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+ bashful reacted to Chasethejock in ChaseTheJock
I heard about this thread and had to see what all the fuss was about!
As you can see from some of the comments, my body/appearance is picked apart on a daily basis. “He was more muscular a few months ago than he is today”. My response to that is, great, go with someone else that matches your preference. Your body, your wallet, your choice.
I don’t have an age/height/weight cut off. I’ve had great experiences with all sorts of body types and ages. I ask these questions to get a general idea of who I’m potentially meeting with because I’m not expecting a photo, in respect to the privacy of the client. Would you meet with a blank profile and no background info? Maybe you would, but I’m not going to do that. For many reasons, including my own safety.
As someone else pointed out, it’s better to know upfront if it’s not a match— for all parties involved. I aim to make all of my clients feel comfortable and desired, without any judgement. Read any of my reviews and you’ll see that is something that is consistent with me. Btw thank you David for sticking up for me in the comments, I appreciate it!
May this be a reminder to everyone that providers are still humans with real lives and feelings. My time is limited. I have a career outside of escorting. I have a family. I have friends. I have a good head on my shoulders.
Be kind to yourselves and to providers. Everyone is going through their own shit. If it makes you feel better about yourself to trash talk someone online, take a good look in the mirror. Look deeper than the outside. That’s all I have to say.
-Chase
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+ bashful reacted to Luv2play in ChaseTheJock
I’m still hiring at 79 regularly and have yet to have an escort turn me down. I stay fit and flexible by going to the gym and swim 3 times a week and maintain myself pretty well. Good diet, no drugs or smoking, and plenty of sleep (except for those overnights).
I suppose the day when I have to give up this hobby may arrive but not planning on that just now. I have a regular who loves me the way I am and he is 30. I love sleeping with him just as I used to with my boyfriend 40 years ago. But he’s dead now.
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+ bashful reacted to + KensingtonHomo in ChaseTheJock
Have you picked an expiration date for yourself? I believe we're close in age so how many years do we have before too grossly old or ugly? Like is 70 the cut off? 80?
I do agree with Kyle in that I'd rather know in advance if someone isn't actually an escort but just monetizing their sex life, but most of the escorts I know and we see post here are much more concerned with hygiene, kindness and having good customers than how "hot" they are.
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+ bashful reacted to BuffaloKyle in ChaseTheJock
I agree but I will say I'd rather get turned down by a provider for not fitting his age/height/weight preference for a client than to have said meeting happen where he's not going to be into it then.
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+ bashful got a reaction from Jacob_b in Tipping - if so, and how much?
My last hire was before the Pandemic. I had pretty much always tipped. My last hire had a great reputation on this platform so scheduled 90 minutes for a suggested $450 donation. I put $500 in an envelope. It didn’t turn out to be like his reviews said, and I didn’t have the nerve to ask for change. Moral of the story is always keep tipping money separate.
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+ bashful got a reaction from Jacob_b in want more from long time massage therapist
Just know it may not happen. Went to a guy for therapeutic massage for a couple of years. Sometimes got an erection. Once, I said I need to get this taken care of. His response was "keep trying". Knew then, there would never be more.
Some months later, before an appointment, he texted me 3 separate times to move back our appointment because his client was late. When we finally met, I used the bathroom, and there was a used condom on the top of the other trash in bathroom garbage can.
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+ bashful got a reaction from spidir in Tipping - if so, and how much?
My last hire was before the Pandemic. I had pretty much always tipped. My last hire had a great reputation on this platform so scheduled 90 minutes for a suggested $450 donation. I put $500 in an envelope. It didn’t turn out to be like his reviews said, and I didn’t have the nerve to ask for change. Moral of the story is always keep tipping money separate.
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+ bashful got a reaction from CheeseBoy in Balls From Behind
Not exactly behind, but the view is still good.
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+ bashful reacted to + Jamie21 in I think you would get more Providers to stay if...
We already have a site. We discuss clients and share useful information about them such as dick size, body shape and whether they know how to suck a cock. They get a rating on various aspects of their ability as a client.
There’s 8 scores that all add up to an overall rating. When you’ve seen a client you put his scores into the system and it calculates the client’s overall rating. That is then used to help us decide what to charge or indeed whether to respond atall to the client’s enquiry.
The 8 scores are:
1) Desirability: 1 to 10 (where 10 is provider level desirability). Obviously on the site the scores 5 to 10 are greyed out since it’s not possible to award those.
2) Interest: 1 to 10. This is an indication of whether the client is able to hold a conversation on anything other than his desire to get off.
3) Communication: -10 to 10. An evaluation of his opening enquiry. ‘Hey’ gets a minus 10 score. Dick pics -11 which actually throws the system and deletes the client’s profile. The administrators are trying to fix that. Clients: don’t send dick pics if you want to keep your profile on the system.
4) Kindness: 1 to 3. The score used to go up to 10 but it never got used.
5) Hygiene : 1 to 10. This score has a multiplier. It’s worth 2X the other scores when calculating the overall rating.
6) Ease of use: 1 to 10. Includes aspects like does he arch his back or just lie there like a sack of potatoes. (Yes I’m thinking of you- yesterday’s client…you score 1 on this).
7) Ability: 1 to 6. Not much is expected tbh.
8). Defrayment: 1 to 10. Does he pay without haggling and how much is tipped.
These 8 scores: or the D.I.C.K.H.E.A.D rating for short all add up over time to give us an indication of how suitable the client is to be seen.
The system is hosted in the British Virgin Islands…so there’s no hassle with data protection. If any clients are wondering why they often get no reply from providers it could be they need to work on their Dickhead rating.
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+ bashful reacted to Mo Mason in Favorite Chicago escort
My experience with three of the providers who've been mentioned here:
coltenbarett: super cute twink.. he's a twunk nowadays... I think he was brand new to escorting when I hired him... this was back in 2019ish.. we are both bottoms and were new to hiring/providing.. so it was awkward.. we were nervous.. not much happened. I still recommend him because he was good people/the vibe was right. A+
alxward: super hot giant.. he had just come from a party and was a bit tipsy... kissed very aggressively.. I'm super submissive and would rather be on my knees than sucking face, so I feel like he didn't read that room very well.. nothing much happened in our hour together after that. I still recommend him because he was good people/the vibe was right. A+
travischambers: hired him for an overnight with only two hours notice, so super accommodating on his part... such a cute and friendly otter.. we had such a fun time but in a friendly, platonic way... I was awkward so we didn't do anything sexually.. I watched him sleep because I'm a weirdo.. I still recommend him because he was good people/the vibe was right. A+
These guys did really well. They were hires from six to eight years ago. I blame ME for the shortcomings. I was new. I was nervous. I didn't communicate directly or correctly. They were not great experiences for me at the time, but I recognize that that was my fault entirely, not theirs.
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+ bashful reacted to Mo Mason in 411 - XLSwitch - Chicago
He saves himself for the second session (in a strangely spiritual sense). He's giving me Mormon vibes which, I'm not going to lie about it, is kind of hot.
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+ bashful reacted to Braziliancutee in Question for Providers--Re Clients Ages
Yeah unfortunately only me maybe had this experiences. But ofc I already meet some great older guys as well.
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+ bashful got a reaction from thomas in Question for Providers--Re Clients Ages
You sound like a good boy, son.
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+ bashful got a reaction from Braziliancutee in Question for Providers--Re Clients Ages
You sound like a good boy, son.
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+ bashful got a reaction from + Pensant in Question for Providers--Re Clients Ages
You sound like a good boy, son.
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+ bashful reacted to Braziliancutee in Question for Providers--Re Clients Ages
But being honest I love mens +50 they are so sexy. I am a daddy’s boy.
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+ bashful reacted to jmichaeliii in Question for Providers--Re Clients Ages
As a client I have regulars I see aged from 25-33. They have all told me they prefer older clients. Reasons they have told me is more reliable, know what they want and more sexual experience.
As an older client I have found the younger providers I see really appreciate an intimate experience more than I would have thought versus just a quick lay. I tend to favor the younger age range and have been blessed to find several amazing guys who I thoroughly enjoy.
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+ bashful reacted to + azdr0710 in *Gas Prices Currently
along with Rockhard's underwear search thread and the "how to get cum stains out of the sofa" discussion, this is also a legendary thread....
https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/2834-gas-prices-in-your-area-lets-hear-about-it/
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+ bashful reacted to Bokomaru in Douche No More?
There is a way to douche without douching. This is over the counter in EU but very difficult to find in the US. I’ve used it multiple times. Very effective.
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+ bashful reacted to 56harrisond in Best Masseur Insta Accounts
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+ bashful reacted to 56harrisond in Best Masseur Insta Accounts
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