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In North America "average" means FAT (not fit).

I don't have a problem sending a face pic. I see no reason why a provider can't see me before I show up at his door. I wouldn't want to be in the position where someone found me unattractive and was unable to perform.

It's called the escort business. Your problems are borne in the fact that people here are telling how to improve your business model but instead of thanking us your tell us we are all wrong and then you continue to complain you don't have enough business. Rather a vicious cycle you're creating for yourself. If twenty people say you're a horse every day... then maybe you should at least consider buying a saddle instead of insisting you're a dolphin.

Absolutely. Smaller museums try to prevent crowding by requiring a reservation of an arrival time. Most are not very strict about that time slot being exact if you arrive a little early or late ..but you must have the reservation or make one a the door and return later if it's busy.

VERY. Within the year living in LA, I had dozens and dozens of "friends". ... But One weekend I was feeling very sick and weak. I asked my "best friend" there to please check in with me and just bring me some things from the store. "He wasn't sure he had time". I called another ..who said they'd "try". Then another and another and everyone of these people who wanted to hang out when the party was on....couldn't commit to helping me when I was ill. I ended up asking for help from my Nicaraguan neighbor who I barely knew but to say hello when I'd see them outside. They didn't speak a word of English and my Spanish at that time was rough. She brought me soup and her husband drove to the store. Of course they weren't from LA either....so THEY understood the idea of how important it is for the soul to do things for others. The rest it seems are too focused on their own priorities to be able to work such a distraction into their busy schedule of going to the gym, working on their tan, getting a smoothie and/or getting laid. I left a month after that realization.

I don't think you need to BE a dolphin to be concerned about dolphins. "Black" is an identity and a community as much as it is a description of one's skin tone. Anyone from any ancestry doesn't need to be "pure-blood" to feel connections to their heritage.

"Europe" is a big place. Try using a public toilet in Ireland. You'll be stepping over hypodermic needles from the heroin addicts. In other countries, yes there are more outreach programs that limit the visibility of the problem but don't make the problem go away. Most of what you SEE is a problem with our response (or lack,thereof) in dealing with mental illness. We used to institutionalize, then tossed them into the streets in the 80's after that was considered unjust. Then most of them got arrested and held in jail long past the normal judgement for the crime. Now Progressive cultural theory is "curing" that injustice by once again releasing the victim but spiraling back to the same problem with seriously mentally ill people wandering the streets ( until the end up back in jail again ). It's a real mess. And it's mostly about money. No civil authority wants to committ the money to caring for these people who have little ability to care for themselves.

I'm talking about the fact that you complain incessantly about not getting enough clients or you're complaining about the clients you DO get. Have you ever considered it's not the clients that are the problem ? Maybe its your business model.

Cold and rainy summer days are not pleasant. I was there once over Fourth of July weekend. I had to buy a coat !! I wasn't prepared for such cold weather.

The temperature is probably the same. 😜 People mistake San Francisco for having the same climate as LA because they're both in the same state. S.F. can be as cold and miserable in the summer as a crappy Boston Spring. Summer in Boston is actually quite pleasant.

Sorry. I always just go to the websites. Sleepyboy.com seems to be the best when in London.

Because 20-somethings need to impress all their "followers" with the fabulous destinations and situations they find themselves in weekly. The need for validation is disturbing. I can only guess most of them were ignored in childhood by busy parents who didn't have time for actually paying attention to their kids.

I travel to London frequently and alone without family. So I do often like a bit of company at some point. I've always been successful at meeting young men who were not only handsome, but charming and fun, for a price that wasn't outrageous. So seems like a good location for a "sexcation". I am surprised no one has mentioned Bangkok. It's been several years, since I've been there but the low key attitude about homosexuality and sex work always provided an easy environment for me to bang my brains out. I remember a place where you could book a suite upstairs where there was a spa downstairs with very handsome men who you could choose from. They would come to your room, take a bath with your, scrub your back, massage you, and let you fuck their brains out for a very low cost overall. The better looking/ muscular guys did expect high tips for better service but even then it was nothing compared to NYC.

Well....I mean...Toronto ? Not exactly the epicenter of fashion focus. "Influencers" want to be seen in the most trendy/fashionable locations. So I'm sure you're also not going to be bothered by them in Toledo, Minneapolis or Ottowa. For those of us in London, LA or NYC we get inundated by young trend-seekers.

Jarrod is running a customer service industry. Some kinds businesses may be able to function without frequent communications with its customers...but a customer service business is expected to be responsive to communications.

Any customer service industry needs to be responsive to customer requests. So twice a day isn't ideal. Either use email or don't.

It's all very symbolic of the whole soap opera drama that the mainstream media has lured us into. Objective Journalism is non existant today. We are expected to huddled into two camps of pro or con. With progressivism or with conservatism and ignore the middle ground. (Which is really where most people dwell). Both these characters are players in the scam where we are fooled into believing that only the two extremes of opinion matter.

I don't find that the least bit interesting, because it's not the least bit surprising. Tucker leans very conservative so of course he's going to attract the usual vitriol from the members here who just can't cope with anti-progtessives. The very serious problem with that knee-jerk reaction to ALL conservatives is that some of them are making valid points that never get heard.

Actually you did. Phrasing is important. Maybe read your comments as other would read it before you post. When I read your response it definitely insinuated you knew something negative about the guy. Then you claimed "it wasn't relative"...but even THAT makes one ponder what dirt you do have on the person. Apparently you're saying it's a miscommunication. But I can see why others might read it as a warning against Habibihunk.

@Jarrod_Uncutthe rest of us who have businesses check our emails all day long. You're either serious about your job or your not. If you don't check your email, don't list it as a mode of communication.

Your logic is lost on me. You simultaneously claim you missed out by taking 3 hours of personal time but also indicate you really don't get a lot of bookings. Are you saying you feel obligated to stay at home 24/7 until you get a client even though you don't get clients for days at a time ? I think your dwindling business model is now officially cutting into you enjoying your life if that's the case.

The LIRR station has shuttle busses to the ferry. You can buy tickets when you arrive at the ferry. ( Just realize the longer line is people who already bought tickets ..so look for the shorter line). Both shuttles and ferries run frequently. So although technically you could hit a rush hour and not make it on...you won't wait long for another one. Chery Grove and The Pines are both gay oriented communites. The Grove has large Lesbian/ hippy vibe. The Pines is more upscale and full of the pretty Instagram gays. Beautiful beach...and lots of beautiful men to oggle. Both towns have nightlife and cafe's but the Grove is a bit more commerical and full of day-trippers where the Pines is more of a seasonal crowd + homeowners. Both are worth a visit. Enjoy.

Sadly that's not an unusual story. As we get older sometimes we need different kinds of friends. And the reliable love most get from parents is something none of us get to keep. Planning your old age is tricky because we never really know what's ahead of us. But being a good friend to others who share your outlook in life are your key to feeling safe. Avoid self centered people and reach out to the givers.

I DO think American news has become more about keeping their audience entertained than informed. It's all quite left or right viewpoints, so that alone tells you that the story is modified to satisfy one or the other "side of the aisle". Objective journalism is a thing of the past. It doesn't bring ratings.

@UnicornI didn't say I respected nor did I say I condoned lying. I made it clear what I respected about him. I can like something about someone without condoning every moment of their behavior.