novaman

Met him once in a non working capacity, big buff body, great skin, about 3 inches shorter than his RM profile but meh who cares. I love a lil short muscle guy, Has an awful tattoo on his back that takes up his entire back. It's of the mother Mary and baby Jesus and I'm sorry but I don't need to be staring at Mary and Jesus while I'm pounding a ho raw and finishing inside! I'm a good Christian! lol

Funguy I agree with your comment about clients simply disappearing when an escort quotes a fee the potential client feels is exorbitant. I always thank the escort for his time and explain that his fee is beyond my budget. At that point further communication between us usually ceases. However on a number of occasions the escorts has responded and asked me what I would be willing to pay. I do not usually respond to that question as I despise the very idea of bargaining with an escort over his fee. I certainly understand that there are guys here won't agree with me on this point but to each his own. Now, to be perfectly honest, there have been a very few occasions when, the escort rings all of my bell, I have responded by quoting what I am willing to offer. In every case the escort has replied positively and we have gotten together and had a great time. At my age I have come to believe that absolutely nothing is set in concrete.

I have found that the majority of RM escorts lie about their age, height, weight and cock size.

Oh, and yeah, Hoganxxx is kinda bi and still figuring things out. He is wonderful making out and I've gotten messages from clients telling me I was spot on.
 
I don't want to hijack my own thread and I know none of us here do this, but I wish the more pedestrian people out there would stop the eternal text messages to escorts. The constant texts asking endless questions and the idiotic "Whatcha doin?" texts are driving away people who want to be a great provider to paying customers.
 
At the same time, I have two local escorts that keep sending me "When can we play again?" messages and I'm going to have cut them off because they don't know I'm serious when I say "From now on, please let me reach out to you again for your services" .
 
Everyone needs to chill with texts.

You're correct, you can't use roses anymore in the headline, at least not the emoji rose. I have, however, seen guys use a "picture/photo" of a small rose in their Profile photo. I think someone on here stated that he has used an ATM emoji though, having been banned once before, that seems a bit risky. I think your "About Me" description is more impt than your headline. I usually add something like "I'm and older Gent interested in a quick hookup" and "can be helpful" or "I realize that your time is worth something" or something to that effect. I usually get several offers per day like "you gen?" or "how helpful are you?" When I first starting using Grindr a year ago I got banned for being too explicit in trying to get a "date." However, if you have a paid subscription and get banned you can use another email address and then use the "Restore Purchase" to get going again. I have had some pretty good luck with connecting with some hot guys, and I have been especially successful in larger cities like Chicago and Fort Lauderdale.

Well Worth the 20 Minutes...
 

cute kid / hot jock....but a bit too coy, secretive & vague regarding what he’s actually offering.....
until proven wrong, some thing(s) seem fishy & not fully legit.

"Not the guy in the pictures"
 
https://rentmasseur.com/AHeavenlyHand/reviews/
 
Do not make a $160-$180 mistake

Pictures are of this instagram guy: https://www.instagram.com/sao.nelson/?hl=en. He posted a video from Paris, France yesterday. It already has 3500 likes in 1 day. Most of his pictures have 5000+ likes.
 
RentMasseur Profile was created just a few days ago.
 
You can draw your own conclusions...

You seemed to behave fine to me. He sounds like a douche. Best that you dodged that bullet. No excuses

I put quotes to isolate the word on which I was commenting. The "administrative necessity" is fundamental law. Cities are creatures of the State in which they are located. It's the State that has the power to determine whether the city can incorporate, lay taxes, provide services, run schools, collect trash, police the streets and fight fires. In the U.S. Constitution there are two levels of governement -- the federal government and the states. Cities, towns, counties, etc., are all derivatives of their particular State.

Technically, "it's" is not correct. Kansas City, MO and Kansas City, KS are distinct entities. One is a subset of Missouri, the other of Kansas.
 
In any event, the reference is to the Chiefs, who are the team for Kansas City, MO. The President didn't get that.

You say that like it’s a bad thing. For some of us it’s “Yay! Another roid head!”

good to hear that things are turning positive for you (re: luck with providers!!)......thanks for submitting the daddysreview.....
 
https://rent.men/JackVidra
 
https://m4m-forum.org/threads/jack-vidra-flake.149345/
https://m4m-forum.org/threads/411-on-jack-vidra.128247/

As a provider who primarily offers what my clients call BFE, and successfully for a few years, I would hesitate to universalize the problem as a symptom of boyfriend experience. No one—including myself—knows what exactly BFE means, but it for sure is not killing the entire time talking as a means of avoiding intimacy (unless requested of course).

I have been in the exact same situation!
 
Ultimately, I realized that it was my job to get the ball rolling so to speak....or else end up with disappointment.
 
As I coach my employees, take ownership and stop complaining....

Wow, you need to take a deep breath next time and make a move to get things going. Lean over and give him a big hug and a kiss, and start exploring. He should have done better, but you let him sit there and talk. Unfortunate.

About 15 years ago in Washington, DC, I hired a guy and we really did hit it off. He told me I was the nicest client he had ever had, we connected so well, we ended up talking for like 90 minutes before anything happened and then for well over an hour after we finished, and this was for a two hour appointment. I had to tell him that I was not prepared to pay for all the time as it keep progressing and he told me he was happy with just getting paid for the two hours. I think the only reason he did not stay longer was because he had to get to work. I was leaving the next day and he offered to come get me and drive me to the airport, I did give him I think about $20 for the drive and time and I remember having to force him to accept it. Needless to say we kept in touch briefly but finally lost contact. I wish I could remember his name because I discovered he was really a wonderful person and now my fond memories of him will stick with me again for several more days.

he says his "administrative skills are unparalleled" if it "goes there"......is this some code in the sub/dom world?......or is he just looking for side work??!!.......
 

I feel the same sentiments after hiring and escorting.
its reinforced my desire to only be in a polyamorous or open relationship in the future. Essentially, with someone who has a similarly altered view of normal like me. My small advice would be to consider a relationship with someone whose normal is somewhat like yours.

I feel like hiring has made me feel lonelier than usual lately.
 
47 and beginning to wonder if I will ever be able to be in a normal relationship.
 
Curious how many people feel loss of interest in hiring and loss of interest in life in general.

I stopped hiring when I got married six years ago.
 
OK, I actually stopped a few years before that. I had always been in an open relationship, but after more than thirty years of hiring, I had become bored with the whole process of hiring, which became too business-like once the Internet took it over. It was more exciting when one didn't know what the escort was going to look like, and the only way to contact him was with a phone call. It was also easier when I was living in a major city and traveling often to other cities. Then there was the fact that I was still young enough when I started hiring at 35 to get it without paying for it, so I could convince myself that the escort, who often wasn't a lot younger than I was, could actually be turned on by me. And there was that libido thing (note to self: you forgot to rub on the testosterone gel this morning). Finally--and this sounds strange to most people--I discovered that I got more physical pleasure from playing tennis than from having sex.
 
So, now I am quietly retired in a resort town, travel very little, and have a couple thousand dollars per year to spend on other interests. My only contact with the escort world is through this site.

I'm practically at a dead stop in escort hiring:

Age has diminished my libido
Skyrocketing rates (somewhat understandable considering the cost of living in New York City)
The tattooing and piercing craze
The waning of work ethic within the pool of providers (condescending, arrogant, flippant, impatient, up-selling, stolen ad images, "ask me.")

An occasional massage is pretty much it for me anymore. Sure do miss Rounds, Stella's, and other NYC "job fair" venues.

I'm a bigger guy and am tall. I let all potential dates know my proportions and age. I have no problem with letting them know. Most of the time they say it's no problem. Occasionally I'll won't get a reply which is enough to tell me to move on.

I'm a bigger guy and am tall. I let all potential dates know my proportions and age. I have no problem with letting them know. Most of the time they say it's no problem. Occasionally I'll won't get a reply which is enough to tell me to move on.