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    NJF got a reaction from DFdub in Ignore member list option - revisited   
    I am on a mini binge with the ignore list 😂 
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    NJF reacted to Trick in POSING AS BOYFRIEND   
    Isn’t this the legit definition of “escort,” to accompany someone, usually to events?
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    NJF reacted to Becket in POSING AS BOYFRIEND   
    An escort told me a story about going to a party as a boyfriend. The client had told all his friends about his new lover and was eager to show him off. When they arrived at the party the escort laughed to himself because he was in a room filled with past clients, some of which he had seen that same year. The client du jour smiled as he introduced his boyfriend around the room. As the evening wore on all the past clients would quietly tell the escort "please don't let others know we've seen each other." It turned out to be a great farce, but everyone was nice about it and didn't try to ruin the evening of the happy present client, so proud of his "new boyfriend." 
    Interesting and funny story.
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    NJF reacted to + BenjaminNicholas in POSING AS BOYFRIEND   
    Early on, I was hired to go to events (weddings, group vacations, company retreats, etc) with clients as their plus-one, usually 'boyfriend'
    It's just a part of the business.  Some of them turned into long term clients, some not.
    We're sometimes asked to 'play a role,' and I'm fine with that.
     
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    NJF got a reaction from Ali Gator in Ignore member list option - revisited   
    I am on a mini binge with the ignore list 😂 
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    NJF reacted to Luv2play in Convicted Felon   
    A Monopoly Game with a “ get out of jail free” card.
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    NJF reacted to Beancounter in Convicted Felon   
    https://nysba.org/app/uploads/2020/02/BaerCollateralConsequences-WEB.pdf
    This  link to the New York Bar Association provides a good synopsis of how a felony conviction affects individuals in the State of New York.  It covers a myriad of topics.  
     
    I found it interesting that in New York you are considered “civilly dead” and not eligible to get married if you are serving a life sentence.  Who knew!
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    NJF reacted to + azdr0710 in Convicted Felon   
    no, the original thread question asked if a  CONVICTED FELON  could vote, travel internationally, hold a passport, hold a drivers license....... we already know that CONVICTED FELONS can hold the top public office 
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    NJF reacted to Luv2play in Convicted Felon   
    I read in the news reports that Florida is one state where felons are treated harshly. Moving from New York to Florida and establishing your residence there can backfire if you contemplate committing a felony somewhere in the country and happen to get convicted. 
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    NJF reacted to Monarchy79 in Ghosted   
    And THIS is the type of shady, underhanded responses that turns people off about the gay community. 
     
    I could think of a few things you could work on. Your commentary was unwarranted and unnecessary, and cowardly. 
     
    This guy is sharing a terrible experience and being vulnerable in a forum where people are supposed to treat each other with a sense of support and kindness, and you just couldn’t help yourself. You had to smear this discussion thread with snarky, stank shade. 
     
    Shame on you. 
    Do better.
    BE BETTER. 
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    NJF reacted to Jamie21 in Hiring from OnlyFans?   
    They’ll usually use the same name on their Onlyfans as on their advertising for hire if they are for hire. The Onlyfans serves as a shop window. Also they’ll have a Twitter profile associated with their Onlyfans and that often has the links to all their socials (Instagram etc) which would include their RM or other websites if they are for hire. 
    However, I know quite a few guys who I’ve worked with either seeing clients or making films, who started out seeing clients and then moved on to doing Onlyfans. Some of them make so much more money on Onlyfans (and travel all the time) that it’s not worth their time seeing clients any more so they cancelled their RM advert and don’t bother advertising for clients in that way. They get clients contacting them directly, are selective and charge a much higher rate. 
     
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    NJF reacted to blck37 in Do Little Lies Matter When Dealing with a Provider?   
    IMO, all of providers and we as clients (and yes i am generalising here) lie. Some are of insignificant matters some are not. To the extent said lie is without malice, cause no harms and simply to not disclose certain personal aspect, i see no issues.
    Whilst the act of sex is inately intimate, one not necessarily comfortable to be all open, close and personal. 
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    NJF reacted to Lohengrin1979 in Sharing pictures/stats with providers as a courtesy   
    Oh don’t worry. I don’t agree.
    You push my buttons but you’re fun. 

    I’ll remember you fondly as I’m admonishing my next masseur to not grimace quite so obviously while tending to me. 🤣
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    NJF reacted to SouthOfTheBorder in Sharing pictures/stats with providers as a courtesy   
    most New Yorkers are not 100% tone-deaf & completely lacking self-awareness 
    Im sure you’re charming at cocktail parties - doubtful that ever happens tho
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    NJF reacted to Jamie21 in Sharing pictures/stats with providers as a courtesy   
    ‘Are selfish’ - an extreme.
    ’only a hookup’ - an extreme.
    You’re misrepresenting comments by making them extreme and binary so that you can argue the opposite and cause conflict. I see what you’re doing and I feel foolish for falling for it. So let me say this - actually I totally agree with you. You’re 100% right in everything you say. 
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    NJF reacted to + DrownedBoy in noisy   
    This is why a gag can be such a useful accessory  
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    NJF reacted to blck37 in age difference   
    Late 30 is not even old.....
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    NJF reacted to + Vegas_Millennial in An Anonymous Report   
    I would have turned around and walked away at the end of the sentence "I got the impression I was inconveniencing him" (4th sentence, 2nd paragraph), having exchanged no money.
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    NJF reacted to DWnyc in Can't trust a bisexual?   
    I wouldn’t be able to … 
    Part of the rationale for providers is service on demand. If a straight or bi  provider claims they can deliver regardless of to whom, they’re as qualified as anyone else.
    The question for me isn’t are you gay or not, but can you provide an experience I want once we confirm terms. Once a provider - gay bi or whatever - starts asking for photo, says “it depends” for some services, I strike them off any consideration as they aren’t hiding they likely can’t. Then we can avoid the runaround where they expect payment without delivering.
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    NJF reacted to + Vegas_Millennial in Can't trust a bisexual?   
    I consider myself "bisexual" because I will have sex with BOTH gay men and straight men. 😁
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    NJF reacted to + BenjaminNicholas in Anyone else love rent men's new height changes?   
    But why?
    They've always looked up to you.
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    NJF reacted to + BenjaminNicholas in Vetting   
    Reference letters.
    SSN.
    Tax returns and IRS liens.
    Family medical history.
    Letter from service department at car dealership.
    Grocery store memberships (double or triple couponing preferred).
    List of online streaming subscriptions.
    Brief phone interview asking the tough questions:  'corn or flour tortillas with your breakfast tacos?'
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    NJF got a reaction from + BlueSky in Time to invest in Argentina "the land of silver"?   
    Argentina's annual inflation soars to 211.4%, the highest in 32 years
    APNEWS.COM Argentina's statistics agency says the country has registered a monthly inflation rate of 25.5% in December... The real news is the highest inflation in the world.
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    NJF reacted to Jamie21 in Anyone else love rent men's new height changes?   
    I look down on short people. 
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    NJF got a reaction from + DrownedBoy in Can't trust a bisexual?   
    I knew several providers who claimed as bi but never had intimacy with a girl 😂 
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