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I relied heavily on the mentorship of older gay men when I started experimenting with homosexuality in college. I knew nothing about how to meet people, the social norms, that not all gays were effeminate and that gay men had long term relationships. I am now in my 50s and they are still my friends. Young people today, think they know everything and that old people are stupid. So they wouldn't accept mentorship.

So basically you're saying you're a gay man 🤣

He's Australian. It probably never occurred to him that age of consent would be so old in California.

Nice looking pic. But have never seen the profile in NYC before. I'm assuming he doesn't speak English since his profile is in Spanish only.

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I used to see a cute young guy for Thai massage twice a month. In-between sessions we would meet up for (off-the-clock) sex. I was twice his age but he claimed he was only attracted to "daddy" type men. Otherwise he dated women his own age with the hope of marriage some day.

I am in my 50'a and I admit to being surprised by the number of very young guys (and women) who flirt with me in public. So I suppose it's reasonable to say it's more common today but then I'm probably in a LOT better shape than my grandfather was at 50..so health and fitness in older men may have a lot to do with this change in attitudes.

If you feel your clients want the boyfriend fantasy from you then you might try re-directing the conversation. The way this question was answered in the online chat previous WAS a bit harsh and it immediately iliicited a nasty reply because of that. Maybe try something like "We're here to talk about what makes YOU happy, not talk about me". If they pressure you further just say "I'm all yours tonight". Beyond that then just lie. It's all fantasy anyway. They don't need to know and you don't NEED to tell.

"I'm not single" should suffice.

I wouldn't fuck him if he paid me.

Yup. This is true. Todays report says she and the family are "refusing to cooperate with police on the matter". So I'm gonna take a wild stab in the dark and guess that this chick probably exaggerated the details of the encounter. Beyond that I DO think the California age of consent at 18 is a bit ridiculous. I was fucking my brains out at 14 with a 17 year old and by the time I was 15 she was 18 so technically she also was guilty of sexual misconduct. He was 20 and she was 16 (possibly 15) That's hardly the equivalent of child molesting. Most states put age of consent at 16...and he isn't that much older So seems much ado about nothing.

Thank you. Exactly my point. Not saying he's ugggos but "hot" ? 🤔 People need to be more specific when they describe providers. Maybe a system like karats in a diamond.

I was commenting on the habit of calling someone "hot" when all they have going for them is a big dick. If you like "regular" guys. Great ! Go for it ! Not what I was talking about.

My observation over many years, not quoting a scientific exploration of the phenomenon. You don't need to "believe" everything someone says. But that also doesn't make it untrue simply because you prefer to not accept it. Just sharing something that I've witnessed and it came up this past week again when a young friend of mine told me about his weekend. Not American so not celebrating with family. He was instead looking for some fun on Grindr. He told me every hot guy he hit up was doing drugs. (My friend does not). I was telling him that I've seen the same pattern over many years on the various hook up sites..Grindr, Manhunt, Gay.com, Adam4Adam etc. Before I was married with kids, I'd often use the long weekend for some fun myself. Always a rush of activity online but unfortunately way too many guys who had been doing meth all weekend and were so tweaked-out they couldn't get it up.

We're not posting onWikipedia. Yes. That was an opinion..

He recently posted something on Twitter that hinted at such availability. On Nov.19 he was discussing NOT asking him about escorting on OF. Somebody asked (half joking) "so where DO we ask?" To which someone else replied "how about here?" (Twitter) to which baxxxbox replied "he's got the right idea". So this would indicate he is open to private messaging via Twitter.. Good luck..he's a hottie

What year was this ? 1950 ? Who tips a dollar today ? Its 2023. Tipping is done with $5 USD. If you want to negotiate some extra fun, a $20 is the standard "let's talk" signal. P.V. is not some Third World destination where throwing pennies on the floor will do the trick. Nothing more gross than taking advantage of young poor kids who are selling their body for pennies. Everyone deserves a rate that you can afford, not the bare minimum they will accept out of desperation.

There's always a big uptick in the number of guys on Grindr looking for PNP on Thanksgiving weekend. I always warn my younger gay friends to be cautious ⚠️. Lots of PTSD after spending the day with family. It seems, this results in gays spending the following three days drowning themselves in sex and drugs. Is it really that difficult to navigate a few hours with family with whom, you now have little in common ?

Once again baffled about guys being recommended as "so hot" and I look at the profile and think: *meh* 🥱 But, of course, the giant penis seems to make the gay man's brain delude him into believing this ordinary looking fellow is somehow extraordinary. If I'm PAYING someone for intimate company, they need to be better looking than me (or they should be paying ME.) For me, the size of his penis is irrelevant to physical beauty, not the driving impulse.

Which is why I'm never buying a self driving car.

I think when I am greeted, I most enjoy a pair of tight fitting gym shorts (short-shorts) and either a tank top and no shoes. A bathrobe would be sexy to me, but no one ever uses a bathrobe anymore

Lucky girl.

Ty is a sweetheart. VERY cute. Tiny guy but endlessly fuckable for the tops in the crowd. Goes in and out of full service depending on the client. Seems to be genuinely into the dominant daddy look (or he's an excellent actor). YRMV

I find Bailey far more sexy than Bomer (and a better actor)

Interestingly enough - Lobsters were not considered edible by humans until the 19th century. Prior to the mid 1800's they were generally fed to pigs.