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Not all clients hire simply because they're horny and need to unload. The first holidays after my divorce, I enquired with a regular (at the time) if we could have a session around Christmas. I felt lonely and did not want to be with the little family I had because it would remind me of the divorce. 

Not all clients hire simply because they're horny and need to unload. The first holidays after my divorce, I enquired with a regular (at the time) if we could have a session around Christmas. I felt lonely and did not want to be with the little family I had because it would remind me of the divorce. 

Not all clients hire simply because they're horny and need to unload. The first holidays after my divorce, I enquired with a regular (at the time) if we could have a session around Christmas. I felt lonely and did not want to be with the little family I had because it would remind me of the divorce. 

I hired Wagner Vittoria when I was in Rome for a few days years ago. Google him, he's very cute. The experience was a very mixed bag. Very friendly but worked me out the door in about 30 minutes, was glued to his phone texting when we weren't actively engaged in sex. 

You’re doing it wrong.

I think on Rentmen you can filter on dick size. Dick size is a required entry on an escort's profile, so everyone will have it filled out. 
You can put a filter for top and then for the dick size you want. 

He stood me up.
We agreed to meet at a specific time. I was even a sending him an Uber, but when it became late, I texted him saying he needed to come. He replied with a single word, 'tomorrow?' I said no, that we had to meet tonight.
Then he started texting me, "Oh I want to see you...but I need your photo first.....I deserve to see the man I'm meeting..."
He kept repeating this over and over again, as if he were drunk or high, until I told him to stop and that I thought we shouldn't meet. He eagerly texted me back, 'OK.'
JUDGMENT: Unprofessional little brat.

At first I was happy but then I saw he only tops 😔
While I am vers, his dick is not (yet) within my capabilities 

There's currently 2 but I've only been to one. It's Sauna Macho and I quite enjoy it. They used the lockdown to do renovations.

Mechanical, disengaged, not that good-looking, expensive, short-changed me on time.
 
Plenty of much better options in London.

I found it again. It's sexworkersonly on Reddit.

Recently visited NYC for a bit and went to a handful of different spas and tried different masseurs and wanted to share my experiences with folks. Want to note I had extras and left happy after each encounter, but quality of the experience significantly varied.

27 Men Spa

Overall, I think this was my favorite place. It’s a very clean space that has the right ambiance. It feels the most relaxing out of the three that I’ve been to in nyc. 

Max: massage was decent, and extras were nice. Didn’t ask for more tip, which made me inclined to tip him well at the end (I did 60% tip). Definitely more on the sensual side of massages, but didn’t rush into it which I appreciated. Red Bull can.

Sebastian: gave a really strong massage and incorporated good sensual elements all throughout. Favorite extra out of all the masseurs I’ve tried from nyc spas, and he was kind about it. Didn’t ask for more tips, but at the end he used a translator to say that he hoped for a generous tip (80% tip).

Chelsea Men’s Spa

I’m quite disappointed in the service I’ve gotten here. I don’t think it’s worth the money and the massages were more like light touches than actual massages. Table shower facilities were clean, and the massage rooms were clean, but preferred 27 Men’s Spa’s facilities much more.

Kevin: Did the table shower and massage and 2 mins into the table shower he immediately started doing some sensual elements, which I prefer a build-up rather than going straight into it. Scrubbed my back and then I flipped over and he used regular soap. Asked me to stand up and proceeded with some sensual elements. Went back to the massage room and proceeded with a mild massage. He spent the last 10 mins just smacking my foot repetitively which was odd. Wasn’t a fan to be honest, also was rather aggressive about asking for tips (asked for 120% tip for extras). Not my favorite.

Daniel: better than Kevin and also had a similar flow with the table shower and massage, but had a much lighter massage. It felt like he was just floating with his fingers and also just seem so disinvested. Was a very cold experience, not a fan either. 

HUSH

Facilities were the worst compared to the other two. Dark, grungy, and you can hear the staff talking through the walls which made it difficult to fully be immersed. They also used a YouTube video with ads for the background music, which was distracting to have the masseur skip ads every time the video finished. Walls were also quite thin so I was able to hear Kpop from the next-door neighbors.

Omar: kind and polite, and was the only masseur to ask me where my problem areas were. Massage was good, and added some sensual elements towards the end. Politely asked if I was interested in extras without asking for more tips, which I appreciated.

Feel free to DM me for more details if folks are interested, happy to share, or if folks want to exchange stories too I'm happy to do so

good question re; types of guys.
From my recent visits - most of the working men are guy next door types, depending on your country of residence Most were very fit and lightly muscled with a few twinks and a few I’d consider bearish.  It was not overrun with twinks as some posts here indicate.  I can see where some older guys may perceive “twink” just because as a whole, it’s a younger group of men working - I didn’t see it that way tho.  There were no steroid bodybuilders or huge muscle guys. Thermas did have some bodybuilders around before the pandemic, I haven’t seen them there since.  The majority of the working guys are Brazilian & same as you’d find at Lagoa - a few have actually worked at Lagoa which is not surprising.  Age range is 20 -35 with the majority in the middle. 

In BCN, there seems to be some cross-over between sauna guys and online guys, however very few.  The sauna guys can be taken off-site for 100euros, but that’s not for a full hour - more like 40 minutes. Standard rate for online guys is 150/per hour - if they think you are American/Canadian/Australian the quote is frequently higher. Research all the online sites in Spain (Hungz, Telechapero, Rentmen) & when making contact do not tell them you found them on RM - that’s almost always a much higher rate because it’s the go to site for Americans.  Also helps if you contact people from a non-US identifiable phone number if possible. And use google translate to Spanish even tho that is obvious sometimes.  If an online guy quotes more than 150hour, find someone else because there are plenty.  
A provider friend in BCN recently gave me a stern warning to be very careful with online guys because of frequent & heavy drug use (crystal meth) it’s very common and leads to other things like petty theft, performance issues, etc. There is some drug use in the sauna too, but mostly just smoking weed. 

In BCN, the sauna is the best choice for most as you can see exactly what you’re getting in a controlled safe environment with lots of options.  I like to stay very close to Thermas so I can come & go as it’s open 24/7.  They don’t allow re-entry, so that’s an extra cost but minimal for what you get. Lots of good restaurant options within a block or two makes it all very easy, safe & civilized. 
PM me if you need hotel recommendations.  Enjoy !

I've learned it's best to include the statement they're out of my budget (without opening up any discussion about fee reduction). I've noticed if I just said thank you and moved on, some would be upset and keep pushing why I wasn't hiring them. I would then say they're out of my budget. Now I simply thank them for the info, mention they're outside my budget and wish them a good day/evening and then move on

I visited Villa Gianni yesterday.  First time customers should be prepared for no signage, and to know to proceed to the basement apartment via the outdoor staircase.
There were two skinny Brazilian men when I went.  I paid $160 pounds for the hour with one of them, and asked for massage and sex.  It was a mediocre experience, but I was glad to patronize the establishment to keep it in business.  I would have gone back a second time if the prices were closer to $100 pounds, but at $160 pounds it wasn't too bad if you're in London.
For comparison in London, I found a European man on RentMassuer who came to my hotel room and gave a better massage and more sensual experience for the same $160 pounds, and his session was 90 minutes instead of 60, and he wanted to be fucked bareback so I complied.  But others I found on RenMen wanted $600 pounds for a 2 hour session, so I passed on them because that is out of my price range.

100% tip is for absolutely exceptional level of service, not just "more than therapeutic". We all know why we go to these gay spas (and they know why we go them), if there wouldn't be an "extra service", it'd be odd. 
I agree with the above poster that 40 dollars is a good tip. I only tipped 100% one time and the masseur was so taken aback that I think it doesn't happen often. But then his service has been exceptional. 

100% tip is for absolutely exceptional level of service, not just "more than therapeutic". We all know why we go to these gay spas (and they know why we go them), if there wouldn't be an "extra service", it'd be odd. 
I agree with the above poster that 40 dollars is a good tip. I only tipped 100% one time and the masseur was so taken aback that I think it doesn't happen often. But then his service has been exceptional. 

100% tip is for absolutely exceptional level of service, not just "more than therapeutic". We all know why we go to these gay spas (and they know why we go them), if there wouldn't be an "extra service", it'd be odd. 
I agree with the above poster that 40 dollars is a good tip. I only tipped 100% one time and the masseur was so taken aback that I think it doesn't happen often. But then his service has been exceptional. 

100% tip is for absolutely exceptional level of service, not just "more than therapeutic". We all know why we go to these gay spas (and they know why we go them), if there wouldn't be an "extra service", it'd be odd. 
I agree with the above poster that 40 dollars is a good tip. I only tipped 100% one time and the masseur was so taken aback that I think it doesn't happen often. But then his service has been exceptional. 

100% tip is for absolutely exceptional level of service, not just "more than therapeutic". We all know why we go to these gay spas (and they know why we go them), if there wouldn't be an "extra service", it'd be odd. 
I agree with the above poster that 40 dollars is a good tip. I only tipped 100% one time and the masseur was so taken aback that I think it doesn't happen often. But then his service has been exceptional. 

Another red flag is last minute plan changes. Any time an escort has asked me (quite last minute) to push back the start time (sometimes even by an hour!) or, more recently, told me he'd be hosting at a completely different address at the other side of the city than the one initially confirmed, it's never been a good session. 
The last time this happened I just canceled the session, even though I did not have other plans and would have been able to accommodate the difference. But my mood had been so soured that I wouldn't have been able to enjoy it anyway. To top it off the provider got annoyed with me for not agreeing to the (very last minute) change in plans without even apologizing to me. 

I’ve been on a Spanish tour and finally got to Thermas. It is indeed €21 entry. €50 for fun is rare now lol, seems to be what you get from your provider. I went on a late Friday afternoon and it was a decent amount of providers but most of them were latin Twinkish. A few muscle guys around but they look annoyed. I found a muscle Brazilian guy with a nice personality and we had fun. I also haaaate that they serve food in Thermas, I don’t get the point. 
 

At first I was happy but then I saw he only tops 😔
While I am vers, his dick is not (yet) within my capabilities 

I can't help you with your questions, I'm sorry. But I did want to say you have very good taste in men!
As for answers to your questions, I'm curious to know too. 

There are far more cute twink escorts advertising on RM in Istanbul than there are in either Montreal or Fort Lauderdale.  Charming twinks, nicely developing twunks, then slim muscular soccer players.  Wow!  Talk about Turkish delights!