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Diamante, have you actually met him?

Sorry - car guy but not a gear-head.  

I love old cars but the tech is SO advanced now.  What I miss is the 'floating cloud' feeling of certain older luxury cars; very few people want that now a days, and very few car companies offer it.

5 minutes ago, BuzzLiteQueer said:

Wow! 😜

Yep.

Gents, 

New, no reviews . . . 

Bumping

I also have to say that twice I've paid the stratospheric rate of $1,000 per hour (and twice again, $800).  I can definitely say that it was ultimately not worth it, but in each case for different reasons.  I can also definitely say that it was because I really wanted to taste what was on offer, and not to show off to anyone here or the provider themselves.

Hoping to not make that investment again.

On 2/12/2024 at 2:56 PM, 12is12 said:

A wise man wrote in the Washington Post: he paid that sum not bcs the sex was worth it, but bcs he wanted to feel like a man who can pay such sums. 

I can't find the article, but back in the '80s (cocaine fueled, of course) the sales figures for the Rolls Royce Silver Shadow II went up the year the base price exceeded $100,000.00. 

Look at Kia/Hyundai/Genesis (especially the Genesis - super premium interior, reasonable price).  The Koreans have come light years in the last decade in terms of NVH and reliability.  Still a bit weak on the dealership/service experience, but Genesis is looking to change that.

6 hours ago, Km411 said:

Come to think of it, I did own a Cadillac for a few years; loved the ride but was too self-conscious. Not much for flashy status symbols.

You are why Buicks and Oldsmobiles used to be popular.

1 hour ago, Simon Suraci said:

I work in my gym time around clients as much as possible. As long as clients are booking ahead it’s no problem. I don’t really care what time of day I go, as long as I go.

Sometimes a client contacts me for something last minute when I am already at the gym and I have to tell them I can meet in an hour, counting finishing my routine, showering, and getting back. They get ruffled that I’m not on call 24/7 and that I can’t teleport. Sorry guys, if you didn’t plan ahead and you only have the same hour that you’re contacting me to meet…that’s on you.

This.  It's almost never 'right away' and that should be completely understandable.  The problem is, in general (e.g., please don't pile on gentlemen, I'm generalizing), folks looking through the connection sites are getting riled up to want 'right away' so any perceived delay is frustrating.

I know a planned and relaxed encounter is almost always better than a frenzied 'right away' but I still sometimes want what I want right then.  Count it part of the instant gratification culture, only enhanced in our psyche by technology.  Anyone else here remember having to wait for a spell check program to run?

As to keeping to a strict routine, I'm a believer - for those who desire that precise schedule discipline, I support it.

As to not providing an excuse (per Poolboy) I generally agree, although again I've felt the pressure of needing to give an excuse, particularly if I know the person I'm flaking on well.  Also, there could be a bit of 'hey I'm at the gym to make myself pleasurable/presentable to you' in the response.

As always though, I applaud Mr. Suraci and Mr. Nicholas on their thoughtful positions.

Gents, I have met this provider before; I'm sorry I did not realize it from the photos. 

From both an attitude and personality perspective, and a body perspective, I can highly recommend him.  All other things you might be interested in I can't comment on, as my activities with providers are highly limited (and in the interest of privacy I won't comment here without the provider's express consent, which I don't currently have).  

I've re-established contact with him, but have not yet asked him why he made the profile change.  Note for those of you who contacted him before (e.g. when he was CaExFratDude), he now has a different telephone number.

He is very discrete.

18 hours ago, BuzzLiteQueer said:

@sbguy  that's definitely very disappointing.  The sense I had of him from his ad and IMs was that he was quite responsible.  

I have not (yet) met with him but our texting exchanges goes back over 1 year, and this (e.g., his reliability) was exactly my impression, so I too am very surprised.

On 1/31/2024 at 9:28 PM, Danny-Darko said:

That ass!!

17 minutes ago, Danny-Darko said:

That neck!!

So - I can't get him to respond to me, via text, whatsapp, or messenger.  

Thanks Mike - I had done a search . . . 

5 hours ago, BuzzLiteQueer said:

What's his look?  I imagine a classically handsome clean-cut gent 😀  Am I close?

Close but not in the gold.  The x pic is a seemingly quite large member.  The face pic is dark headed but still quite handsome.

No way to contact him except to ask for photos; when he opens the gallery, you can message him, which I did.

Anyone with any experience?

Gents, any info or experience?

Thank you!

Bump

On 1/15/2024 at 8:09 PM, rvwnsd said:

I've hired him several times and always had a great time. As soon as our schedules mesh, I will take a trip to Long Beach to see him.

Can't comment on his dom/bondage skills, though, as that's not what I hired him for.

Well, if you trust him rvwnsd, that's all I need to hear.  Thanks for the response!

Previous Thread (if I did this right!!):

Previous topic old enough to now be locked.  Bondage dom; anyone have any experience, recent or otherwise?

Thanks!

14 hours ago, azdr0710 said:

https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/146188-steelhead-in-san-diego-tgtbt/

https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/148747-“young-and-fun”-in-la-and-sd/

 

azdr you are amazing.  I don't understand why my search was fruitless.  I'm going to go with 'operator error'.  Thank you!

11 hours ago, Shoedog112 said:

Great to hear about your experience. The way you described your house sounds like the reputation of ZBT at my school. 🤣.  How did you handle 3 years living in? I could barely handle one year but was happy to find some roommates who were also ready to move out of the Fraternity house with me.  

Well, I remember reading an article in grad school and doing a forehead palm-slap with the realization I was way beyond the technical definition of an alcoholic for two of those three years (I'd be walking to the chapter room to study and the pledges would call down to me "Hey XXXX, Wild Turkey Shots!" and the studying would go right out the window.  My senior year I had to get serious and got to live in the 'nice' apartment building near campus; I was ready for the break from 40 roommates to 4.