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  1. 3 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

    Sorry.

    My encounter wasnt terrible. (Also was maybe in better shape back when I met him than now.) It would be unkind to just warn people away since your results may vary. But sounds like the quality is declining as the price escalates. The argument to simply avoid is growing.

    And you were very honest with me about the fact your encounter was not terrible; but put me on alert to not expect much - especially for the price - and indeed, that's exactly what I received.  He was willing and pleasant, but inattentive and distracted.  Many more gents, at far less price and with far harder bodies made much of me and our time together.

  2. I paid a lot.  public_assistance tried to - alert me - gently (warn is too strong a word to use in this case I think) but bottom line he was way more focused on the next client and responding to texts regarding that than our play in our very expensive session.  Would not repeat, but he wasn't high, he wasn't a threat, and he was good looking.  Not as in-shape as I think he represents (e.g., I think putting the label 'jock' on him is a bit of a misnomer).  I hope I'm not coming across as snarky here.  

  3. I was; lived in the house for 3 years.  Glad I did it; still some close friends (although generally still regularly closer to friends from high school).  My father's best lifelong friends were his fraternity brothers, which is what lead me to join.

    We were not the jock house, but we were the 'cocaine connection' for our Greek system for sure.  We were a 'mixed' house, e.g., 50% wasp, 50% Jewish.  Most of the guys were normal-looking and subdued, but lots of under-the-radar wealthy guys.  Went to some amazing parties at their parents' estates.

    Our hazing was funny, rather than harsh, although there was a lot of calisthenics (and drinking of VERY cheap beer; I still can't stomach Meister Brau or Mickey's Big Mouth).

    There was a semi-closeted, very small gay contingent; they were more 'tolerated' rather than celebrated, but as I neglected to say above, it was the mid to late 80's.  The only thing close to guy/guy action I witness personally was a three-way with a very attractive woman, and I did not participate and was present for less than a minute (although invited to join in LOL).  One of our brothers was the first person from our school to die in the AIDS epidemic - or at least that was acknowledged he died of AIDS complications.  I never connected with anyone in the house in a physically intimate manner.

    One brother of mine is now living with me off-and-on.  His wife keeps kicking him out of the house.  I was in their wedding and know her, and it's 80% on her IMHO.  He's straight and we are not physically intimate (for those inclined to speculate LOL).  

  4. Bump.  He's back on-line (was off for a while) and back in LA for a few days.  I'm trying to connect with him.  This is just to let everyone know who may be interested that he's back in town for a bit.

  5. So I'm not completely opposed to deposits; however, I'm finding more and more providers really pushing them.  I think I get it with new clients, but it's irritating and a bit nerve-wracking.  I'd do it with guys well thought of from this site, I suppose. 

     

    Apologies if I'm not finding a recent thread on this topic.

  6. On 10/24/2023 at 1:50 PM, BuffaloKyle said:

    I actually don't do this but a great suggestion I have heard as alluded to by @MikeThomas is have a friend know exactly where you are going, who you are seeing, and how long you will be there. And that you will text them at a certain time and if they don't hear from you then they know something is up and to start taking action.

    Since the main play I engage in is bondage, I do this precisely every time; and ANY person I play with, I insist they do the same (e.g., whether dom or sub).  My last couple play sessions with guys from RM were at a bondage club rental space in LA, and the staff literally checks on you a couple minutes after the session is over (by knocking of course LOL) so the safety factor is very high.  But this is a non-negotiable for me in every encounter, even if it's with someone I know well and have played with a lot.  It goes just beyond the safety of harm from the other party; it's also the idea of - what if I have a heart attack while the other guy is restrained, for example.  

  7. 21 hours ago, azdr0710 said:

    New York to Bangkok to Hong Kong to St Tropez in 96 hours.....lying bullshitter......(he didn't even account for international date line crossing)......

    but plenty of "linktree" mentions all around!!....yay!

    Yeah, I'm getting responses but they are 'i'm busy, so I can't make plans right now'.  Wonder what the point is?  Why bother being on RM at all, or for that matter responding?

  8. I think he's actually in the US right now.  I reached out to him when he was in Marina Del Rey (pleasure boat harbor area of Los Angeles) and he said 'Busy until the 15th' but never gave me any other info to meet up with him while he was here!

  9. On 8/4/2023 at 11:33 PM, Simon Suraci said:

    I offer tickle sessions. Usually the client wants to be tickled, but I reverse roles too. Often this is part of a bondage kink session with more going on than just tickling, but I do this too. I agree, it can be a lot for an hour of solid tickling. I use a wide range of stimuli from feathers to wartenberg wheels, to fabrics, to floggers - in addition to my fingers. It’s easier to break it up this way, more fun, and less monotonous.

    I charge my full escort rate, even if it’s in the context of a massage “scene” using the table and whatnot. It’s not massage though. It’s specialized, focused work that is more difficult to commodify than massage. Although arguably massage is so variable from masseur to masseur - that service too is not a commodity.

    I love being tickled (and tickling; it's my main kink) but slow, deliberate, perhaps even devious - is my favorite.  I can't catch my breath if it goes on non-stop for too long; and I would not expect a provider/player to go non-stop.  Also, for me, I get desensitized and need a break or a different location.  This is not to say that a quite interesting part of a tickle session can be when the top goes on a light and relentless attack on one spot for an extended period of time.  

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