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Wolfer got a reaction from + Lucky in Barcelona - Sauna Thermas - It only got better!
That's odd hours. From personal experience the sauna Thermas is busiest on Saturday between 4pm and 7pm. After 7pm both clients and escorts start leaving fast. Sunday is usually calmer. Friday evening from 4pm till 7pm is okay too. I've never been during the week. But afternoons are quiet.
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Wolfer got a reaction from sydneyboy in Arab escorts
Is the latter. It's not particularly Arab men but specifically dark(er) features that I find very attractive.
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Wolfer got a reaction from Simon Suraci in What do you pay for extras ?
That's exactly my point of view (even though I'm a client). Interestingly both Jamie and I are from across the pond (I'm from Europe, he is from the UK). It really does seem to be a difference in (tipping) culture.
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Wolfer got a reaction from + robear in What do you pay for extras ?
@Simon Suraci "When your masseur goes down on you or sits on your cock, recognize that he’s going way beyond the call of duty. He’s leaving money on the table by not discussing rates beforehand, and you can certainly take advantage of him that way. I wouldn’t expect the masseur to repeat that same level of service if you’re not tipping anything significant to thank him. Then again, it’s up to every masseur to operate his business as he sees fit." (sorry I have to quote it this way, the editor is messing up).
I disagree, this to me comes across as manipulative... As a client I have a set budget. I think many of the providers earn way more than I do, it's why I hate upsells and also why I talk upfront about all of my expectations (in detail, which is perfectly legal where I hire). I would be very upset if the masseur, on his own accord, escalated things without prior agreement and then demand extra payment afterwards (or give me worse service the second time because I didn't tip). I would actually feel taken advantage of as a client if a masseur were to do that to me. They hold the power because they know clients think with their dicks and it's very hard to say no in the heat of the moment. I also think that's one reason upsells often happen halfway into the session instead of upfront.
But I have this thought in general in life: don't do things for other people in the hopes they will give you something back. Inevitably this will lead to resentment and disappointment. Holding someone accountable for not returning a gesture or gift you yourself (I'm talking broadly here, not specifically about providers) chose to give unprompted doesn't sit well with me.
I have to put this into context that where I live there is no tipping custom whatsoever. Waiters don't get tipped, hotel staff don't get tipped etc. Though the tourist industry staff do know how to spot Americans and will suddenly start angling for tips hahaha.
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Wolfer reacted to Jamie21 in What do you pay for extras ?
I think if you asked for services and the masseur goes further (and you accept it) then there’s no obligation on you as the client to pay more. You might give a tip but shouldn’t feel that just because the masseur voluntarily offered extra that you should pay up.
If I go further than what my client initially agreed (and I’d be very careful to only do that if I’m sure he’s comfortable with it because people do sometimes want more once the massage has started) then it’s up to me. If a client specifically wants to fuck me or me fuck them as part of the session and it’s agreed beforehand then yes I’ll charge extra but that’s different to me volunteering extra after the session started.
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Wolfer got a reaction from Rand in What are your red flags?
To be fair, there are a lot of providers who will check all boxes to show up in searches while not actually providing that particular service. One provider recently came to this board complaining clients were asking him to top because he had vers/bottom on his profile (and he was a self-described only bottom). I've learned to always, always, ALWAYS double check through text whatever info is given in the ad and have been surprised how often what is mentioned in the ad does not line up with what they are actually offering.
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Wolfer got a reaction from + Lucky in Heading back to Brazil after my Vienna trip is now concluded
How was your trip in January?
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Wolfer got a reaction from tony in Barcelona recommendation + link to one possibility
I can heartily recommend Mateo:
https://rent.men/Mateo_Wolfxxl
He's very well hung, uncut, hairy chested and muscular (as for tall, it depends on what your reference is. He's 6'). Speaks English fluently and is a very good guy. I've seen him about 4 times now and I've been very satisfied every time.
Keep us updated! I'd love to know who you end up hiring and what your experience is.
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Wolfer got a reaction from pubic_assistance in BEWARE PHONES IN MASSAGE ROOM
This, at least, is untrue. Onlyfans implemented a very thorough and rigorous consent form policy to prohibit exactly this. Everyone in an Onlyfans video has to provide a copy of their ID, a photo and a signed consent form (I think even detailing which specific video they're giving consent for). The only exception to this is if the person in the video is already registered as a creator with Onlyfans with an account of their own.
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Wolfer got a reaction from thomas in Arab escorts
Is the latter. It's not particularly Arab men but specifically dark(er) features that I find very attractive.
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Wolfer got a reaction from Viceroy10 in BEWARE PHONES IN MASSAGE ROOM
This, at least, is untrue. Onlyfans implemented a very thorough and rigorous consent form policy to prohibit exactly this. Everyone in an Onlyfans video has to provide a copy of their ID, a photo and a signed consent form (I think even detailing which specific video they're giving consent for). The only exception to this is if the person in the video is already registered as a creator with Onlyfans with an account of their own.
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Wolfer got a reaction from + bashful in Arab escorts
Is the latter. It's not particularly Arab men but specifically dark(er) features that I find very attractive.
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Wolfer got a reaction from + robear in BEWARE PHONES IN MASSAGE ROOM
This, at least, is untrue. Onlyfans implemented a very thorough and rigorous consent form policy to prohibit exactly this. Everyone in an Onlyfans video has to provide a copy of their ID, a photo and a signed consent form (I think even detailing which specific video they're giving consent for). The only exception to this is if the person in the video is already registered as a creator with Onlyfans with an account of their own.
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Wolfer got a reaction from rvwnsd in BEWARE PHONES IN MASSAGE ROOM
This, at least, is untrue. Onlyfans implemented a very thorough and rigorous consent form policy to prohibit exactly this. Everyone in an Onlyfans video has to provide a copy of their ID, a photo and a signed consent form (I think even detailing which specific video they're giving consent for). The only exception to this is if the person in the video is already registered as a creator with Onlyfans with an account of their own.
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Wolfer got a reaction from dcguy20 in BEWARE PHONES IN MASSAGE ROOM
This, at least, is untrue. Onlyfans implemented a very thorough and rigorous consent form policy to prohibit exactly this. Everyone in an Onlyfans video has to provide a copy of their ID, a photo and a signed consent form (I think even detailing which specific video they're giving consent for). The only exception to this is if the person in the video is already registered as a creator with Onlyfans with an account of their own.
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Wolfer got a reaction from + Drew Collins in BEWARE PHONES IN MASSAGE ROOM
This, at least, is untrue. Onlyfans implemented a very thorough and rigorous consent form policy to prohibit exactly this. Everyone in an Onlyfans video has to provide a copy of their ID, a photo and a signed consent form (I think even detailing which specific video they're giving consent for). The only exception to this is if the person in the video is already registered as a creator with Onlyfans with an account of their own.
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Wolfer got a reaction from Tactile Daddy in BEWARE PHONES IN MASSAGE ROOM
This, at least, is untrue. Onlyfans implemented a very thorough and rigorous consent form policy to prohibit exactly this. Everyone in an Onlyfans video has to provide a copy of their ID, a photo and a signed consent form (I think even detailing which specific video they're giving consent for). The only exception to this is if the person in the video is already registered as a creator with Onlyfans with an account of their own.
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Wolfer got a reaction from ChillKev in Any times where masseur went kinda nuts ?
I thought this was common knowledge??
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Wolfer got a reaction from Archangel in What are your red flags?
To be fair, there are a lot of providers who will check all boxes to show up in searches while not actually providing that particular service. One provider recently came to this board complaining clients were asking him to top because he had vers/bottom on his profile (and he was a self-described only bottom). I've learned to always, always, ALWAYS double check through text whatever info is given in the ad and have been surprised how often what is mentioned in the ad does not line up with what they are actually offering.
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Wolfer reacted to MuscleDaddyRWC in $300 versus $150/$200…
Absolutely!
Paying for sex with cash is prostitution.
Paying for sex with food and wine is called a date.
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Wolfer got a reaction from MikeBiDude in What are your red flags?
To be fair, there are a lot of providers who will check all boxes to show up in searches while not actually providing that particular service. One provider recently came to this board complaining clients were asking him to top because he had vers/bottom on his profile (and he was a self-described only bottom). I've learned to always, always, ALWAYS double check through text whatever info is given in the ad and have been surprised how often what is mentioned in the ad does not line up with what they are actually offering.
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Wolfer got a reaction from Greg_blond in Sexcation Destinations
There's currently 2 but I've only been to one. It's Sauna Macho and I quite enjoy it. They used the lockdown to do renovations.
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Wolfer got a reaction from Alfstoria in Reverse image search for a Barcelona boy
Google has limited its reverse image search cause of privacy concerns. Yandex.com works better. But if he hasn't posted these pictures somewhere else, you won't get any matches
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Wolfer got a reaction from craigville beach in Arab escorts
Is the latter. It's not particularly Arab men but specifically dark(er) features that I find very attractive.
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Wolfer got a reaction from JUWS in Arab escorts
Is the latter. It's not particularly Arab men but specifically dark(er) features that I find very attractive.