Steve yabsley

Variety has been my preference since the early days in the hobby. I haven't scheduled too many guys more than 5 times. When I first started, it often felt like the spark of the first meeting was rarely duplicated, that I was being taken for granted, or that any blah session would be ok with ole jawja, and thus began my exploration to scope out new talent.

+1

that said......I’m always optimistic that each session will be as good or better than the pervious and I can find a solid repeat guy.....

i have a box of the dried version in my pantry. i can't make up my mind if i should use rum or something else to rehydrate it.

rum, for sure! You can never go wrong using rum.....just be sure to use an “everyday” rum - maybe Gosling’s black seal or Cruzan. Don’t use the good rum for this, but don‘t use Bacardi white either!!

I like pie.....almost any flavour.....for my fav, maybe coconut cream or any berry pie. I often find pecan too sweet.

Pumpkin pie, apple pie, rhubarb.....all good! ?

And back to “no nut November“......I’ll pass (ha! I gave up on that on November 1 ?).

@BabyBoomer - thanks.

I'm chagrined at how simple that was.....chagrined but grateful.

Steve

Wow - anyone know if this guy has an escort contact site?

https://onlyfans.com/braxtonboydxxx

@marylander1940 - maybe a gallery posting idea?

We have only corresponded not met, but he's responsive and cute. Might be an option: https://rentmen.eu/AlexanderRF

wow - nice find! Thanks for the suggestion!

Wow. So glad I asked!

thanks guys!! As always, I appreciate the wisdom of the crowd. I’ll pass of this one........

What an unusual picture- especially for the time. I had not seen it before - thanks for sharing!

Anyone have any experience with this guy? Some scenes from bait bus and bull ryder.....

https://rent.men/Jake_Lyons

Bob, although a male Hannah sounds far sexier!

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What an interesting place - I would definitely go again!

as described- it’s convenient to the Zurich Haptbanhof - maybe less than 10 min walk. It is on the second floor - no or little street front signage, and you have to buzz to get in, but it all works easily.

inside, you get a locker key and towel when you get in. They have a bar with snacks and sandwiches, and coffee, etc. you can smoke at the bar, and a number of people were, but a little bit away from there you can’t smell any smoke.

The club is on 2 floors - with stairs in between. The level you enter has the lockers, the bar area, toilets, showers, sauna, and steam room. The upstairs has mostly private cabins, some with gloryholes, a sling, and a tanning bed (!??).

The clientele is very bimodal. I was there maybe between 2-4pm on a Monday afternoon. There was 40-50 guys there the whole time - and about 50% are 50+ in age, and the rest at probably under 30 and ‘working’. The working guys hang around at one side of the bar area near the steps. They are not shy about propositioning you, and speak some of a number of languages - they all had enough English for me.....if you head upstairs or into the steam room, someone will follow you, and ask if you want a massage or sex. There was a really great range of (really) hung and willing guys to pick from....and they all know the basic words - and often lead with ’hey - what do you like? I’m versatile’. That said, I didn’t find them pushy, and was able to decline without any problems. But it was a lot of fun (and ego boosting) to have such a range of guys ‘asking’ or suggesting, or propositioning.....

The going rate is 100 CHF, and you can pretty much get whatever you want for it. The guys were mostly Spanish and eastern European (Romanian), with a smattering of Asian and middle eastern. While I was there, they tended to be on the thin side (which I like) but there were a few who were more jock to guy next door.

I met 2 cute blond Romanians (and I would happily do so again.....). I didn’t know it at the time but they room together (presumably are traveling together) and offered me a ‘trio’ but having just paid each of them singly, I declined.....had I only known!

And, as you might expect in Switzerland, very clean, and well maintained and well run.

On my list to go back for sure!

No.... 5 to close is often dead or empty. Outside the US saunas are usually daytime facilities. In Amsterdam they had a Day Sauna and a Night Sauna, but that was the only nnight sauna then. 10am to 5pm is the peak times.

 

Paragonya especially is very unpredictable even in the day. The guy at the door is nicely honest at telling you if it's worth coming in before you pay $37. Sometimes at 2 there's only 1 or 2 people and sometimes there's 50. Weekends are usually good, sometimes wonderful. Get ready for hotel sticker shock. Hotel Schueble on the corner is all our favorite. Also Uber sticker shock which makes unwalkable hotels expensive too. If I hear who's in Zurich I'll let you know. Many Czechs rotate in.

thanks! I’m flying tonight, and plan to go tomorrow (Monday).....thanks for the advice - I’ll go in the afternoon and ask the guy at the door before I pay/go in. If you have any suggestions on who to look for, that would be wonderful.

thanks much - Steve

Will do.....

Ok - I have to ask.....I’m going to go to Paragonya next week (first time for me there) - and I have two kind of random questions:

1. Several guys have mentioned a ‘shift change’ at 3:30 pm......I don’t understand what this refers to.....front desk staff (and so, why should I care), or are there working boys in shifts??

2. Is afternoon really the best time to go? Works for me, but I’m surprised that 5pm to close wouldn’t be more active?

any feedback greatly appreciated

cheers

Steve

Bump.

anyone?

Does anyone know of a gallery (url or irl) that sells framed photographs like these? I can see redecorating some (private) spaces with some of the photos that appear in the gallery.....side business for one of us?

Here is I think the source - I love the title:

Proving pride is in our DNA

https://blog.23andme.com/23andme-research/sexual-behavior-not-meaningfully-predicted-by-genetics-new-study-finds/?utm_medium=email&utm_source=23andme&utm_campaign=3.2.3_q3nl_cx_us_ha&utm_content=j_57800747_p_d0f90faae1a328be

That’s pretty clearly ‘something else’

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This is under appreciated thread. These guys have gorgeous bodies and physiques. The definition and the artistry are wonderful.

Thank you for posting!

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Gryffindor, Hufflepuff, Ravenclaw, and Slytherin refer to the names of the four Houses in the Harry Potter series which are distinguished by certain personality/character traits and thus signal their qualities (or what they think are their qualities) to you

@loremipsum - what house would you self-sort into? Maybe that is a question to be posed over cocktails?

Ok.....I like know none of these codes......wow

This one seems to have turned into an ear-worm quote for me today:

“if the cuddling afterward is the best part, you’re doing it wrong”

(from Veronica Mars season 2, of all the random things I have been watching......)

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Holy fuck, @loremipsum you are fast becoming my favourite poster here. I'll soon want to meet you.

I was thinking the same thing! Just had to check to see where I need to go to meet him.......

Interesting thread - I was contemplating posting the same question..... I seem to be on a continuing quest for exceptional oral providers. I was considering

Pnklemonade (currently traveling)

https://rent.men/pnklemonade

or

Eric Hassan

http://erichassan.com/

or another of our respected forum members

https://rent.men/DominiKingNYC

any one else have 2cents (or even better, some first hand experience) to contribute?

as always - much thanks!

cheers

Steve