SeattleWorkingMan

If I takes messages from regulars or a repeat out of consideration, my breakdown is:
 
30% are either bored, horny or both, but have no interest in actually meeting. "What will happen when we meet?"
20% are also a total waste of time, asking to see more pics, when there are several on the site where they found me
20% are far in advance planners. Its January, and they are asking about meeting in September when they are scheduled to visit NYC, or they are asking when I have plans to be in another city other than where I am.
10% Want to just tell me my pic or dick is nice.
20% Are real inquiries, of which maybe 40 -50% actually work out.
 
Therefore, I'm happy to have my regulars!!

I would estimate about 15% of the messages I receive are wastes of some variety. Typically, they are messages that just say "avail?" or "sup?" (which I don't acknowledge) or just a "hello" or "saw your ad" to which I respond something like "hello, this is eric - who is this?" and which gives a 50% chance they'll never respond.
 
I am counting messages that don't result in appointments for whatever reason in the 85% of communication that I receive that's legit.
 
What can be really interesting to track is how many conversations you have versus how many appointments - I find that to be a more interesting measure of the work I do. I tracked this for about 6 months a year ago or so and found I have about 10 conversations for every appointment that I have. That includes conversations with others that didn't result in an appointment and separate conversations with the same person over multiple days counted each day (so if we exchanged some texts yesterday and then again today, that I would count as 2 conversations when tracking this).

5% complete nonsense
5% rude and downright awful
15% goes nowhere
75% real inquiries that may or may not lead to an appointment

Put the money on the table. Boom. Ice broken. (I’m kidding, kinda).
 
I mean, you weren’t the one hired so technically it’s not your job to “break the ice,” but I understand some working boys lack social skills.
 
But if you feel it’s absolutely your responsibility and makes you comfortable..I wouldn’t recommend getting all eHarmony and playing Sade or putting on a movie. I LOVE LOVE LOVE when clients compliment or bring up content/text they saw on my ad or RM interview, it leads to great convo and I feel additional research was done and time was taken to get to know me and I wasn’t just booked per physical appearance, but because there were mutual interests. I love contemporary art and have mentioned so extensively in my interview and am booked regularly by people who also love the arts. BUT, I also understand most profiles/interviews say “hung, xxl, like to work out, luxurious experience,” blah blah blah. Make do with what you have. Escorts love to talk about themselves, ask non-invasive, open-ended questions.
 
Advice for the escort: fill out your goddamn interview and try not to sound like a tool. Yes you workout 5x a week, awesome. Most hookers do. But what else???

In my experience, some escorts have their own way of breaking the ice, while others leave it to the client. There are two that I specifically recall. The first time I met my favorite escort, and most frequent hire, we sat on the bed, he held my hand, looked in to my eyes and simply said "How are you doing today?". That somehow got me relaxed and started a nice conversation that soon moved on to an amazingly hot time. The second was an escort I met while traveling to his city. He entered my hotel room, gave me a smile, put down his backpack and immediately started kissing me passionately. No need to break any ice there!
 
When they leave it up to me, I start off thanking them for meeting me and then ask a few benign questions, such as which part of town they live, if they have a "day job". If conversation flows, I always ask "I hope you don't mind me asking a few questions, I just want to get to know you". Most don't mind at all. The transition from talk time to play time then seems to come naturally.

Expecting a great time without too many expectations helps me relax. By the time we meet face-to-face and close the door, several good things have already happened: I'm attracted to him or I wouldn't have contacted him in the first place, I've showered and dressed comfortably and know I'll smell clean (without cologne that he may or may not like) and that I'll taste good, I've communicated already that I want to top or bottom so he knows how to prepare, and I'm on time & found his place. I slip the envelope onto a dresser within plain sight without saying anything to get that out of the way. I don't prescribe exactly what I expect to do every minute - allow for electricity and surprises. Have fun exploring. Trust his sexual energy and experience (he's the pro!) and look forward to learning from him and with him. If small talk happens right away, cool - if it doesn't, no problem. A "thank's for seeing me," or "I'm glad our scheduling worked out," or even an honest, "Hey, I'm always nervous at first," could help you relax and give him a chance to do what he has learned to do to help guys relax. And you don't have to say anything at all, that initial hug or kiss - if you haven't shared a hug and welcome kiss the minute you stepped in, now's the time. Have fun!

Ok to start off please dont judge me lol. Whenever I meet a new guy I always get nervous. I used to cut on Netflix at the start of the session to help ease the nervousness, but there have been a few times where Netflix was more entertaining then me lol.
 
What are some good things to do to break the ice when meeting with a new escort? I like my sessions to feel more comfortable and more like a friend with benefits session versus a business meeting haha.
 
Any advice would be hopeful from clients or escorts.

So this is the first review I've written and it was the best experience I've had. He gets ★★★★★ from me!
 
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I just looked at his ad.
 
He has 39 all 5-star positive reviews.
 
He must be doing something right.
 
https://rentmen.eu/WarrenParker/

Just met with Warren - had a great time - review to follow. Btw, he is relocating to Portland OR.

Nice guy. Not as muscular as his photos when i saw him for a massage last summer.

This guy hits a lot of my buttons -- older, taller, handsome hung black top with a great build. I had a brief exchange with him, and he seemed easy to talk to and professional in his communication. Unfortunately he was in town while I was traveling, though he said he expects to be back.
 
Has anyone met Warren Parker?
 
https://rent.men/WarrenParker/

CutlerX is a great Top - don’t be concerned - I met him earlier this year and was able to painlessly take him balls deep due to his expertise

Hello, gentlemen! (And all)
 
It would appear that the rumours of my demise have been greatly exaggerated.
 
Thank you for your kind words, and for all your opinions. Yes, I have been away from this forum for a year. A kind soul told me that there were a few questions being asked about me, so I thought I'd stop by and answer them to the best of my ability.
 
Yes, I am happily now living in the realm of the fully grown man. I am no spring chicken, nor I want to be, but I would imagine that if you want a young boy, you would not hire a 40 year old man. (You'd think).
 
If you like grown men with lots of experience, I might be a good match for you, though.
 
Even though it might feel vaguely flattering to think that some of you feel that me and my pictures have been in your lives for up to 20 years, I have only been escorting for 14 years, which I realize, in Hooker years it makes me 150.
 
While two dick pictures in my profile are indeed very old, I have kept them thinking my dick looks exactly the same. (It must be all that dick botox). If you saw pictures of me older than 6 years ago you would find it hard to believe I am the same person. (I am not. I was a boy with a boy body then, now I am a man).
 
One third of my pics are from this year. The other third from last year. The rest are as old as two years old. (exception made of those two dick pics) As soon as I stop looking the same, I discontinue them but like to keep oldish pics just to create continuity in my visual identity. If you want to see pictures that are less than one week old, please refer to the ones at the bottom of this message.
 
I realize that for some of you I will still be 75 years old, using pictures from the early daguerrotype days. I have to make my peace with that. In this time in which factual information has no weight, I am not shocked to see this also applies to escorts.
 
Also, I include PNP in my ad because I am perfectly comfortable if my client is partaking in relaxing stuff. I am not comfortable around clients doing the harsh chemicals. Personally, the risks far outweighs the pay off. All hail Pot and Poppers! Mostly my client partakes, while I take care of him sober.
 
Lastly, BabyBoomer, I didn't delete that post. I am glad you shared it. Thank you! I still stand for every word in it. My guess is that the powers that be might have disliked the unflattering portrait I painted of this community and some of its members, and decided to take it down. Truth is I don't know.
 
On a different note... Yes, Thor is an entirely beautiful man all around. If I had to choose who to fuck between me and him I would also choose him, which I did. He is very happily retired and has absolutely no interest in any kind of proposal. Thanks for your kind words about him.
 
Without much further ado, I again thank you for your kind words. I wish you are all well and happy, and I hope everyone will treat you with the same kindness you show others.
 
Should you have any other question about my services, please feel free to email me at juanbruno@me.com.
 
Hugs and good wishes,
 
Juan Bruno
 
www.rentmen.com/juanbruno
 

Dunno if I’m your type @Batch79, but I have been specialising in introducing my clients to prostate stimulation and anal orgasms for more than 5 years. I am quite an expert and feel confident that I can help anyone who is after this experience to find what they’re looking for. Not always on the first attempt, but usually that’s because people are over-thinking it, nervous about anal penetration, or otherwise not in the right frame of mind. My success rate is very high and my clients rave about the experience I give when introducing them to it. All my reviews are from pre-transition and thus the “juicy details” are behind a paywall on TER, but almost every single one of my reviews from the last 3-4 years discusses my talent with prostate stimulation and the resulting out-of-this-world orgasms that ensue. (See my signature for the link to those.)
 
An anal orgasm is a much more full-bodied, intense, and longer-lasting surge as compared to a penile orgasm. It’s not uncommon for guys to lose control of their legs, lose the ability to form sentences, etc when/for a few minutes after having an orgasm. Basically a penile ejaculation is a bottle rocket in comparison to this diesel-engined monstor truck. The journey toward a prostate orgasm sometimes feels too intense to even handle psychologically- tho there should be no pain involved, guys often describe is as being TOO MUCH PLEASURE TO HANDLE (omg it’s so intense, can’t believe how intense...); some people welcome the roller coaster ride and some just aren’t ready for it. (This is one of the reasons I mention some people being undermined by their own psychological blocks.)
 
But most people can adjust to the newness of the intensity within a few minutes and joyride thru the mind-blowing pleasure levels from the extended prostate stroking. I love to combine the prostate stimulation with an extraordinary tease of blowjob... the tip of the cock has these nerves that connect back to the prostate and the combination is pure bliss...
 
One thing I love about giving prostate orgasms is that I as the stimulator am in total control of when the orgasm occurs. So I can really tease someone and draw the pleasure out, tho many people also tell me in no uncertain terms when they are ready for the earthquake to roll its way through their body, and I’m inclined to oblige. But it’s really fun to pull the trigger myself. The prostate is the body’s control center for orgasms- once it’s being stimulated, the cock loses its relevancy in being the cause of orgasm. Something a lot of bottoms probably already know, but a new experience for a lot of tops.
 
Prostate stimulation and anal orgasms are accessible even to most people who struggle with bottoming, because something as small as a single finger can provide enough stimulation to give an earth-shattering prostate orgasm. Size and length are not the key to this puzzle, but rather curvature. A curved dick, a curved finger, a curved toy: anything curved can hit the right spot, but a straight object is unlikely to do the trick. (Depends on internal body shape and position too I suppose.) The prostate is located just a few inches inside the body, so there’s no need to plunge that deep either.
 
My favourite toy for prostate stimulation (and by far the biggest crowd pleaser among my clients and especially my repeat clients) is the njoy “pure wand”. It’s perfectly curved for giving anal orgasms and feels so smooth and warm inside the body that it actually feels way more natural than you would expect considering it’s made of surgical-grade steel...
http://www.njoytoys.com/products/purewand.php

Also make sure you book enough time.
 
It’s hard to have your first time AND feel comfortable in 60 minutes in most instances, from both perspectives, even if you think it may be.
 
Just make sure you have enough time.

I have asked a few of my favorite guys if they'll allow me to take photos. I never broach the subject on my first meeting, ever! Only my favorites, with whom I have excellent trust built up. Some, such as a few porn guys, actually really get into it, and often they are the guys who want to get naked and hard for my camera. A few love to share graphic shots: selfies & even pictures other clients have taken. Then there are those among my regular escorts who are very discreet but are willing for me to take everyday pictures of them fully dressed when we go out to a meal, etc.
 
I always ask any and all of them beforehand when I set up an appointment where I think I might enjoy taking a picture or 20! There are a few who are so private about their image, I know without asking that they would not allow any pictures, ever. I never even ask them for that reason. Yet most of my regulars are okay with pictures as long as I reassure them I will never share those pictures. A number, though, tell me that I am welcome to share the pictures if I want. Those guys tend to be quite the exhibitionists, proud of their bodies, endowments, butts and faces!
 
So. I've always found that many guys are happy letting you take pictures if you have developed great trust with each other.
 
TruHart1

@JackSpar, the gag reflex is a mostly a smooth muscle response to your body's perception it is about to choke and needs to protect itself. As such, it is not under your conscience control. Some people have very sensitive gag reflexes that they never overcome. I don't know if that's you, but you need to know that possibility exists.
 
Read the two articles below. And reread them. They have some good advice.
 
Learning to deepthroat was and is a journey for me. Just like anal sex, anatomical limits exist for oral sex too. You say you have a small mouth. That likely means you have a small throat too, so you must understand your structural limits. You might never be able to deepthroat a thick penis simply because it's not possible for your jaw to open enough to comfortably accommodate deep entry. Please be realistic and accept your physical limits. It's possible to develop very serious jaw issues if you try to force it. Dislocating your TMJ, Trismus, and TMJD are no joke.
 
The best way to begin the process of teaching your body to relax its gag reflex, is for you to be comfortable and in control while you work with someone you trust and are attracted to in a session where you are not rushed, he's very patient, and you're not trying to just shove it in. You must go slowly and work your way up to it. You will gag frequently, but if you go slowly enough, your body will begin to believe it won't choke when a penis is entering your throat. You'll need to learn how to breath through your nose while throating a cock, otherwise your body will gag when it wants oxygen.
 
@WmClarke's advice works for many people. A dildo didn't work for me because it was too impersonal. For me, I needed the incentive of wanting to please the guy I was sucking. Luckily, I had a friend years ago who's girlfriend never sucked because of his size and "it was gross." After many beers one night, he learned guys give much better head usually. Over time, I practiced on his 9" and can deepthroat fairly well now. And now he's happily married to a woman who loves sucking his cock and is as good as me. Or, at least as good as I was a few years ago.
 
But, it all depends on the size, shape, and thickness. Be patient with yourself. Your body did not evolve to have large hard objects thrust repeatedly into your mouth and throat. You have to teach your body that it's ok, safe, and enjoyable.
 
Are you current on all your vaccinations? HPV is a very strong suggestion if you're sucking cocks without condoms because oral and throat cancer rates are climbing rapidly in American men because they think cocksucking is safe. The risks vary, but many STDs and STIs are very easy to catch via oral sex, especially for the bottom.
 
http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/news/a35376/sex-talk-realness-deep-throating/
https://www.literotica.com/s/deep-throat

That moment when you're making out with the mouth that just ate you. The taste of your own ass on his lips.

Love it. And then, having him taste his own ass on your tongue in a deep, voracious kiss....priceless.

I find Dr. Bronners unscented liquid castile soap mild enough for most people for external use. Plain water for internal.
 
As far as natural odors go, yes there is a such thing as natural ass odor and no it is not even remotely the same as the smell of shit. Natural ass smell/taste is purely phenomenal and delicious unlike the smell of unwashed or improperly washed ass (or at least it's not MY thing, especially with someone I don't know super intimately). Totally different smells!

https://rent.men/CutlerXXX
 
http://www.daddysreviews.com/review/cutler_x_la

My most recent encounter with Mr. Tyler Long just reconfirms for me that he is one of the biggest escorts available out there mentioned on this forum for those that even care about that sort of thing. I have fairly big hands. Two of my hands could cover your average cable remote. Trying to go length with three hands doesn't completely cover this guy's endowment. Most guys that I encounter are about the length of two hands (still fairly big ). His pics are not photoshopped. I'm thinking that he actually might be a little bit bigger girth wise in person also.
 
https://rentmen.com/TylerLONG

He's so experienced that I was able to take him balls deep. I've had men who were much smaller hurt me as they didn't know what they were doing. Don't be fooled by his tuff guy porn persona - he's as sweet as can be.

After almost 10 years I was finally able to meet CutlerX during his short visit to Arizona. He looks exactly like his pics, solid build and big thick dick. He's a very nice guy, affectionate and great fun in the sack. I'll definitely see him again if he visits again. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️