JuniorNYC

LOL, it was a good review. I don't mind sharing.

LOL, it was a good review. I don't mind sharing.

LOL, it was a good review. I don't mind sharing.

Forgot to mention Junior, based in New York. He's huge, late 20s/early 30s, very nice, and he knows what he's doing.
 
https://rent.men/JuniorNYC

Chandler Midas and I have shared a couple of texts today. He provided his RM private pics pass code and—trust me—he has legitimate "model looks". Sculpted face, sexy bedroom eyes and full lips. Hope to meet up with him while he's in Southern California (for only 3 days) next week. If his rate is in line with the local "norm" I'd certainly take one for the team and report (also give a full review in the REVIEWS section here to help the DR members as well as maybe him). I'm submitting reviews today for JuniorNYC (which will be glowing because he's THAT good and one of the nicest men you'll ever meet) as well as two others that are long overdue. Life's been very hectic the second half of 2017 but I'm catching up...one inch at a time.

95% of the time I have a date, it all goes reasonably well and the agreements that we have made around payment and condom use get followed, 5% it does not. I understand all the feeling you talked about, when you work so hard to compromise with someone and make them feel like an experience is positive even when it seems like they're working against you every step of the way, and then they rip you off it kinda breaks my heart a little bit. I've been in the biz for a long time but I'm still kind of an optimist about humanity.
 
I usually write a text to them, knowing that I'm probably not going to ever see that money, and therefore just genuinely telling them how that experience made me feel and like speak my anger but also force them to see my humanity. When your job is so much about adjusting yourself to make other people feel good, being totally honest and straightforward can feel healing even if it doesn't return the cash. I wish you the best, sorry you had that experience.

What is the difference between a "real" straight guy and someone "straight-identified?" Are you saying that a "straight-identified" guy is a gay or bi guy who is misrepresenting himself as straight? In present use, when we say that some "identifies" as a certain gender or orientation, it means that they experience themselves as being of that gender or orientation. To me, someone who experiences himself as straight is "really" straight.

I see that we share a certain fondness for Latinos.

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All were, hand’s down, some of the best I’ve had in my life. Beautiful, sexy, kind, fun to be around, engaging conversation, laughs...the full package.

Pausing breaks the fantasy. I know it is not real but if you are fucking me into utter submission I am going to say I love you. Now if you say I love you after the session has ended then boundaries have been crossed. If I wanted a passionless fuck I would just use grinder or go to the bathhouse.

If you are fucking me and I say I love you, then dont say anything back, just kiss me. Dont break the fantasy.

No - but I've gotten hard with different doctors/physical therapists.

No - but I've gotten hard with different doctors/physical therapists.

No - but I've gotten hard with different doctors/physical therapists.

No - but I've gotten hard with different doctors/physical therapists.

No - but I've gotten hard with different doctors/physical therapists.

I have been jipped a few times. I never count money a client gives me I feel it's disrespectful to do in front of a client. As soon as they leave I will count it and if I was given a tip or even if I'm not I always say thank you.

Oh I am with you. Tattoos are so unsightly and distracting to a man's beauty. Add bizarre hairstyles (hair longer than shoulder length / man buns / fin-shaped dos with sides shaved off) and horrid facial hair (the ones that make one look homeless especially) to the list. Why do beautiful men choose to "lessen" their beauty this way?

As I look at escort ads, I notice now that most escorts under 30 years old have tattoos. And not just a single tat, but several all over - arms, legs, calves and chests. This trend has been around for several years and seems to be getting more common.
 
Does anyone here think that the tattoos make a guy look better? I don't. My opinion is that they cover and distract from a beautiful body - especially if they are large - like ones that cover an entire pectoral muscle - or an entire arm sleeve. But I'm betting that I'm in the minority.
 
As the tattoo trend seems to grow, it makes me think of the saying: "Nothing expresses your individuality like doing exactly what everyone else is doing."

I'll get over this but I am so incredibly saddened about what has just happened to me. A client, who had been texting me for the past 2-3 days to meet up finally decides he wants to meet up tonight. The ETA starts getting later and later, until finally he gets here a little past 11:30PM. Mind you, I'm usually in bed by midnight because I have a full time job which is my main priority. I was very nice and accommodating the entire time. Anyway, he shows up and seems like a nice guy and all. I won't get into details, but I will say the encounter was a little more difficult for me than usual. There were a number of things that turned me off when usually I find more things that turn me on about a client the more we talk and the more intimate we get. He ended up staying a little past the hour, and as he left he put the money on my dresser and said goodbye. This was one of those rare encounters for me where at the end of it, it felt like a lot of work. It wasn't as effortless as practically all my other encounters and I was a bit exhausted from it. A few minutes later, after he had already left, I counted the money and noticed he stiffed me by $60! This has never happened to me before, and I'm really upset by it.
 
I'm not really asking for advice (or maybe I am), probably more just venting here, but I will say two things; (1) I'm so fortunate that after doing this for a little over a year and half, this is the first time this has happened, and (2) I feel incredibly used - I feel like it might be a little over reactive of me to say I even feel like I've been raped in some way, but, yea, it kind of does feel like that. Part of me wants to find some sort of way to seek revenge but really what good would that do? I can't write a bad review or blast his number out in a giant escort newsletter anyway. I have to suck it up and move on. But now I'm wondering if I should change my approach with how I receive money in the future. I avoid having the encounter feel like a transaction, and usually discussions about my rate, etc. last a couple seconds - a simple confirmation - and the subject changes. I confirmed my rate with this guy a couple times via text. I didn't ask for the money upfront because, well, that just not how I do things. But now I'm left with the question, should I let this encounter change my protocol, or should I just suck it up, learn how to screen these guys out and continue with what seems to have been working great up until this point?
 
Luckily the night before I had an amazing encounter with a client, and we connected really well - plus he tipped me generously. Anyway, I don't know what I'm really asking, but if you've gone this far, thanks for reading and sorry for babbling on. If anyone has any advice or a joke to lighten up a bad experience, thank you in advance. I guess the way I've been receiving cash (asking at the end, and not the beginning) does put me at risk for this to happen, and perhaps it was just my time. It also wasn't THAT much money... It still sucks though! Alright, well this has already been helpful and it's way past my bedtime. Goodnight!

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There are better options out there. The bathhouses in NYC are abysmal, but there are a number of low key sex clubs/sex parties where you're more likely to get more action. Try this site:
http://groupsexinthecity.com/

That was a cobweb, not a hymen.
 
Kevin Slater

Yes, but it's never a discussion point. Most often than not you'll recognize the guy from escort sites but that's never how you meet them, so there's no reason to really bring it up. If it does come up, it's very fleeting and not really something you repeatedly have a conversation about if you meet up again.
 
When a client asks me if I know any other escorts who they can hire with me, I will never reach out to escorts I've met outside of the business. I need to keep the two separate. I'd much prefer an escort I've never met so I usually ask the client to choose someone they like. There's only been one instance where I've met another escort through a client and had sex with him again after.

There are better options out there. The bathhouses in NYC are abysmal, but there are a number of low key sex clubs/sex parties where you're more likely to get more action. Try this site:
http://groupsexinthecity.com/