For a day or more it is either a weekend or a trip somewhere. During the day it's usually a late wake up, and depending on who you are with, coffee before taking care of morning wood or reverse ;-) Then the day is easy pace most of the times, checking out sites of the destination, lounging by the pool, watching a movie etc. Lots of time there is a prolonged massage (and whatever follows) before dinner. I always tell him to take time for gym (those bodes don't come easy!) and for personal emails (I don't specify time, and most except one have never abused it). I also make it clear that if there is shit happening in their lives and if they need to take calls for that I'm fine (and preferably if it's a big issue, to actually cancel or reschedule rather than be distracted). That's just me, and others may differ (ie want non stop sex!). So like the common theme here...TALK to the guy first and TEST DRIVE