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    Wolfer got a reaction from andrewlawrence in *Barcelona - Sauna Thermas - It only got better!   
    Here's my info on sauna Thermas:
     
    You pay the entree fee, get a key with a locker number and go change. Once you are changed you go down the stairs where the working boys will be waiting or wandering around, and on the bottom most level there's a pool and bar. Some providers will approach you, some won't. If you see someone you like just say "Hey" to them and they will most likely lead the conversation.
     
    Clearly state what you want to happen (suck their dick, have them suck you, get fucked, fuck them, kiss or not,...) and confirm these are things he offers or not (all providers have different limits and things they offer). The standard is 50 euro for one session, no matter what the activity (usually, with some exceptions noted later on), excluding the provider's ejaculation (if you want them to ejaculate, tell them as it's extra money, usually 50 euro extra). There are "strict" tops who sometimes propose to let you fuck them for double the money (so 100 instead of 50 euro for 1 session. I suggest to not do this as they are often not good at bottoming and to search for a true versatile or bottom provider).
     
    If kissing is important to you, ask them to demonstrate to you how they kiss during the conversation. It's forward, yes, but a good kisser will happily oblige and it can save you from disappointment as I've had providers give halfhearted pecks once the session started (when I didn't ask them to show me before). 
     
    A session lasts around 20 to 30 minutes (but you as the client should keep track. Most providers will make the session shorter if you don't). The rule of thumb is that it's 50 euro per 30 minutes. So if you were to engage a provider for one hour, it's expected you pay him 100 euro. But always confirm price and duration before starting the session. Some will (jokingly) ask for a tip beforehand, which I always politely decline. 
     
    Once you've agreed on everything, it's time to start the session. For this you have 2 options. There are free cabins on the first basement, they have a fixed bench with thin mattresses on them. Some clients find them uncomfortable, for me they work fine. I suggest using the cabins on the left of the stairs (when facing with your back to the stairs) as these have better lighting in them and there are larger cabins. Just ask the provider to get you a larger cabin and they will look for it. Most of the time the larger cabins are in use by providers who are on break (smoking and chatting). 
     
    You can also pay for a room. This is always by the hour and they come at various prices, depending on the size. All rooms have a full bed in them with linen and towels so the more expensive ones are simply larger. The comfort remains the same. The price list for the rooms is visible at the entry. 
     
    After you are done with the session some providers will take a shower with you, some won't. Then you both go the top floor (street level) where the lockers are. You then get the money from your locker. The provider will be waiting for you in the bathroom next to the entrance (you can't miss it, it will be very clear where it is) and you give them the money there. I don't know why that is the spot but it's been that spot for as long as I've gone there. 
     
    The providers don't mind it if you have your phone with you (I use it for Google translate).
     
    If you had a great time with a provider, I suggest you buy them a drink at the bar (if they're not otherwhise engaged with another client). I find it nice chatting to the guys and getting to know them.
     
    I totally understand one might be nervous going for the first time, but I've found that most everyone there (from the staff to the providers) are friendly and want to help you relax because happy, relaxed clients spend more money 😉
     
    Ideal times to go are any day between 4pm and 8pm. The busiest days (with the largest number of providers, but also the most clients) are (usually) Wednesday, Friday and Saturday, same time (4pm till 8pm). Outside these hours there will rarely be providers in the sauna. 
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    Wolfer got a reaction from Jacob_b in How to bring up more with your masseur.   
    Because I desire both an excellent quality massage and sex in the same session. Most escorts I've been with that offered massage were often just a rubdown.
    I broach the subject in my first contact with a masseur. Masseurs I've had contact with have been open (and willing) to discuss these things upfront (but then sexwork is completely legal where I work). 
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    Wolfer reacted to thatsjhonmanuel in *Barcelona - Sauna Thermas - It only got better!   
    Just don't visit during holidays or events, it's a hit or miss. I have not been here for a while but it seems some guys already left. 
    I went on the 23rd June, which Eve of San Joan so there is literally five providers there. Lol. But I end up with a new favorite guy named Mario says he's from Romania. Hot body and striking face. Like that man is working, lol. I enjoyed my time with him. 
    Funny thing on Wednesday there are more visitors that you get confused who are the providers unless they really offer it. I end up hooking up with two visitors from US.
    I tried coming in Thursday but I came in 6pm, Andrey from Colombia is already leaving. Hooked up with another Colombian named Alexandro who has a hot body but terrible didn't tell me he prefers to bottom. And Alejandro from DR which is okay. 
    So my 3 day stint is kinda disappointing except for new client favorite Mario.
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    Wolfer got a reaction from Jacob_b in Swallowing Yes/No   
    STIs that get passed on through oral actually get passed on because of the mucous membranes touching, not so much cum going past it. A deepthroat blowjob is enough to pass things on, regardless of cum being in the mix or not. 
    As for the topic of the thread. I love swallowing and I love having my cum swallowed. I have held off going back to a provider because they didn't swallow, even if it was a good session. Sometimes I really just want that experience and there are guys out there who love it. 
    I absolutely love it when the guy swallows my cum and then we make out sloppily. Gets me hard just typing it. 
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    Wolfer got a reaction from + Yellowrod in Swallowing Yes/No   
    STIs that get passed on through oral actually get passed on because of the mucous membranes touching, not so much cum going past it. A deepthroat blowjob is enough to pass things on, regardless of cum being in the mix or not. 
    As for the topic of the thread. I love swallowing and I love having my cum swallowed. I have held off going back to a provider because they didn't swallow, even if it was a good session. Sometimes I really just want that experience and there are guys out there who love it. 
    I absolutely love it when the guy swallows my cum and then we make out sloppily. Gets me hard just typing it. 
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    Wolfer got a reaction from + Just Sayin in Swallowing Yes/No   
    STIs that get passed on through oral actually get passed on because of the mucous membranes touching, not so much cum going past it. A deepthroat blowjob is enough to pass things on, regardless of cum being in the mix or not. 
    As for the topic of the thread. I love swallowing and I love having my cum swallowed. I have held off going back to a provider because they didn't swallow, even if it was a good session. Sometimes I really just want that experience and there are guys out there who love it. 
    I absolutely love it when the guy swallows my cum and then we make out sloppily. Gets me hard just typing it. 
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    Wolfer got a reaction from + Just Chuck in Swallowing Yes/No   
    I don't know if there's been actual studies done on this, but I've always been told by healthcare professionals that swallowing is actually safer than spitting since the cum stays in your mouth a lot less longer. Unless you immediately spit it out without even grabbing a napkin or running to a sink. 
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    Wolfer got a reaction from + Just Chuck in Swallowing Yes/No   
    STIs that get passed on through oral actually get passed on because of the mucous membranes touching, not so much cum going past it. A deepthroat blowjob is enough to pass things on, regardless of cum being in the mix or not. 
    As for the topic of the thread. I love swallowing and I love having my cum swallowed. I have held off going back to a provider because they didn't swallow, even if it was a good session. Sometimes I really just want that experience and there are guys out there who love it. 
    I absolutely love it when the guy swallows my cum and then we make out sloppily. Gets me hard just typing it. 
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    Wolfer reacted to maninsoma in Escort rates   
    The problem with inflation calculations is that the more expensive something is, the greater the overall added cost will be if the same percentage is applied.
    For example, say a client made $30 per hour working full time in 2000.  That would have meant an annual gross salary of $62,400.  At that time, typical escort rates were $150-$200/hour where I lived, and lower priced escorts were easily found on sites like Craigslist.  Just calculating the higher cost option, the difference between the escort's hourly rate and the client's hourly salary was $170.  There's been about 95% inflation since then, so assuming the client has the same job and his salary has only increased the rate of inflation.  That would mean his salary is currently a little more than $58/hour while the escort's is about $390.  That's a difference of $332.  Most people actually get raises more than typical inflation (whether due to changing jobs, getting a promotion, etc), so let's say the client makes three times as much as he did in 2000.  That's still only $90/hour, which makes the difference between the escort's hourly rate and the client's salary about $300.  Looking at the math in this way, it's easy to see how hiring has become more expensive for a middle class or working class person in terms of share of their disposable income.
    I didn't post the above to argue that escorts shouldn't be able to set their own prices but rather to explain why some clients' perspectives might be that, at current rates, many providers aren't "worth it" for them.  Cost isn't the principal reason I drastically reduced my hiring, but I'll admit that as rates rose and my experiences were generally diminished (probably somewhat due to me being less attractive as I aged but also, frankly, more providers entering the market simply to make a buck with seemingly no motivation to actually focus on the clients' experiences) I started feeling like most of my hires simply weren't "worth it."  Paying someone hundreds of dollars an hour should result in more enjoyment than one can have with one's own hand.
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    Wolfer got a reaction from Wings246 in Height Difference - A Turn On/Off   
    I love both. I'm 6' and I love it when a guy is a lot shorter than me or taller than me. Interestingly I don't meet a lot of men who are around my height, but I love those too. 
    I just love fucking men. 
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    Wolfer got a reaction from thomas in Height Difference - A Turn On/Off   
    I love both. I'm 6' and I love it when a guy is a lot shorter than me or taller than me. Interestingly I don't meet a lot of men who are around my height, but I love those too. 
    I just love fucking men. 
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    Wolfer got a reaction from White Daddy Top in Swallowing Yes/No   
    STIs that get passed on through oral actually get passed on because of the mucous membranes touching, not so much cum going past it. A deepthroat blowjob is enough to pass things on, regardless of cum being in the mix or not. 
    As for the topic of the thread. I love swallowing and I love having my cum swallowed. I have held off going back to a provider because they didn't swallow, even if it was a good session. Sometimes I really just want that experience and there are guys out there who love it. 
    I absolutely love it when the guy swallows my cum and then we make out sloppily. Gets me hard just typing it. 
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    Wolfer got a reaction from Nue2thegame in Swallowing Yes/No   
    I don't know if there's been actual studies done on this, but I've always been told by healthcare professionals that swallowing is actually safer than spitting since the cum stays in your mouth a lot less longer. Unless you immediately spit it out without even grabbing a napkin or running to a sink. 
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    Wolfer got a reaction from liubit in Height Difference - A Turn On/Off   
    I love both. I'm 6' and I love it when a guy is a lot shorter than me or taller than me. Interestingly I don't meet a lot of men who are around my height, but I love those too. 
    I just love fucking men. 
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    Wolfer got a reaction from liubit in Swallowing Yes/No   
    STIs that get passed on through oral actually get passed on because of the mucous membranes touching, not so much cum going past it. A deepthroat blowjob is enough to pass things on, regardless of cum being in the mix or not. 
    As for the topic of the thread. I love swallowing and I love having my cum swallowed. I have held off going back to a provider because they didn't swallow, even if it was a good session. Sometimes I really just want that experience and there are guys out there who love it. 
    I absolutely love it when the guy swallows my cum and then we make out sloppily. Gets me hard just typing it. 
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    Wolfer got a reaction from maninsoma in Swallowing Yes/No   
    STIs that get passed on through oral actually get passed on because of the mucous membranes touching, not so much cum going past it. A deepthroat blowjob is enough to pass things on, regardless of cum being in the mix or not. 
    As for the topic of the thread. I love swallowing and I love having my cum swallowed. I have held off going back to a provider because they didn't swallow, even if it was a good session. Sometimes I really just want that experience and there are guys out there who love it. 
    I absolutely love it when the guy swallows my cum and then we make out sloppily. Gets me hard just typing it. 
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    Wolfer got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in Swallowing Yes/No   
    STIs that get passed on through oral actually get passed on because of the mucous membranes touching, not so much cum going past it. A deepthroat blowjob is enough to pass things on, regardless of cum being in the mix or not. 
    As for the topic of the thread. I love swallowing and I love having my cum swallowed. I have held off going back to a provider because they didn't swallow, even if it was a good session. Sometimes I really just want that experience and there are guys out there who love it. 
    I absolutely love it when the guy swallows my cum and then we make out sloppily. Gets me hard just typing it. 
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    Wolfer got a reaction from Wings246 in Swallowing Yes/No   
    STIs that get passed on through oral actually get passed on because of the mucous membranes touching, not so much cum going past it. A deepthroat blowjob is enough to pass things on, regardless of cum being in the mix or not. 
    As for the topic of the thread. I love swallowing and I love having my cum swallowed. I have held off going back to a provider because they didn't swallow, even if it was a good session. Sometimes I really just want that experience and there are guys out there who love it. 
    I absolutely love it when the guy swallows my cum and then we make out sloppily. Gets me hard just typing it. 
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    Wolfer got a reaction from Becket in Swallowing Yes/No   
    STIs that get passed on through oral actually get passed on because of the mucous membranes touching, not so much cum going past it. A deepthroat blowjob is enough to pass things on, regardless of cum being in the mix or not. 
    As for the topic of the thread. I love swallowing and I love having my cum swallowed. I have held off going back to a provider because they didn't swallow, even if it was a good session. Sometimes I really just want that experience and there are guys out there who love it. 
    I absolutely love it when the guy swallows my cum and then we make out sloppily. Gets me hard just typing it. 
  20. Party
    Wolfer got a reaction from andrewlawrence in *Barcelona - Sauna Thermas - It only got better!   
    They absolutely can. I find that the physique of Zubin_PZ is the most represented whereas ThiagoBloom's physique is more rare.
    Guys at the sauna lean more towards lean and muscular, kind of like professional soccer players or swimmers, though there are certainly muscle guys too, they're just less represented. 
  21. Agree
    Wolfer got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in ​1 year independent, hit a wall with client retention & mark   
    As a customer or client I hate getting follow-up texts that are clearly a pre-defined script and have no personal touch whatsoever. A lot of coaches and body-workers are using this strategy on social media. You'll follow them and they'll send you a DM that's automated and generic. It makes me want to unfollow them instantly.
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    Wolfer got a reaction from + 7829V in ​1 year independent, hit a wall with client retention & mark   
    As a customer or client I hate getting follow-up texts that are clearly a pre-defined script and have no personal touch whatsoever. A lot of coaches and body-workers are using this strategy on social media. You'll follow them and they'll send you a DM that's automated and generic. It makes me want to unfollow them instantly.
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    Wolfer got a reaction from ACluelessGent in Age shaving? How much is too much and what's acceptable?   
    In the acting world, audition announcements often mention "playable age" as a requirement. Meaning, what age can the actor pass for, regardless of their actual chronological age.
    Decades ago I used to work on the weekends in a grocery store. A colleague there was a 23 year old girl who didn't look a day over 16.
    So for me the answer to the thread's question is that the provider can rightfully put the age on his profile that he can (realistically!!) pass for, not his actual age. We are paying for a fantasy, after all.
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    Wolfer got a reaction from Wings246 in ​1 year independent, hit a wall with client retention & mark   
    As a customer or client I hate getting follow-up texts that are clearly a pre-defined script and have no personal touch whatsoever. A lot of coaches and body-workers are using this strategy on social media. You'll follow them and they'll send you a DM that's automated and generic. It makes me want to unfollow them instantly.
  25. Agree
    Wolfer got a reaction from MassJ in ​1 year independent, hit a wall with client retention & mark   
    As a customer or client I hate getting follow-up texts that are clearly a pre-defined script and have no personal touch whatsoever. A lot of coaches and body-workers are using this strategy on social media. You'll follow them and they'll send you a DM that's automated and generic. It makes me want to unfollow them instantly.
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