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The big takeaway from reading everything so far is don't just let the provider know you are looking for a BFE and leave it at that. Be specific with what you want. You are paying after all so you wanna make sure you are going to get exactly what you have in mind.

It’s that piece of paper the person in front of you at the grocery store checkout line is taking an interminable amount of time writing on and holding up the line.

I've been hiring for about a year.  Up to that first hire, I'd never done anything with a guy before, only in my mind.
I was so nervous in that first encounter and he knew it.  He went out of his way to put me at ease provide a great time.  He is now a regular for me and I see him monthly.  I admitted all this to him and thanked him for how he handled it.
Now that we know,  like and trust each other, there is very little we don't do.   I will continue to hire him as long as it is possible.

The advantage of a hire vs a hookup is you can be more direct if you’d like. He’s there to provide you a service, on your terms. If he walks in the door and you want to jump his bones right then and there, you can do it! Or if you want to take it slow, chat and maybe have a drink first, that’s your call too. You don’t need to be too worried about what he might think the way you might with a hookup.
 
Of course don’t be a jerk since he’s a person too, but don’t be afraid to ask for what you’d like. 

Although a decent BFE is described above, it's so overused by escorts that there's no guarantee what will happen. Especially with the younger escorts who think they're too sexy for most people. 

He'll join you for Christmas dinner with the family, but in return you'll have to deal with his family as well.  And when the paid session is over, he'll also want custody of the dog. 🐶

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He has an X (twitter) account. Check under both names,  I forget which name he uses. Ask him there if he still escorts..

Looking at the pic in the posting and those on the Instagram account, there appear to be a number of years and a mountain of muscle in between the two. I think I prefer the younger, slimmer version, but many would rather the other version. Each to his own, of course.

He looks like a very young….
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