woman (Caitlyn Jenner without her shitload of money) who make for "sensationalist stories" (Avowed homophobe Rupert Murdoch's New York Post is the King of Smut).
This is all to gin up the Old Geezers who want to complain about something when they head over to the Bingo Room at Shady Pines tonight.  (Then it's chicken a la king with a side of peas and Jello before beddy bye time.)

It's an excellent show but its been on since Cher was a fetus... seriously, and it's on every other channel on cable TV nowadays, the remote controls now should have the button "SVU" on them so you can get right to the next episode fast!  Chris Meloni and Mariska Hargitay (have they both won Emmys for their performances?) are marvelous.

I also meant that your Speedo-wearing days are not over yet. :)

Yeah, I mean, I guess there's still plenty of fish in the sea.
Still, all the ones my age are floating on the top.  😛

Have the happiest of days!
 

Where's the line for returns?  😁😎😇🤣

Never have I ever been on a single date or been in a single relationship or ever enjoyed a meaningful sexual experience...and I'll be 36 real soon.

Okay guys have at me.
I'm still under 40.... lol, gotta say that, not that it matters but I'm holding onto the very last life jacket here... in the ocean of Aging and Eye Bags and Lonely Nights Howling at the Moon...
Although honestly i am so much happier and beautiful today at 36 than I ever was when I was 16 or 20 or 24.... it's true, dudes, that we all age like fine Italian wine.... we are all beautiful-- some of us don't necessarily feel that way when we're young.... gay men in particular of course know this, we blossom much later than the others.... we hit our peaks not at 18 or 23 or 27, but sometimes at 42, or 45, 53, or 59 or 63.  .. or thirty six...
also i've been dying to say this ALOUD so the whole world can fucking hear it:
There can be no shame at all in expressing oneself or one's sexuality... no shame.  Sex work (especially for consenting male adults) should be completely destigmatized.  It should be legal all across the world, because there is nothing wrong with it at all.  Living in fear creates a culture of fear and gay men know all too well what that felt like pre-Stonewall and even today for many of us.... so fuck the system, fuck the establihsment, fuck these moralizers who are nothijng but perverts and hypocrites and charlatans because they preach their vision of purity to everyone else, then go have a drug-fueled orgy on Fire Island after they win the Republican Party nomination for whatever office they're running for.... i hate fakes, phonies, and gay men that put other gay men down.
Gay men have had many enemies through the ages but perhaps none quite so vicious as other gay men themselves.  Internalized homophobia could very well be this community's biggest threat.  It's over.  Gay men must be an example for the gay boys, the future of our very people - and yes, people - gay men are distinctly different from any other group on this Earth.... it's time for gays to support other gays and be there for one another.  This ain't 1970 anymore.  The Boys in the Band was a play set at a certain time, and for those boys it was valid and that represented the reality.  It doesn't have to be like that, guys.  It can be different.
Look at what the gays have achieved in a very short amount of time - from June 28-29, 1969 to today - it's been an incredible transformation up and down and all around, spread throughout the entire American society.... there's not a single place that has not been changed - from the town hall, to the churches, to the school boards - the Congress of the United States, every state legislature except a few, many town councils - high schools, middle schools, elementary schools (and yes there are gay boys in Kindergarten, Pat Robertson.  There are gay boys everywhere we look.  I saw the cutest one the other day... and no, Bill O'Reilly, he is not a deviant.  No, George W. Bush (who is being puppeteered by one of the most despicable slugs in political history, Karl Rove), he is not a threat to moral values in America.  No, Anita Bryant, you fucking ugly ass bitch - he is not trying to "recruit".... you mean old witch lady.
And yes, Anita was a witch. 
She was literally the Wicked Witch of Florida Orange Juice.
2nd runner up - we have to say that very loud because it makes her very angry - SECOND RUNNER UP to the crown of Miss America 1959 (was it?), and Mary Ann Mobley beat Anita and good because then she got to sleep with Gary Collins every night.  I mean, every night.  (I know Gary hosted Miss America for a while and actually was the host when Vanessa Williams won, but that line comes from Sophia on TGG...or do I even really need to stay what those letters stand for?)
 You can already see in the interview competition (which was quite funny for 1959 because it is better than any interview competition we have in 2021 - and actually more culturally relevant to the time in which the contestants lived in) that Anita was destined to be the human incarnation of Cruella de Vil (without the delightful camp quality, inspired by Tallullah).
This commercial, after her SECOND RUNNER UP loss at Miss America, is also a hoot and a half:
 That purity pusher was trying to guzzle down all that cum, don't kid yourselves. 
But those guys were just pretending to like her for the commercial and a chance to become the next Rock Hudson.
Obviously, clearly, all of these nice young California boys were "avowed homosexuals" and this explains the roots of Anita's reign of terror in the late 70s.
 
alright, enuf.  im manic as hell.  im up at 4:36.  and i need to get laid... don't we all.  don't all of us need just a really good fuck every now and then.
 
dang.
bang.
boom.
hell at this point i'd even let Grandpa Joe fuck me... maybe I can get an extra $20 in food stamps this month.  #welfarequeen 

That literally made me LOL - and i use lol a lot but this time, I really did LAUGH OUT LOUD... ❤️ u
 

well if it's fruit you want.... have i got a real slice right here for you.... and man, it's.......moist.

Okay guys have at me.
I'm still under 40.... lol, gotta say that, not that it matters but I'm holding onto the very last life jacket here... in the ocean of Aging and Eye Bags and Lonely Nights Howling at the Moon...
Although honestly i am so much happier and beautiful today at 36 than I ever was when I was 16 or 20 or 24.... it's true, dudes, that we all age like fine Italian wine.... we are all beautiful-- some of us don't necessarily feel that way when we're young.... gay men in particular of course know this, we blossom much later than the others.... we hit our peaks not at 18 or 23 or 27, but sometimes at 42, or 45, 53, or 59 or 63.  .. or thirty six...
also i've been dying to say this ALOUD so the whole world can fucking hear it:
There can be no shame at all in expressing oneself or one's sexuality... no shame.  Sex work (especially for consenting male adults) should be completely destigmatized.  It should be legal all across the world, because there is nothing wrong with it at all.  Living in fear creates a culture of fear and gay men know all too well what that felt like pre-Stonewall and even today for many of us.... so fuck the system, fuck the establihsment, fuck these moralizers who are nothijng but perverts and hypocrites and charlatans because they preach their vision of purity to everyone else, then go have a drug-fueled orgy on Fire Island after they win the Republican Party nomination for whatever office they're running for.... i hate fakes, phonies, and gay men that put other gay men down.
Gay men have had many enemies through the ages but perhaps none quite so vicious as other gay men themselves.  Internalized homophobia could very well be this community's biggest threat.  It's over.  Gay men must be an example for the gay boys, the future of our very people - and yes, people - gay men are distinctly different from any other group on this Earth.... it's time for gays to support other gays and be there for one another.  This ain't 1970 anymore.  The Boys in the Band was a play set at a certain time, and for those boys it was valid and that represented the reality.  It doesn't have to be like that, guys.  It can be different.
Look at what the gays have achieved in a very short amount of time - from June 28-29, 1969 to today - it's been an incredible transformation up and down and all around, spread throughout the entire American society.... there's not a single place that has not been changed - from the town hall, to the churches, to the school boards - the Congress of the United States, every state legislature except a few, many town councils - high schools, middle schools, elementary schools (and yes there are gay boys in Kindergarten, Pat Robertson.  There are gay boys everywhere we look.  I saw the cutest one the other day... and no, Bill O'Reilly, he is not a deviant.  No, George W. Bush (who is being puppeteered by one of the most despicable slugs in political history, Karl Rove), he is not a threat to moral values in America.  No, Anita Bryant, you fucking ugly ass bitch - he is not trying to "recruit".... you mean old witch lady.
And yes, Anita was a witch. 
She was literally the Wicked Witch of Florida Orange Juice.
2nd runner up - we have to say that very loud because it makes her very angry - SECOND RUNNER UP to the crown of Miss America 1959 (was it?), and Mary Ann Mobley beat Anita and good because then she got to sleep with Gary Collins every night.  I mean, every night.  (I know Gary hosted Miss America for a while and actually was the host when Vanessa Williams won, but that line comes from Sophia on TGG...or do I even really need to stay what those letters stand for?)
 You can already see in the interview competition (which was quite funny for 1959 because it is better than any interview competition we have in 2021 - and actually more culturally relevant to the time in which the contestants lived in) that Anita was destined to be the human incarnation of Cruella de Vil (without the delightful camp quality, inspired by Tallullah).
This commercial, after her SECOND RUNNER UP loss at Miss America, is also a hoot and a half:
 That purity pusher was trying to guzzle down all that cum, don't kid yourselves. 
But those guys were just pretending to like her for the commercial and a chance to become the next Rock Hudson.
Obviously, clearly, all of these nice young California boys were "avowed homosexuals" and this explains the roots of Anita's reign of terror in the late 70s.
 
alright, enuf.  im manic as hell.  im up at 4:36.  and i need to get laid... don't we all.  don't all of us need just a really good fuck every now and then.
 
dang.
bang.
boom.
hell at this point i'd even let Grandpa Joe fuck me... maybe I can get an extra $20 in food stamps this month.  #welfarequeen 

Okay guys have at me.
I'm still under 40.... lol, gotta say that, not that it matters but I'm holding onto the very last life jacket here... in the ocean of Aging and Eye Bags and Lonely Nights Howling at the Moon...
Although honestly i am so much happier and beautiful today at 36 than I ever was when I was 16 or 20 or 24.... it's true, dudes, that we all age like fine Italian wine.... we are all beautiful-- some of us don't necessarily feel that way when we're young.... gay men in particular of course know this, we blossom much later than the others.... we hit our peaks not at 18 or 23 or 27, but sometimes at 42, or 45, 53, or 59 or 63.  .. or thirty six...
also i've been dying to say this ALOUD so the whole world can fucking hear it:
There can be no shame at all in expressing oneself or one's sexuality... no shame.  Sex work (especially for consenting male adults) should be completely destigmatized.  It should be legal all across the world, because there is nothing wrong with it at all.  Living in fear creates a culture of fear and gay men know all too well what that felt like pre-Stonewall and even today for many of us.... so fuck the system, fuck the establihsment, fuck these moralizers who are nothijng but perverts and hypocrites and charlatans because they preach their vision of purity to everyone else, then go have a drug-fueled orgy on Fire Island after they win the Republican Party nomination for whatever office they're running for.... i hate fakes, phonies, and gay men that put other gay men down.
Gay men have had many enemies through the ages but perhaps none quite so vicious as other gay men themselves.  Internalized homophobia could very well be this community's biggest threat.  It's over.  Gay men must be an example for the gay boys, the future of our very people - and yes, people - gay men are distinctly different from any other group on this Earth.... it's time for gays to support other gays and be there for one another.  This ain't 1970 anymore.  The Boys in the Band was a play set at a certain time, and for those boys it was valid and that represented the reality.  It doesn't have to be like that, guys.  It can be different.
Look at what the gays have achieved in a very short amount of time - from June 28-29, 1969 to today - it's been an incredible transformation up and down and all around, spread throughout the entire American society.... there's not a single place that has not been changed - from the town hall, to the churches, to the school boards - the Congress of the United States, every state legislature except a few, many town councils - high schools, middle schools, elementary schools (and yes there are gay boys in Kindergarten, Pat Robertson.  There are gay boys everywhere we look.  I saw the cutest one the other day... and no, Bill O'Reilly, he is not a deviant.  No, George W. Bush (who is being puppeteered by one of the most despicable slugs in political history, Karl Rove), he is not a threat to moral values in America.  No, Anita Bryant, you fucking ugly ass bitch - he is not trying to "recruit".... you mean old witch lady.
And yes, Anita was a witch. 
She was literally the Wicked Witch of Florida Orange Juice.
2nd runner up - we have to say that very loud because it makes her very angry - SECOND RUNNER UP to the crown of Miss America 1959 (was it?), and Mary Ann Mobley beat Anita and good because then she got to sleep with Gary Collins every night.  I mean, every night.  (I know Gary hosted Miss America for a while and actually was the host when Vanessa Williams won, but that line comes from Sophia on TGG...or do I even really need to stay what those letters stand for?)
 You can already see in the interview competition (which was quite funny for 1959 because it is better than any interview competition we have in 2021 - and actually more culturally relevant to the time in which the contestants lived in) that Anita was destined to be the human incarnation of Cruella de Vil (without the delightful camp quality, inspired by Tallullah).
This commercial, after her SECOND RUNNER UP loss at Miss America, is also a hoot and a half:
 That purity pusher was trying to guzzle down all that cum, don't kid yourselves. 
But those guys were just pretending to like her for the commercial and a chance to become the next Rock Hudson.
Obviously, clearly, all of these nice young California boys were "avowed homosexuals" and this explains the roots of Anita's reign of terror in the late 70s.
 
alright, enuf.  im manic as hell.  im up at 4:36.  and i need to get laid... don't we all.  don't all of us need just a really good fuck every now and then.
 
dang.
bang.
boom.
hell at this point i'd even let Grandpa Joe fuck me... maybe I can get an extra $20 in food stamps this month.  #welfarequeen 

happy birthday, @Merboy!

I did but I don't care for cherry pie. I like cherry flavor but not the actual fruit.

Typically thoughtless post by Merboy.  With all the geriatrics on this site he offers something that will stain their dentures.  Just wait until you get a little older, kid!

For straight bros, it's got to be 18-23.
But gay men aren't always out when they're young, depending on where they live.  It's still 1969 in parts of the world, so it's not universally shared that all gay men can be sexual when they are young.
I would argue that it's probably the age he feels the most confidently beautiful - and that for some gay men can be 70, like in Christopher Plummer's Oscar-winning performance in Beginners, where he played the newly out gay spring chicken who was also in diapers and on Medicare.
Gay men's trajectory of life is very different than straight man's is.  There is a whole other flow that happens and that's because straight men own the world and gay men are living in the straight man's world so they are an oppressed and marginalized class before they are even born.
Gay guys are also challenging the meaning and nature of sexuality in America and since Stonewall have been becoming more assertive, more confident, more strong than ever before - and demanding they get exactly what they want.
Straight men I feel reach their peak when they're young - too young, really - which may explain why once they hit 35 or 45 or 55, they become disgruntled old men with receding hairlines, bald spots, pot bellies, and sexual problems.  The cock that could last forever twenty years ago is no longer ticking and so they react by being angry at the world.  Figures since this is their world and all they see around them is every other group of people getting ahead and making strides whereas they only decline as they age... losing their sexual power, but obtaining wealth and status. 
Gay men, on the other hand, go through painful pubescent periods and in small town rural America, gay boys are still bullied, tormented, and harassed.  Gay boys are raped, exploited, and used and then thrown away.  There's a lot of heartache early on, whereas for the straight bros it's pretty much a fucking party.
It gets flipped in the 30s and 40s, as those alphas from high school who became frat boys in college (once hot, young, and full of cum) are now reduced to window dressing for their wives (who, if you look at Facebook and Instagram, aren't that pretty or young themselves).  The wives are hitting their sexual peak, but their husbands are unable to fulfill them.  Karma's a bitch, what can I say?
Gay men however only BLOSSOM with age.  They're like fine Italian wine - the older they are, the more confident and at home with themselves they are.  The less weight they carry onto their shoulders when they walk.  They're able to break free of the world they lived in, find a more accepting place, date for the first time in their life as who they truly are, live out their sexual fantasies (even into their 60s and 70s), and they are much more freer, liberated men than the straight bros they knew in high school are.
Just my two cents.

For straight bros, it's got to be 18-23.
But gay men aren't always out when they're young, depending on where they live.  It's still 1969 in parts of the world, so it's not universally shared that all gay men can be sexual when they are young.
I would argue that it's probably the age he feels the most confidently beautiful - and that for some gay men can be 70, like in Christopher Plummer's Oscar-winning performance in Beginners, where he played the newly out gay spring chicken who was also in diapers and on Medicare.
Gay men's trajectory of life is very different than straight man's is.  There is a whole other flow that happens and that's because straight men own the world and gay men are living in the straight man's world so they are an oppressed and marginalized class before they are even born.
Gay guys are also challenging the meaning and nature of sexuality in America and since Stonewall have been becoming more assertive, more confident, more strong than ever before - and demanding they get exactly what they want.
Straight men I feel reach their peak when they're young - too young, really - which may explain why once they hit 35 or 45 or 55, they become disgruntled old men with receding hairlines, bald spots, pot bellies, and sexual problems.  The cock that could last forever twenty years ago is no longer ticking and so they react by being angry at the world.  Figures since this is their world and all they see around them is every other group of people getting ahead and making strides whereas they only decline as they age... losing their sexual power, but obtaining wealth and status. 
Gay men, on the other hand, go through painful pubescent periods and in small town rural America, gay boys are still bullied, tormented, and harassed.  Gay boys are raped, exploited, and used and then thrown away.  There's a lot of heartache early on, whereas for the straight bros it's pretty much a fucking party.
It gets flipped in the 30s and 40s, as those alphas from high school who became frat boys in college (once hot, young, and full of cum) are now reduced to window dressing for their wives (who, if you look at Facebook and Instagram, aren't that pretty or young themselves).  The wives are hitting their sexual peak, but their husbands are unable to fulfill them.  Karma's a bitch, what can I say?
Gay men however only BLOSSOM with age.  They're like fine Italian wine - the older they are, the more confident and at home with themselves they are.  The less weight they carry onto their shoulders when they walk.  They're able to break free of the world they lived in, find a more accepting place, date for the first time in their life as who they truly are, live out their sexual fantasies (even into their 60s and 70s), and they are much more freer, liberated men than the straight bros they knew in high school are.
Just my two cents.

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