spaman

I called for Peter at Renew 8th Ave last week and the lady told me he works Fri., Sat., and Mon., but who knows if that's true.

I called for Peter at Renew 8th Ave last week and the lady told me he works Fri., Sat., and Mon., but who knows if that's true.

I find this hard to believe.  Alvin is a very nice, respectful guy.

I agree with MarkNY with walls that go all the way to ceiling and doors, in addition a quiet room with an appropriate temperature.  The two worse things in my book: don't solicit or bargain for tips and absolutely don't cut the session short.  That drives my business elsewhere permanently. 

Avoid Energy Men at all cost. ❌

Agree Energy and Grandee are two of the worst choices in NYC.  In my experiences they are both dirty, short you on time, tips are solicited, and one handed (other hand texting) is more common than not.  Alvin consistently delivers a solid massage, is respectful and earns his tips.

Agree Energy and Grandee are two of the worst choices in NYC.  In my experiences they are both dirty, short you on time, tips are solicited, and one handed (other hand texting) is more common than not.  Alvin consistently delivers a solid massage, is respectful and earns his tips.

Agree Energy and Grandee are two of the worst choices in NYC.  In my experiences they are both dirty, short you on time, tips are solicited, and one handed (other hand texting) is more common than not.  Alvin consistently delivers a solid massage, is respectful and earns his tips.

ahhhhhhh, thanks.  Can't imagine paying that for anyone.

UGH is right! So sorry you had to have a horrible experience all around from thumb massage to the tip BS! Seems like so many of these places, and the "masseurs" are just never going to learn that word of mouth and this site have weight!   😡

Max at 27 Men Spa

Max at 27 Men Spa

Max at 27 Men Spa

I used Viagra a couple of times only: it made my erection very stiff but it also gave me a bad headache. I preferred Cialis as it has a more ‘natural’ effect on me. Neither affected my ability to ejaculate.
I use Vardenafil (Levitra) nowadays as my physician thinks it’s best for me, tho I find its duration to be much less than Cialis. I climax easily when and how I want. (It undoubtedly helps that I have sex with a young, attractive partner).
Some years ago, I found this too (using Cialis) on occasion. It seemed to occur when there were expectations about my ability to perform (I had a reputation at the gym as a top that could pound a bottom repeatedly and vigorously). The longer I topped a guy, the more I worried about ejaculating. I resolved the problem by deliberately relaxing and not concerning myself about the bottom’s pleasure or wants (oddly enough, this turned on some guys).
I know there are a number of factors (physical and psychological) that can affect the ability to ejaculate. Without speculating too much @spaman, is your weight appropriate, do you have a balanced healthy diet, moderate alcohol (and limited drug) usage? And are you having the sex you enjoy with a partner you find desirable?
 
If you function well otherwise, you may find it best to consult your physician on this particular aspect. 

Yeah, I have some trouble shooting. 
On Viagra, I can pound a muscle bottom all night,
but at some point I feel like I’m just a jackhammer 
ramming into a hole over, and over, and over again. 
Yet another reason I tend to avoid it. 

It takes me a long time to ejaculate and I often can't do it without manual stimulation.  I've used both viagra and cialis and while they cause hard erections, I find it nearly impossible to ejaculate when using either.  Does anyone else have this problem and if so is there anything that I can do to help?  Thanks

Tried Phil at Batman Spa last week based on feedback on this and Batman Spa and older masseurs thread.  I wouldn't say he's that much older, but not a twink - maybe early 30's.  Nice and gifted guy.  Decent massage at first, escalated quickly with upsell if that's what you're looking for.  An ok experience that actually lasted the full hour, glad I tried, won't repeat though.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I find him attractive. 

Tried Phil at Batman Spa last week based on feedback on this and Batman Spa and older masseurs thread.  I wouldn't say he's that much older, but not a twink - maybe early 30's.  Nice and gifted guy.  Decent massage at first, escalated quickly with upsell if that's what you're looking for.  An ok experience that actually lasted the full hour, glad I tried, won't repeat though.

I would have tipped more. Massage was $90 I tipped $60

I would have tipped more. Massage was $90 I tipped $60

Had a great massage at Times Sq Mens Spa with Latino (Harry? couldn't understand his name).  Unfortunately a 90 min massage ended in 75 min.  Killed the whole experience.  Why do guys do this?!?  They work hard for 75% of the time and ruin it by shorting the time.  As I was laying there I thought I had found a new regular but the time short made me feel ripped off.  Oh well, on with the search.

Had a great massage at Times Sq Mens Spa with Latino (Harry? couldn't understand his name).  Unfortunately a 90 min massage ended in 75 min.  Killed the whole experience.  Why do guys do this?!?  They work hard for 75% of the time and ruin it by shorting the time.  As I was laying there I thought I had found a new regular but the time short made me feel ripped off.  Oh well, on with the search.

I agree with MarkNY with walls that go all the way to ceiling and doors, in addition a quiet room with an appropriate temperature.  The two worse things in my book: don't solicit or bargain for tips and absolutely don't cut the session short.  That drives my business elsewhere permanently. 

I agree with MarkNY with walls that go all the way to ceiling and doors, in addition a quiet room with an appropriate temperature.  The two worse things in my book: don't solicit or bargain for tips and absolutely don't cut the session short.  That drives my business elsewhere permanently.