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Here’s what’s up: I am a lifelong top, and have only recently discovered the pleasures of being stimulated on my anus and prostate. I have had a few prostate massages, some too rough and painful, and a couple very intense.

 

What I want next is an anal orgasm. I would love to be gently but intensely fingered, or maybe dildoed or fucked, until I have a gut-churning, mind-blowing, soul-shattering anal orgasm. Other men have assured me that this is possible, and that once I experience an anal orgasm, I’ll be astounded by the pleasure.

 

So how do I do this? How do I look for someone to help? How do I ask for an anal orgasm? Any advice would be much appreciated.

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Here’s what’s up: I am a lifelong top, and have only recently discovered the pleasures of being stimulated on my anus and prostate. I have had a few prostate massages, some too rough and painful, and a couple very intense.

 

What I want next is an anal orgasm. I would love to be gently but intensely fingered, or maybe dildoed or fucked, until I have a gut-churning, mind-blowing, soul-shattering anal orgasm. Other men have assured me that this is possible, and that once I experience an anal orgasm, I’ll be astounded by the pleasure.

 

So how do I do this? How do I look for someone to help? How do I ask for an anal orgasm? Any advice would be much appreciated.

Umm, hire an escort?

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I have had many but they just happen after intense and prolonged anal and prostate stimulation. I think if you focus on it then it will become elusive.

There was once a masseur (long retired) who could bring it on every time he massaged me but I had to just relax and enjoy what he was doing rather than concentrate specifically on the orgasm.

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I have used the "aneros" toys ... Not sure if what I feel is anal or prostate but it is quite pleasurable.

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I had a very “anal-centric” experience with an escort. That is to say nearly 6 hours of various types of anal stimulation and play. The use of toys, his fingers and soft and hard fucking. I orgasmed without cum. It was so strong. There was a lot of fluid coming from my ass. He is a pretty experienced escort. He let me know something I did not know, that the anus can produce fluid out of the mucosal membranes within. There were so many times I was twitching and squirming with pleasure. Is it possible I had an anal orgasm and didn’t realize that is what I had?

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I had a very “anal-centric” experience with an escort. That is to say nearly 6 hours of various types of anal stimulation and play. The use of toys, his fingers and soft and hard fucking. I orgasmed without cum. It was so strong. There was a lot of fluid coming from my ass. He is a pretty experienced escort. He let me know something I did not know, that the anus can produce fluid out of the mucosal membranes within. There were so many times I was twitching and squirming with pleasure. Is it possible I had an anal orgasm and didn’t realize that is what I had?

 

http://goaskalice.columbia.edu/answered-questions/anal-ejaculate

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Dunno if I’m your type @Batch79, but I have been specialising in introducing my clients to prostate stimulation and anal orgasms for more than 5 years. I am quite an expert and feel confident that I can help anyone who is after this experience to find what they’re looking for. Not always on the first attempt, but usually that’s because people are over-thinking it, nervous about anal penetration, or otherwise not in the right frame of mind. My success rate is very high and my clients rave about the experience I give when introducing them to it. All my reviews are from pre-transition and thus the “juicy details” are behind a paywall on TER, but almost every single one of my reviews from the last 3-4 years discusses my talent with prostate stimulation and the resulting out-of-this-world orgasms that ensue. (See my signature for the link to those.)

 

An anal orgasm is a much more full-bodied, intense, and longer-lasting surge as compared to a penile orgasm. It’s not uncommon for guys to lose control of their legs, lose the ability to form sentences, etc when/for a few minutes after having an orgasm. Basically a penile ejaculation is a bottle rocket in comparison to this diesel-engined monstor truck. The journey toward a prostate orgasm sometimes feels too intense to even handle psychologically- tho there should be no pain involved, guys often describe is as being TOO MUCH PLEASURE TO HANDLE (omg it’s so intense, can’t believe how intense...); some people welcome the roller coaster ride and some just aren’t ready for it. (This is one of the reasons I mention some people being undermined by their own psychological blocks.)

 

But most people can adjust to the newness of the intensity within a few minutes and joyride thru the mind-blowing pleasure levels from the extended prostate stroking. I love to combine the prostate stimulation with an extraordinary tease of blowjob... the tip of the cock has these nerves that connect back to the prostate and the combination is pure bliss...

 

One thing I love about giving prostate orgasms is that I as the stimulator am in total control of when the orgasm occurs. So I can really tease someone and draw the pleasure out, tho many people also tell me in no uncertain terms when they are ready for the earthquake to roll its way through their body, and I’m inclined to oblige. But it’s really fun to pull the trigger myself. The prostate is the body’s control center for orgasms- once it’s being stimulated, the cock loses its relevancy in being the cause of orgasm. Something a lot of bottoms probably already know, but a new experience for a lot of tops.

 

Prostate stimulation and anal orgasms are accessible even to most people who struggle with bottoming, because something as small as a single finger can provide enough stimulation to give an earth-shattering prostate orgasm. Size and length are not the key to this puzzle, but rather curvature. A curved dick, a curved finger, a curved toy: anything curved can hit the right spot, but a straight object is unlikely to do the trick. (Depends on internal body shape and position too I suppose.) The prostate is located just a few inches inside the body, so there’s no need to plunge that deep either.

 

My favourite toy for prostate stimulation (and by far the biggest crowd pleaser among my clients and especially my repeat clients) is the njoy “pure wand”. It’s perfectly curved for giving anal orgasms and feels so smooth and warm inside the body that it actually feels way more natural than you would expect considering it’s made of surgical-grade steel...

http://www.njoytoys.com/products/purewand.php

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I guess I need to make an appointee with an expert who can give an anal virgin his first backdoor orgasm. Recommendations for NYC and DC?

I’m not sure what your type is. I have a penchant for very tall tops. Private message me and I can give you the name of the guy I had. He is based in NYC

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I had a bottom recently exclaim during our session that I had found his "second hole". He seemed happy about it :)

What does it mean? Is it related to anal orgasm?

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I’m not sure what happened there for sure, but there are two sphincters. The second is hard to relax and enjoy the stimulation of.

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I guess I do not understand the whole concept. Of course, I get masturbatory orgasm. Then I understand masturbatory orgasm that is associated with anal intercourse. However, I have never had an orgasm associated with anal orgasm that is not associated with masturbation. For instance, it would be great if a guy fucked me and made me cum without me having to beat off, if you know what I mean. And actually a guy has made me cum a couple of times by massaging my hole or perhaps my prostate. It was using his fingers. But definitely not his penis. What I would pay a lot of money for is getting fucked and having him cum and then me cumming near or at the same time. Dreams die young.

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I guess I do not understand the whole concept. Of course, I get masturbatory orgasm. Then I understand masturbatory orgasm that is associated with anal intercourse. However, I have never had an orgasm associated with anal orgasm that is not associated with masturbation. For instance, it would be great if a guy fucked me and made me cum without me having to beat off, if you know what I mean. And actually a guy has made me cum a couple of times by massaging my hole or perhaps my prostate. It was using his fingers. But definitely not his penis. What I would pay a lot of money for is getting fucked and having him cum and then me cumming near or at the same time. Dreams die young.

Yeah! The notion that that can really happen is a great notion, I think one fueled by a straight girl faking it at the “appropriate “ time to fuel a straight guys ego!

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I had a bottom recently exclaim during our session that I had found his "second hole". He seemed happy about it :)

What does it mean? Is it related to anal orgasm?

 

It could potentially be relevant to an "anal orgssm" (if that even exists), but only as a coincidence. That just means that you popped into his second sphincter that separates the anal canal from the colon/lower intestine (the external anal sphincter is the first one). That only happens if the penis is long enough and/or the anal canal is short enough (depends on how small/short your bottom is), and the angle of penetration allowed for it.

 

I say it's a coincidence only because the anal orgasm seems more linked to intense prostate stimulation, which due to it's location, doesn't really have anything to do with piercing the 2nd hole. But if the bottom is super turned on by getting filled up to that level, it may contribute to the heightened state of arousal that may allow him to attain the anal orgasm. Plus, the pounding into the 2nd hole may also really work the prostate. It's pretty cool that you were able to please your bottom so well.

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