Yes also not a fan of ON as it feels rushed. It's either a day/evening 6 hr date, and if I need longer I go for the whole 24hrs. Just finished one and it was fantastic. Catch up chats , prolong fun time, lunch, cozy up to a chick flick over fireplace fire, dinner, dessert and then "dessert!"....fall asleep in his arms, wake up there, quick clean up and more fun, and then shower before he leaves. Already planning the next one !