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So in other words... he's on the spectrum.

One of the few who are honest enough to post their HIV POSITIVE status.

The last wedding I went to, the budget just for the florist was $10K. $10K is actually a small budget, unless you're planning a "bring-a-dish" reception in the church basement at your local parish in Arkansas.

Ive been to dozens of weddings. I've never once "brought a gift". Not to say you don't DO gifting. But wedding gifts are always managed through a registry or a card with 💰cash for the newlyweds. In my own culture we would not "bring a gift" but pay a visit in the weeks (or months) after the wedding to the couples home. We would bring food and look around to see what they needed and THEN send a gift. Rather an old-fashioned way of doing it and not something I am saying anyone expects today. But I always found it charming and also practical.

Where I grew up in Central PA this color is fairly common. Never realized until I moved away from there that its actually pretty rare. Living in predominantly brown-eyed New York people comment all the time.

Like snowflakes. I've seen a close up of my eyes. They are actually pixelated with a lot of colors, none of which are the color you see when you look at my face. Mostly gold, turquoise and olive spots that make my eyes look light green from a distance.

I like to watch two guys get down-n-dirty. I do NOT enjoy watching a couple make-out. I feel like I am interrupting their private romantic moment. Instead i want to feel like I'm getting ready to join in and cum in somebody's mouth, while the other dude licks my asshole. So in this case I would prefer my playmates to NOT be linked romantically.

"Recogniton" skills at that stage are typically: I know you / I don't know you. Not a lot of shades in between. Conversation usually revolves around their childhood memories which seem to be the most burned into our consciousness.

Wearing a cup would be incredibly painful. We didn't wear a jock simply because they can get twisted around underneath your singlet from all that twisting, turning and grabbing. There's no baseball or football gonna hit you in the nuts and it's a violation to grab somebody by the balls. So mostly you're ok.

I'm all-about the voyeurism aspect of a threeway, as long as it's about the S E X. I really don't want to watch a couple kiss and get all romantic. Ruins the "naughty" vibe that I'm going for.

This kind of V shaped torso gets me to reach for my wallet every time. Pity you rarely find such perfect specimens on Rent.men or other easy business sites

Clearly that's a case-by-case issue. I know men who were gorgeous at 20 and gross by 30. Conversely one of my high school friends was a skinny little weasel at 19 and is now a strikingly handsome 53 year old. Everybody ages differently. This is just MY opinion but I think in general it helps in the escort market if a guy increases his interest in kink-play as he loses that youthful beauty. Additional skills can make up for the decreasing eye-candy factor.

I have the opposite experience. I have had a few hook ups with couples. In both instances I was turned OFF when they started making-out with each other. When I hire I want to be the center of attention, not be witness to someone else's romantic connection.

Definitely. Not me ..but I've been with lots of men who do.

Agreed. I've told everyone if I can't eat it or drink it, don't bring it. The final straw was many years ago when a dear friend brought me the most hideous serving tray with a blown glass dolphin holding it. I was aware it was an expensive item given the scale and handmade quality, but it was tacky beyond belief, and something I would never actually use. So I finally just put an end to it, and banned gifts. I told everyone NO; unless they were determined to bring wine or dessert for a dinner party

Sounds nightmarish. I'm impressed you managed to enjoy sex in the middle of this chaos. I'd have been out the door already when I saw the dirty apartment. Meth addiction is a very sad reality for a lot of gay men.

Especially when you have men sharing their happy success in where to travel to get a massage and a blow job for US$50

Do a lot of men go to gay bars on holidays instead of spending the day with their family? Are the gay bars busy on Thanksgiving and Christmas?

I was a teenager during the AIDS crisis and just coming in to my sexual adventures. So there was never a point in my life where unprotected sex was an option. I see no reason be be re-educated about that.

I agree. Gift giving was always something you did for children where I grew up. This habit of constant consumerism is very American. As an adult, I would pick up the check. If someone has already done so, then I would make plans for another date to do something together. At my age, the companionship of a good friend is far more valuable than some useless tzotchkie they might buy me.

Bozo posted it in the thread above.

She's been "gone" for a while. But her body was still alive.

Exactly! I do the same. There have been multiple occasions where I am traveling for work and I'm dining alone, so I entertain myself by flirting with and chatting up the young waiter(waitress). More than once I've discovered a phone number scribbled on my receipt

Obviously culture plays a LOT into the population of younger men who find older men attractive. I have a friend in Thailand who's Irish-American/ 64 years old and still quite handsome and in good shape. He is always dating the most beautiful young/fit Thai guys that you could imagine. Thai guys who at a glance, appear to be able to get anyone they want, will clamor to get my friend's attention. Perhaps his demeanor shows enough class to indicate money or maybe it's that reputation that all Americans are rich..but mostly they are just attracted to the silver haired daddy look of a mature well put together James Bond, sort of gentleman.

Although I certainly don't condemn people for making money and enjoying it, I feel this level of consumption and display of wealth is tacky and reveals a grotesque kind of selfishness. Rather the opposite effect that Ms.Kardashian is likely going for in her public image.