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Maybe not the most mature response but advertising a sensual massage and then being asked about "mutual touching" IS the same as asking if the fellow is a sex worker. So I can understand him being offended. Personally I don't understand why so many gay men just assume all masseurs are sex workers. "Sensual" doesn't mean sex. If you want more than a massage you need to start by asking someone who offers "erotic" services. I disagree with the "just ask" attitude. If you hire a masseur you ask about massage techniques. if you want to start touching someone's body to turn you on...he's right...hire a sex worker or someone offering "erotic" sessions. Otherwise keep your mouth shut. Take the session as given and discuss "other" services AFTER, for the next meet.

I have found its best to allow that masseur to perform as he normally does on a first meet. Guage the natural propensity toward erotic services that come naturally. After a generous tip, you can speak man-to-man about his limits in erotic services. I do think many providers don't like to discuss with strangers but are more open to suggestion with a good tipper.

I love your parents already.

Some guys hang-heavy. Sadly I'm a grower not a show-er so I never looked so thick-dicked in my singlet. I think the difference in appearance between growers and show-ers is why some people assume the show-ers have a hard-on .

Don't assume popularity = quality. I took my parents to see Phantom. Was like listening to fingernails on a chalkboard for two hours. It's an incredibly cheesy musical designed for mass-consumption by middle America people with no taste. I always admired Andrew Lloyd Weber's talent with Jesus Christ Superstar but Cats and Phantom were not at the same level of genuine creativity. Clearly, artistic efforts were no longer important to him and he just wanted to mass market and make money at this point in his career.

I was thinking the exact same thing.

"CATS". Hated it. Some theater-nerd friends from high school talked me into going. I was so upset that I spent all that money on that crap. (And a crappy over-priced lunch at Beefsteak Charlies). Worst trip to NYC ever.

This one is shy. Looks like he's wearing his Fruit-of-the-Looms under his singlet. We never wore underwear! Some of the really hung guys would wear a pouch that was constructed like a string bikini in the back so their dick wouldn't slide around as much.

DURING the match - no. You use up too much blood flow while wrestling to spare enough to get an erection. Before you start...yeah. that is always possible and fairly common. Most of MY erection problems were in the shower AFTER the match. Most wrestlers have an amazing ass and a peek at that perfect 🍑 peach always got me in trouble. Frequently grabbing my towel to cover my excitement. 🍆 So many sexy memories of my wresting days. Sad that I never got the nerve to hit on any of those guys.

We'd probably be in a better position if CEO's stopped stripping the middle class of their earnings. The float to the top is stagnating the "normal" economy. Impulse shopping in down with middle class wage earners because necessities are still at grossly inflated prices. As said before, you can't go by the stock market. Too much hype to run up numbers before the people who really know what's going on, jump ship, and start shorting.

To my knowledge, an "audit" doesn't pry too deeply into your business as long all your record-keeping is spotless.

I would do anything for Ryan Phillipe. What a hottie he was (still is).

I am flattered. But the visits to the Hamptons are during the day and I am back home to have dinner with my family. I am available sometime for lunch 😉

Seems to me getting accreditation as a masseur, whether you work as an ACTUAL masseur or as a sex-worker is a good pathway to financial responsibility.

Chatted with him. Seems nice enough. Definitely sexy. But can't host/doesn't host. So that doesn't work for me.

When I was much younger and started experimenting with men, I was meeting older men and I expected they would top, because I only liked masculine men, and I expected them to be dominant in nature. I don't think I would have WANTED to top them. So yeah...an older bottom would not have been appealing then and an older bottom is not appealing now ! My brain says older = top / younger = bottom ( same age is the toss of a coin ) 🤣

This I agree with. As part of my job, I need to travel outside Manhattan to job sites in Westchester County and Long Island/ the Hamptons. Sometimes, I will check my Grindr to see who's around. By the time I get back to my office, I've got dozens and dozens of messages from having signed on in a new area where it's just small surburban villages, and therefore, a smaller population to pick from. "New meat" seems to be welcomed, (no matter how close I am to my expiration date) 🤣

It may "work better for the young and pretty" and it may work better In "a big city." But I have a young (27) and very pretty friend here in NYC who says that guys will spend all day LOOKING because there's so much to pick from. (Honestly, I think he does the same). Always searching for greener pastures and never ready to commit to anything until they've exhausted their search. By then they're too tired to fuck.So they go to bed alone 😔

I'm a boy. Everyone knows I'm a boy/ everyone knows I have a penis....so where exactly is this "embarrassment" you speak of ? 🤔 Should a woman be embarrassed of her tits when she wears a bathing suit ? Should a guy be embarrassed when he wears a bikini swimsuit like athletes do for swimming competition ? I guess the answer is that there IS no embarrassment about anatomy in sport.

Grindr is notorious for flakes who are sitting at home jerking-off and seeking momentary validation. Maybe 1/5th of the guys on there will actually show up for a meet. Your lack of success is primarily due to the nature of the platform which is focused on instant gratification and anonymous sex, leading to some strange behaviors.

I was thinking more like leather daddy.

yeah. That IS weird. I responded to the previous profile, so it definitely WAS the same guy a few months ago.

When any of my nieces or nephews ( including in-laws) got married, it was always $ 500 cash with a tasteful card. Always appreciated. Use it for your honeymoon or rent. I don't care. But it's not some stupid piece of bullshit they'll never use.

Always a concern. But it's an occupational hazard. An athletic cup would be incredibly painful throughout the entire event, and would restrict your mobility. The referees do look at your every move and any "assault" to your scrotum, although possible, is avoided because it's a penalty and a point granted to your opponent. That said...mistakes DO happen. It's a tough sport !

$50K in NYC is pretty standard.