JuniorNYC

Hey guys. Sorry to everyone who I might have ghosted in the past year or so. I have been focusing on my professional life and decided to take a long break. Finishing up some projects at the moment and focusing on some personal things, but I may be back sometime in the next couple months. I will let you all know when that day comes. On a side note, I'm very overwhelmed with gratitude reading all these incredibly nice things being shared about me. It's really making me miss the biz - I've had so many wonderful encounters. 'Til next time... XOXO, Junior

OMG! He's the nicest guy and so freakin' hot! I'm still on cloud 9 after last night! Jesus Christ!!! His boyfriend (DutchPR) is just as hot, too! WOW! HUUUGE uncut cocks too! This isn't a review, BTW as I didn't hire them, but Jesus FUCKING Christ!

He did for me!

Welcome @JakeParezi! Nice to see a friend on here! I have known Jake for nearly 10 years now. He was one of the first guys I made friends with after moving to New York from California. I can vouch for him by saying he's an all-around great guy!

Hmmm - never tried Levitra before!

Just curious - any experiences or suggestions? I’m heading over this weekend for the first time even though I live in NYC. My friend who doesn’t want to put up an online profile wants to go to mingle with guys. Any etiquette advice for an escort who is visiting? Asking for a friend (as ridiculous and cliche as this sounds, it’s the truth - LOL).

I've tried both. Viagra makes me rock hard no matter what - it's more effective at getting my dick hard- don't need any mental stimuli, it just gets hard. Cialis makes me... "hungry" and is definitely more of a mental stimuli. It makes me a little bit hornier, but more than anything it makes me yearn for sex. It almost has an ecstasy-type effect for me. I will sometimes take a quarter of a pill and feel the mental effects for the next couple of days - checking Grindr/Scruff more often, touching my dick through my pants more, etc. I prefer Cialis because of this.

Awww, shucks! Thanks fellas! This forum is the best XXXO Jr

LOL, it was a good review. I don't mind sharing.

No - but I've gotten hard with different doctors/physical therapists.

He's a very close friend of mine! Great guy and incredibly professional. He's on the short side, but don't let his size fool you. He's super smart, confident and knows his stuff! He just started escorting now, too.

Very nice guy and even sexier in person. His English is pretty limited but that just makes him that much more charming! <3

There are better options out there. The bathhouses in NYC are abysmal, but there are a number of low key sex clubs/sex parties where you're more likely to get more action. Try this site: http://groupsexinthecity.com/

@OliverSaks - Was your name inspired from the author, who wrote one of my favorite books? “Music can lift us out of depression or move us to tears - it is a remedy, a tonic, orange juice for the ear. But for many of my neurological patients, music is even more - it can provide access, even when no medication can, to movement, to speech, to life. For them, music is not a luxury, but a necessity.” ― Oliver Sacks, Musicophilia

LOL - thanks. I sent him a couple text messages, and it's been about 2 hours now with not response. You are right about it evening out - but I still feel shitty that someone would do that. <3 That brought a big smile to my face. Meh - shit happens. Too many amazing encounters to be grateful for. I think I'm officially over it and officially going to sleep! Thanks!

I'll get over this but I am so incredibly saddened about what has just happened to me. A client, who had been texting me for the past 2-3 days to meet up finally decides he wants to meet up tonight. The ETA starts getting later and later, until finally he gets here a little past 11:30PM. Mind you, I'm usually in bed by midnight because I have a full time job which is my main priority. I was very nice and accommodating the entire time. Anyway, he shows up and seems like a nice guy and all. I won't get into details, but I will say the encounter was a little more difficult for me than usual. There were a number of things that turned me off when usually I find more things that turn me on about a client the more we talk and the more intimate we get. He ended up staying a little past the hour, and as he left he put the money on my dresser and said goodbye. This was one of those rare encounters for me where at the end of it, it felt like a lot of work. It wasn't as effortless as practically all my other encounters and I was a bit exhausted from it. A few minutes later, after he had already left, I counted the money and noticed he stiffed me by $60! This has never happened to me before, and I'm really upset by it. I'm not really asking for advice (or maybe I am), probably more just venting here, but I will say two things; (1) I'm so fortunate that after doing this for a little over a year and half, this is the first time this has happened, and (2) I feel incredibly used - I feel like it might be a little over reactive of me to say I even feel like I've been raped in some way, but, yea, it kind of does feel like that. Part of me wants to find some sort of way to seek revenge but really what good would that do? I can't write a bad review or blast his number out in a giant escort newsletter anyway. I have to suck it up and move on. But now I'm wondering if I should change my approach with how I receive money in the future. I avoid having the encounter feel like a transaction, and usually discussions about my rate, etc. last a couple seconds - a simple confirmation - and the subject changes. I confirmed my rate with this guy a couple times via text. I didn't ask for the money upfront because, well, that just not how I do things. But now I'm left with the question, should I let this encounter change my protocol, or should I just suck it up, learn how to screen these guys out and continue with what seems to have been working great up until this point? Luckily the night before I had an amazing encounter with a client, and we connected really well - plus he tipped me generously. Anyway, I don't know what I'm really asking, but if you've gone this far, thanks for reading and sorry for babbling on. If anyone has any advice or a joke to lighten up a bad experience, thank you in advance. I guess the way I've been receiving cash (asking at the end, and not the beginning) does put me at risk for this to happen, and perhaps it was just my time. It also wasn't THAT much money... It still sucks though! Alright, well this has already been helpful and it's way past my bedtime. Goodnight!

Yes, but it's never a discussion point. Most often than not you'll recognize the guy from escort sites but that's never how you meet them, so there's no reason to really bring it up. If it does come up, it's very fleeting and not really something you repeatedly have a conversation about if you meet up again. When a client asks me if I know any other escorts who they can hire with me, I will never reach out to escorts I've met outside of the business. I need to keep the two separate. I'd much prefer an escort I've never met so I usually ask the client to choose someone they like. There's only been one instance where I've met another escort through a client and had sex with him again after.

I'm not into Opera much. If it was the NY Philharmonic, though...

I'm one of those people who can't get into Game of Thrones. But I thought you all would appreciate a cute text exchange with a friend a while back when I wasn't familiar with the "GoT" acronym: Me: Plans later? Friend: GoT party with friends Me: Was the capital T intentional? Friend: Game of Thrones – capitalized for dorky reasons, not meth head ones. Me: OMG! That’s adorable, and quite a relief!

Hmmm... I get what you're saying. A client has never said it to me, so it's hard to say what I would do. I think my key point is that before shutting it down and making a client feel shamed for using it, having an honest discussion about it would be a good approach. The discussion my lead to it being unacceptable, but at least have the discussion to explore why it was said and what it really means within the context of the service that is being provided, as well as emotional expectations and limitations. As long as, like you said, the client doesn't substitute real life with fantasy, I think it's an acceptable fantasy to allow a client to explore as long as there's clear understanding that it is in fact just that - a fantasy. I think the response should not be fear driven (e.g., "woah, you can't say that to me") and more honest and empathy driven (e.g., "what you said made me a little uncomfortable, but maybe we can talk about it...").

I had a regular fuck buddy where the sex was really good. We were about to set up a time to meet up and he asked me, "are you into anything kinky? wanna try something new?" I was pretty vanilla at the time, and I told him I'd get back to him. I thought about different fantasies, role playing, etc. that might turn me on. I ended up coming up with one thing that seemed incredibly forbidden, totally taboo... even frightening. I got back to him the next day and I said, "when I'm fucking you... and I'm getting close to cumming... I want to kiss you hard and say 'I love you' and when we're done know it was just a term used in the heat of the moment - and after don't freak out or be awkward about it - and know I'm definitely not looking for a relationship, but I kind of think it would be nice to say as I haven't said it in a long time." He was open to it. (He also told me a fantasy he had which we tried one time that I'll save for a different post .) Well, we did it - I did it... and afterwards it was totally fine. It was nice to say, and it made me cum my brains out because it made the experience much more intense. We stayed fuck buddies for a while after, with the sex eventually fizzling out - never going back to using that word except for that one time, and I had no real desire to use it again on him after that. If part of the fantasy is saying it - it should be made clear beforehand that using the word is just that - a fantasy. I have yet to have a discussion about this with a client saying this to me, but should it come up (before or after being used), my approach would be that of flattery and empathy. I might choose to play down any discomfort he may have after the fact and follow it with an honest discussion of whether that word is something that we both would feel comfortable being used, the extent of that comfort and drawing clear boundaries. Sometimes we need to feel loved - other times we need to give love. Someone once told me, "sometimes the best gift you can give someone is to accept their gift." Roll with it, but like I said, have an honest discussion about it - try not to dismiss it or make it seem wrong or bad.